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Compulsory religion? Can it be avoided?

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Agame · 04/03/2025 01:33

Dear Mums… my DD and I just moved to Fife, Scotland from Texas, where she went to a British private school with no religious instruction at all, just academic subjects, arts, and fun. She’s been at St Leonards in St Andrews for two weeks. She’s five and in Year 1. She came home singing some Christian hymn and asking what the words meant. This is a shocker for me. I know St L is a great school, but iI don’t like Christian teaching happening behind my back at her school. It says nothing about Christian stuff being taught or infused into the curriculum on their website or any of their materials. What can or should I do? I’m not religious and I do not believe that school is where religion should be taught. There are many religions and many varieties of each. I believe it’s a personal and/or family decision. I’m taken aback to be learning now that religious instruction is compulsory in state schools in Scotland, and seems hard to avoid even in independent schools. Should I write a letter to the head of the school? Do I have any rights here? Are any schools simply secular private schools that leave religion out of the school day? Thank you!

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GravyBoatWars · 04/03/2025 21:30

OP, when you politely and open-mindedly sent a message to your DD's head of year or tutor and asked about how the school incorporates religion in the curriculum, what did they say? And have you requested their policy on religious education? That will lay out options for parents who might wish to withdraw students from certain lessons.

Doublethecuddles · 05/03/2025 08:50

The local primary schools will offer an education without daily worship. They will have Easter activities and probably a church service which you can withdraw your daughter from. At Christmas you can ask your daughter to do different craft activities and not to be part of the Christmas celebrations. State schools are quite use to accommodating these requests. Schools are always keen for parents to speak to the children in class about there beliefs.
The Scottish school system and way of life tends to be based round religious events eg Shrove Tuesday, Easter Sunday, Mothers Day etc. The only one we celebrate which is based on a pagan festival is Halloween.

sashh · 07/03/2025 03:28

SnoozingFox · 04/03/2025 12:36

If you are here long term your DD will probably have to take an RE GCSE

Err, no. No GCSEs in Scotland.

There are in private schools, including the one the OP has sent her child to.

https://www.stleonards-fife.org/senior-years/

Senior Years | St Leonards

https://www.stleonards-fife.org/senior-years/

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