Do you have them in your Dcs playground? I bet you do; Child comes out of school and the first thing that mum does is grab the childs book bag to see if "he/she has gone up a level" and then the spelling book to check that the poor child has got 10/10, meanwhile child is waiting for a kiss and a hug and a how has your day been? And this in infants too. I'm not one. Are other schools like this?