A new head has just stared at my son’s school- he’s 5. Was 3 when pandemic hit so most of school life has been in and out of lockdowns. He’s never settled in school (would cry at gates etc even before pandemic).
Post pandemic, it just got worse - every morning kicking and screaming and crying from the moment he woke. So talked to school and we came up with a plan, which involved things like arriving through a different, quiet part of school to calm him etc and school was understanding.
The first correspondence we get from the new head this week is a shitty, impersonal letter stating how many times he’s been late (loads, I admit) and that we may be fined/ prosecuted if he’s late in the future. He’s 5!! And just come out of a pandemic!!
anyone else experienced anything similar post covid? Any advice? Didn’t respond as I wanted to calm down...
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Fine/ prosecution threat over 5 yr old lateness
Pullingmyselftogether · 18/05/2022 04:06
1AngelicFruitCake · 18/05/2022 06:03
How is he once in school?
He might ‘only be 5’ but he’ll be learning loads at this age. The problem with being late each day is that he’s missing learning, which will add up after a while.
I think school handled it badly but perhaps now is a time to try a new approach.
BishyBarnyBee · 18/05/2022 05:45
He's not being threatened with a fine, you are. The fact he's 5 has nothing to do with it. He's not responsible for getting himself to school on time. You've said you've been late loads - you need to take responsibility for that and find a routine that works to get him there on time.
It's quite rare to hear of someone being fined for lateness, is there a wider attendance issue too?
Pullingmyselftogether · 18/05/2022 04:06
A new head has just stared at my son’s school- he’s 5. Was 3 when pandemic hit so most of school life has been in and out of lockdowns. He’s never settled in school (would cry at gates etc even before pandemic).
Post pandemic, it just got worse - every morning kicking and screaming and crying from the moment he woke. So talked to school and we came up with a plan, which involved things like arriving through a different, quiet part of school to calm him etc and school was understanding.
The first correspondence we get from the new head this week is a shitty, impersonal letter stating how many times he’s been late (loads, I admit) and that we may be fined/ prosecuted if he’s late in the future. He’s 5!! And just come out of a pandemic!!
anyone else experienced anything similar post covid? Any advice? Didn’t respond as I wanted to calm down...
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