Teacher told my child I had complained to school

[mugglebumthesecond]

I made a complaint to school about something that I felt was affecting my child's wellbeing and the teacher has told my child (age 10) I had complained and that's why a certain arrangement had changed.

It took a while to scrape me from the ceiling and now I don't know whether to complain again, therefore aggregating the situation or just silently fume.

I am a former teacher and understand the pressure these people are under and that teacher wellbeing is in the interest of my child, but who is she to tell my child discreet information, meant only for adults? I'm also a former governor and know I really could go nuts about this.

Where is the discretion these days stuck between a rock and a Hard place but livid.

That could have been sorted perfectly well by op explaining to her child that she needs it . The whole thing sounds bizarrely like op is determined to hide the child's issues from her; to the point of trying to pass off the use of the essential item (whatever it is) as being something the teacher is enforcing, not something she needs.
How weird it all sounds...