Yes, Iamaslave:
I did want DD1 to get into King Edward grammar school within easy commuting distance - she didn't missed by 6 points - but we had our doubts and moved to a better catchment for secondary so in general we're content with our senior school option (having avoided what would have been our previous option - sink school in special measures with known drug issues).
But Iamaslave: parents need two things:
reliable indicators (and I'm not fussy - but something that should in theory work across the board - I was happy with old NC Levels but think that a low 4c is miles away from a high 4a - therefore reporting NC L4 to a parent can be mistranslated as GREAT - my child has done really well - when in fact if they've only just scraped it I fear the 'cold' reality may be that they're really going to struggle in senior school - especially as they aren't doing quite so badly as to immediately merit additional support.
open/ transparent feedback - I've posted for 4 years about the utter despair I was in with DD1 at end of Y2 - she could barely read one syllable words, could only add to 20 and couldn't subtract. We'd been increasingly asking questions - saying we're confused x or y school are having their y2 take two digit numbers from 3 digit numbers. In the US at the end of first grade the expectations is you can add/ subtract to 100.
We were perpetually told - not to compare to other places/ DD1 was young for the year/ her age/ she'll develop at her own speed/ etc...
None of these things were untrue - but that wait and see attitude wasn't particularly helpful.
What is so difficult in providing parents with some advice on how to explain subtraction (and I'm talking 10 take away 1). We were utterly left to it and the school totally refused to recommend/ suggest anything (went right up to HT level). We were provided with a copy of the national curriculum (fat lot of use that was) and told they were teaching to it.
So Iamaslave - what I'd like as a parent is milestones.
By the end of Year 1 folks (and I mean all of England) - a normal child should be able to read most one syllable words they encounter, count to 100, add/ subtract numbers to 20 - possibly still using fingers/ toes.
By end of Year 2 folks (and again I mean all of England) - a normal child shoudl be able to sound out most words encountered - but may struggle with unusual pronunciations or new words. A child should be capable of reading X book by way of an example. A child should be able to count by intervals of 2/ 5/ or 10 to 100 (first steps into multiplication). A child should be able to add/ subtract numbers to 100.
It took me nearly 3 years to work out on my own that these 'milestones' weren't 'the moon' or 'unreasonable' but were in fact more or less expectations on the old national curriculum - but the school absolutely refused to prepare anything on what children should be doing by when - the were utterly resistant to explaining what will be covered. Statements to parents about what was happening in a term for maths were children will be covering numeracy unit 2a-c.
Patronising/ obfuscating just doesn't sum it up.
I get Iamaslave - that good schools (and they are out there) will devise a system for their school regarding attainment which is clearly explained to parent and will engaged in frank conversations with parents who have children struggling a bit. But Iamaslave - that's not every school and after 7 years, hand on heart - that seriously isn't St. Mediocre - God have mercy on all who enter there.