Marking my spot rather late in the day.
We have a distant chance of getting into our #1 choice school and bugger all chance of 2 & 3 - put them down for a laugh really, or in case a meteorite fell on all the houses within 200yrds of these schools, or something... Both lovely schools but the catchment is BEYOND tiny.
Our back-up is a lovely wee Catholic prep school ten minutes walk away. I'd be happy if the girls went there, but our bank balance? Not so much. So this decision makes about £112ks worth of difference to our family finances. That's about half our mortgage... 
I honestly don't know how I feel. If we don't get in to #1, 2 or 3, then we'll be offered the one on our doorstep. I have about as much intention of sending my daughters there as I do about sending them to to the front line in Afghanistan, so it'll be the private prep, and decision made.
If we DO get our #1 choice, then I have to think hard about whether to still go the private route (small class sizes, more intimate school as #1 is ha-uge, no NC, various other benefits) or save ourselves a small fortune and take the state place, use the money for additional tutoring, music lessons, horse-riding and paying off the mortgage as required...
I've never been so conflicted in my life!
Gah!!
We should find out by email tonight...
WWYD in my situation?
Pass the gin, I don't care that it's only two in the afternoon.
db
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