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Teachers and Parents, please help! Please,really don't know what to do!

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TheRoundTable · 08/04/2012 18:31

Hello!

I have got a child in Year2 and even when in Year 1,her teacher complained about her 'up and down' learning. She'd understand a concept one day and be totally lost on the same, the next day,particularly in Maths. I've tried everything or at least I think so-backing off, simple games online cbeebies/cbbc,bite-sized chunks regularly,strict approach-but we come back to this point of frustration!
Some days, she solves quite tricky problems-knows her doubles which she uses to solve near doubles,finds differences between numbers,addition and subtraction in her head,so can do 67+24 or 67-24,and word problems,e.t.c.
One day,she's telling me we need 7 4x if 4 apples cost 7p each and would say two 7s are 14 and two 14s are 28 so 28p.

Some days? She's totally lost! I have tried going back to the basics over and over and over! The frustrating thing is I lose my temper sometimes and then she gets it! I can't begin to fake losing my temper before she learns? And of course her teacher can't do that,so she is not doing well at all at school. I am tired of helping her at home,because it's like we keep going round in circles,thinking we are making progress at some point and then boom! All out the window again!

I don't think she has any special needs and her teachers do not think so either...

Will be very grateful for any advice offered. Thank you!

OP posts:
mrz · 11/04/2012 08:37

The OPs child is having problems in school and at home recalling knowledge/skills?
The Y1 teacher raised a concern last year ?
The Y2 teacher doesn't think there is a problem?
The OP doesn't think there is an educational difficulty?

learnandsay · 11/04/2012 09:06

Please, whatever you do, don't lose your temper with her. That's the worst thing you can do. It'll associate negative feelings with maths, and that combination lasts for life. Better to switch to watching Pepper Pig.

Make maths fun. Play games, give rewards. Act out what we in our house call number stories, where we make sets of objects into quantities and perform operations on them. Then we explain what we've done. It's all fun. Above all there's no wrong or right. We just continue until the story has been told.

TheRoundTable · 11/04/2012 18:49

Thank you so very much everyone for your advice and suggestions.
Thank you very much Carrie-do please stay on on Mumsnet...
I really appreciate EVERYONE's help,honestly,Thank you!

I don't think my daughter has SEN. I will however be alert to see if there are any pointers in that direction. I probably will sneak it into the conversation I'm going to have with her teacher,just so she watches her more, hopefully, to see if there are any signs of that...
What I've decided is to work on her confidence with her teacher. In Reception, she had no issues at all with any school work,Yr1 everything was a struggle until she felt more confident with Literacy and her teacher is very happy with that. I will wait and see how that goes...
I have started her on Omega,because I do believe it helps and since it will do no harm... I have also told her about taking more water at school and going to get her a nice bottle rolls eyes :)

Thanks again everyone and I'm sorry it's taken me a long time to respond

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pastoralacademia · 11/04/2012 19:40

Good luck RoundTable, follow your instinct and keep an eye and I am sure she will be fine.

PastSellByDate · 12/04/2012 11:15

Good Luck TheRoundTable:

What I will say is do seriously look into whether the vitamins you're now giving your DD are 'fat soluble' - make sure dosage is appropriate for age and weight or you will be storing away health problems. vegetarian society fact sheet on vitamins here: www.vegsoc.org/page.aspx?pid=777

I personally would recommend a few old fashioned ideas - in keeping with my name:

more fresh fruit and veg snacks (that old saying - 'five a day' really is a good idea, especially for growing children).

Try fish 2x a week (after all we're an island nation, and we should support our fishing fleet. Also try to avoid just salmon, add some variety & try something new). (by the way this is ye olde fashioned omega acids). see also: www.scotland.gov.uk/Topics/Business-Industry/Food-Industry/Seafood/fish

best of luck with everything

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