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Medical abortion help me please

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Girl2020 · 07/05/2020 22:27

Hi everyone sorry I know this is not a great topic but I am getting my medical abortion pill in the post tomorrow and my anxiety is through the roof I can’t stop thinking about it and crying and thinking how will it feel and what if it goes wrong I just need some support please I feel like I really can’t cope at the moment
I can’t think straight or sleep and I really don’t feel I can take the tablets and I know I don’t want this baby I just fear the unknown

Thank you

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Girl2020 · 15/05/2020 17:04

@sunnydays3 I’m glad you feel better too. Yes I will let you know. I just have slight cramps at the min x

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Chatons · 15/05/2020 19:02

Well done for taking the first pill.

Hopefully you’ll feel loads better once it’s all over, and can give yourself some treats.

Girl2020 · 15/05/2020 19:21

@chatons thank you very much. I hope it’s all over with soon just hope tomorrow goes as good as it can. Thank you everyone for all their love and support this group has been what gave me the courage. Virtual hugs to you all x x @Pinkyyy@MINEareCRAFTy@ofwarren@VaselineOnToast@Babyiwantabump@ItsABitOfAShitFightMate@Elieza@justdontatme sorry anyone else I have missed x x

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ofwarren · 15/05/2020 19:31

Keeping my fingers crossed that it's over quickly for you ❤️

MINEareCRAFTy · 15/05/2020 22:19

Good luck, I'll be checking in here on how you are doing.

HeyAllYouCoolCatsAndKittenz · 15/05/2020 22:30

thank you for the update op bope you are feeling ok. Flowers x

HeyAllYouCoolCatsAndKittenz · 15/05/2020 22:30

*hope

SunnyDays3 · 15/05/2020 22:43

Thinking of you x

Ilovebanoffeepie · 16/05/2020 09:07

Hope you’re ok x

Chatons · 16/05/2020 09:26

Hope everything goes ok today.

Girl2020 · 16/05/2020 13:52

I am taking the second lot of pills at 3 when It’s been 24hours. I am very worried it’s the waiting and just hope it’s not painful 😣 x x

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Chatons · 16/05/2020 14:13

Best wishes! You can do this!

SunnyDays3 · 16/05/2020 14:47

You will be fine, take your pain killers grab a hot water botttle and let the tablets do their thing. This time tomorrow u will be over the worst. Sending hugs Flowers x

MINEareCRAFTy · 16/05/2020 19:04

Are you OK?

SunnyDays3 · 16/05/2020 19:59

@Girl2020 hope u ok been thinking of u all day x

Girl2020 · 16/05/2020 20:20

Hi all. Thank you so much for messaging very sweet. It’s been a rough few hours for me. I took them at 4:30 and had light cramps which wasn’t bad then for around an hour they got severe. I have had sickness and diarrhoea. Just had the second lot of vaginal tablets and I am now starting to pass blood but the cramps have eased but nothing blood clot wise had come out yet. Feeling a bit cold and shivery but going to have a bath shortly and hope it’s all over with soon x x

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Girl2020 · 16/05/2020 20:21

But I know these symptoms are to be expected so fingers crossed at the moment 😢

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SunnyDays3 · 16/05/2020 20:40

Oh bless you! Hopefully the worst will come soon and hope u have an ok night x

MINEareCRAFTy · 16/05/2020 21:09

Do you have someone with you? Thinking of you, I'm a week on and feel almost exactly back to normal and happy we made the right decision. You will be feeling much better soon x

Girl2020 · 16/05/2020 21:38

How heavy did you all bleed guys? I’m bleeding pretty heavy now I called out of hours and they said to monitor it x

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SunnyDays3 · 16/05/2020 22:12

I havent went through it yet hun but reading about it if ur soaking through 2 pads an hour then that’s when u need to seek medical advice. It’s prob heavy now as that’s u prob passing everything. How far on are you and is it as bad as u imagined? Xx

Chatons · 16/05/2020 22:19

That sounds quite unpleasant, but probably normal.

It’s great fun being a woman isn’t it?

KindnessCrusader · 16/05/2020 22:27

Hope you're ok op Thanks

Girl2020 · 17/05/2020 09:33

Hello all! Bit of advice please. I woke up this morning and soaked through two pads in the night. Had a gush of blood when stood up and still bleeding heavy. TMI I know but anyone else experience this? Is it normal? X x

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MINEareCRAFTy · 17/05/2020 09:49

I had to go to hospital after soaking a pad in about 20 minutes