I'm pregnant and need help

[Skye123]

So I've found out I'm three weeks pregnant which was unplanned so my first instinct was to have a termination but I can't seem to make the appointment to go ahead with it. Has anyone had an experience where they had a surgical termination as I'm scared about how painful it will be. I'm also equally scared of the idea of keeping the child as I'm not at all ready for children. Really in a dilemma as my doctors are useless and I don't want to go to them until I've made my decision.

Try the pregnancy choices board x

It's under body and soul there are lots of similar posts x

Yes this thread is read by ladies desperate for a baby, so I reckon you will get better advice in pregnancy choices. Good luck xxx

Didn't mean to be blunt my phone is crap and struggle to type, hope you get the answers you need xx

I have had a surgical termination. I didn’t want one but I didn’t end up having much of a choice. It didn’t hurt as I opted to go under GA. However I’ve been unable to get pregnant since despite trying for over a year and it seems that the reason is connected to the termination. I would advise posting this or having it moved to the pregnancy choices board, you’ll get a lot more advice and support over there. All I am advise is, think really hard about the pros and cons and know that a surgical termination can come with long term consequences (it’s rare but possible) Good luck

Hi, we're moving this thread over to our Pregnancy Choices topic so the OP can get some more support and advice.