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Pregnancy post-MC, bring your cake but no more wine or tightie whities - Totally's Grads continued part 3....

951 replies

clareanna · 03/07/2010 10:28

Alba- your wish is my command!!

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Muser · 16/08/2010 17:08

Huge sympathy to SB, you poor thing. Hope they sort you out.

Alba I am Shock at your experience. What utter bastards. Please put in a proper written complete.

Jolls I am patiently waiting to hear from you. I do hope everything is good.

randomimposter · 16/08/2010 17:15

Thank you all for so many lovely posts.

Sadly another MMC, baby measured 10+1. Have had a few tears of course, but am ok, as was not really a shock as suspected it really.

Back to EPU tomorrow for next steps. Off to pick DS from nursery and squeeze him SOOOOO hard he'll turn pink :).

toomuchteaching · 16/08/2010 17:17

Shock Alba I can't believe they were so horrible. But try not to let slip your mind that the baby is all well, wriggly and healthy. That is the most important thing!

toomuchteaching · 16/08/2010 17:20

Oh Jollster I just cross-posted with you, I am so very very sorry... what crap. I really am gutted, I think everyone's been enjoying you rushing in and out. Please please take care of yourself, even if you did suspect it it's still a shitty thing to happen, so rest and take the time you need. I really am so sorry.

Redheadgal · 16/08/2010 17:27

Jollster - I was so desperately saddened to hear your news. There are no words, there never are. But you and your family are in my thoughts tonight. xx

Magic8ballhastheanswers · 16/08/2010 17:35

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX Jolls I am so sad for you and have been thinking of you all day. Sending you big hugs and I hope you are getting lots of love and cuddles from DH & DS. Shout on FB if you need to rant! XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

SB hope you are ok - will keep checking in for news.....

Alba sorry you have had a rough time this afternoon. It really p!sses me off that they can be so bloody insensitive! I hope your complaint is followed up - maybe out it in writing too?

Muser · 16/08/2010 17:35

Oh jollster. I'm so sorry. It's so unfair.

AlbaDeTamble · 16/08/2010 17:38

Jollster I'm so, so sorry, was wishing so hard that all would be well. Gutted for you. Huge squeeze Sad

clareanna · 16/08/2010 17:56

jolls can't believe it- am so so sad for you- big hugs xxx

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SamanthaB123 · 16/08/2010 18:25

Oh God Jolls, I'm so sorry. I just don't know what to say. I am thinking of you and your family, SB

hippychick66 · 16/08/2010 18:32

alba so sorry to hear about your experience today. I know you were dreading going back to the same place. At least all was well with the baby (bless him), try to focus on that for now honey.

People can be so bloody insensitive.

jolly I've messaged you on the 40+ thread, lovie.

dorcas111 · 16/08/2010 18:47

Jollster I'm so sorry, that is just heartbreaking. Life is so bloody unfair. I've been thinking of you today and hoping that you got good news- gutted for you that this happened again. Take good care of yourself x x x

Gi1da · 16/08/2010 18:50

Oh Jolls I'm so very sorry, totally unfair. You know we've all been rooting so hard for you. Thinking of you xx

Gi1da · 16/08/2010 18:57

SamB hope pain/itch settles down, did you get some answers at the hosp today?

Alba I am tempted to go round and give that beyatch MW a right talking to on your behalf! What a piece of work! Angry Glad BeanieTamble is ok though.

You too MiniMuser

Unbuffy · 16/08/2010 19:21

Just poking head around the door with lots of huge squeezes and hugs for Jolls, and the odd tear too. What a bitch for you honey, so unfair I don't know what to say. xxx

Also hugs liberally doled out to Alba (along with swearing and shouting) and SamB (but very very gently so as not to hurt) and MuseAnd Bump (happy hugs not sympathy).

(All very un-mn)

Hope everyone else is okay, too, here are some lovely slices of buttered toast for you all and virtual puppycuddles. x

louisesh · 16/08/2010 19:36

Very sorry JOLLS.

MEITA finges crossed for you...WOW you re soo nearly there!!! My sisters wedding was totally beautiful....had a fab weekend.She looked gorgeous.Arh.....Grin

I m fine after the car accident GEORGIE is wriggling around all over the place.

Hi to everyone else.

LucyT66 · 16/08/2010 20:27

Jollster - so so sorry to hear this news. Hope you are getting love and hugs from family xxx

SamanthaB123 · 16/08/2010 21:39

I'll tell my story tomorrow, but I am now home and fine. Feeling very sad for Jolls right now Sad.

HappyGirl1 · 16/08/2010 21:56

Jollster can't believe your news, you poor poor thing, so so so sad. You poor thing xx

boodleboot · 17/08/2010 01:22

hello all

oh jolls...what a total fucker. so so sorry.

ive got bloody insomnia again and braxtons to strong to sleep thru plus a numb foot...but im very grateful to be here especially as we see again how fragile this whole process of making babies is....

be kind to urself jolls....

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

randomimposter · 17/08/2010 09:07

thank you everyone - I'm very touched.

Am ok - moving house next week so no time to mope. Have to work out logistics of how long to give nat MC to work before ERPC.

At this point I think I will TTC again, but am starting to consider the horrible prospect that the old eggs are just too knackered.

Anyway I will pop in and see how you're all doing from time to time - please all keep well and enjoy the journey x

sparklyrainbow · 17/08/2010 09:44

Oh Jolls that's crap. So sorry. Thinking of you x

SB glad you are ok.

Goodluckbear · 17/08/2010 10:21

Jolls I'm so sorry. I know there are no words, I just wanted to say I'm thinking of you. Just so sorry this has happened. xxxx

SamanthaB123 · 17/08/2010 10:46

Tuesday's List

Meita - baby#1 - (not telling) ? 40 wks, due 17th August
Boodleboot - baby#3 - 1DD {10} 1DS {5} - 35+6 wks - due 12th Sept
TFLS - baby#1 - 34+6 wks, due 23 Sept
LeeWT - baby#2 (DD1 2yrs) 34+6 wks, due 30th Sept
Louisesh - baby#1, 33+4 wks, due 1st Oct
Effilump - Baby#5, 31+3 wks, due 16th Oct
SamanthaB123 baby#3(2x DD's 11 & 9 yrs) 30+6 wks, EDD 20th October
Unbuffy - baby#2 (1 DD) - 25+3 wks EDD 27th November
HappyGirl - baby#1, 23+6 weeks, EDD 8th December
Zayja - baby#1, 23+3 wks, EDD 11th December
Goodluckbear - baby#1, 22+3 wks, EDD 18th December
Malteser1981 - baby#1, 22+3 wks, EDD 18th December
Gilda - baby#1 - 21+3 wks, due 25th December
BunnyBaby - baby#3 - 21+3 wks, due 25th December
LucyT66 - baby#1 21+3 wks EDD 26th December
sparklyrainbow - Baby#1 20+5 wks EDD 30th December
AlbaDeTamble - baby#2 (DS 2) - 20+1 wks EDD 3rd January - next scan today
toomuchteaching - baby#1 19+6 wks EDD 5th January - next scan 17th August
Redheadgal - baby#1 19+4 wks EDD 6th January 2011 - next scan 20 August
diggingforvictory - baby#4 (DS 1) 18+3 wks EDD 15th January
WestYorkshireGirl - baby#1, 18 weeks EDD January 18th
Dorcas111 - baby#1, 16+4 weeks, EDD 28th January
Clareanna - baby#2, one DS, 14+3 weeks ADD 3rd Feb 2011 next scan 1st October
LilRedWG - baby#2, 1DD, 13+6 weeks EDD 14th Feb
Muser - baby#1, 12+2 weeks, EDD 27th Feb
BUnderTheBonnet - baby#2, 1DD 12 weeks 1st March
Rayeraye - baby #2 one DD 10+3 weeks Northerngoldilocks - baby #1, 9+5 weeks. EDD 17 March, next scan 3 Sept
Magic8ballhastheanswers babies #3&4 9+1 weeks EDD 20th March 2011 Scan 8th September
Liahgen - baby#6 8+5 weeks EDD 15th March
Hopefully - baby #2 7+3 weeks EDD 2nd April
Osch - baby #? 6 weeks EDD 10th April
Naitimum - baby #2 1DS 5+3 weeks EDD?

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:
Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May - 9lb 1oz

We share the pain and mourn the loss with:
Jollster, Cheepz, Freezing, BarrenBrook, MsJL, LadyBee and Moofold

Good morning,

Thank you for all of the lovely messages of concern yesterday, I had variable internet access in the hospital and could look from time to time. Posting was more difficult. I was so upset to hear Jolls news and by the end of the day it put my news into perspective. I am fine. I do have a few areas of medical concern that can be problematic in pregnancy (ovarian cyst, cyst on kidney etc.) but essentially I am healthy and so is my baby. The midwife did a trace of her activity and heartbeat and said it was ideal. She said it was the kind of trace that they would show to students as an example of exactly what you would expect in a healthy baby. All serious issues that could have caused the pain have been ruled out, but it does persist and I may need to go back for further monitoring. Essentially though I am very lucky. I am older and I have had a miscarriage, yet I am carrying a healthy, happy baby whom we all love already. I am resolved to just enjoy the last few weeks of my pregnancy Smile.

Alba Do you mind me asking where you had your scan? Either your experience is very similar to mine or we have been to the same hospital...I have changed to the hospital that I went to yesterday which is much better.

Meita There, you have made it to 40 weeks. I really hope that you are taking good care of yourself and keeping well.

Toomuch Good luck with your scan today, fx for good news.

Hope everyone else is well, SB x

Meita · 17/08/2010 11:44

:( :( :( Jollster so very, very sad for you. There are no words. :( :( :(

cheepz sweetie, thanks! I just wish you could be with us somewhere on the list.

Thinking of everyone today. The weather suits the mood.