how long did take to concieve your babies?

[xkatyx]

Hi,

i was just woundering how long it took with each child you had (if you have more than 1)

Me and dh concieved 1st and 2nd children first month of trying, also concieved first time 2 months ago but unfortunetly had a early MC.

Me and dh are ttc baby no 3 and i seam to have missed this month

Silly me really asumming i would be lucky enough again. I know i was extremly lucky as i can take some woman months.

So do you think there is something wrong why i didnt fall pregnant first time this month?
How long did it take to concieve your babies?

Third month of trying each time (2 Dcs, 1 m/c).

age 37 it took 2 months for dd

age 39 again 2 months, 1 month after I had stopped breastfeeding, I couldn't conceive whilst feeding so I count from then even though we were tired but active!

I am lucky conceived both mine in one month.

But both SIL and my mum caught first time twice but miscarried and then took about a year.
My mum always said it takes longer to conceive after a miscarriage it is natures way of making sure you have dealt with the grief, Also to make sure you are physically ready.

Although only a old wifes tale all the women I know who have mc have had difficulty conceiving after.

DS - 1 year

DD - wasn't trying to conceive, but MIL took DS out for a walk

slushy06 the opposite is actually true, you are more fertile after having miscarried, as I happily discovered.

Obviously not happy about miscarriage, happy about conceiving again afterwards.

DD1 first time and dd2 first time,i was 35 and 38 at the time.

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First month of trying for us. We were on holiday having a lovely time and really think the fact we were both so relaxed made all the difference. Baby due in 4 days!

Everyone has their own probelms. I fell PG first time both times but had a hell of alot of problems with first PG and after 2nd.

We are allowed to be upset about our own problems without a competition running.

I think it was insensitive to skip the fact that the poor OP had a MC and go onto picking her up on her thread at all.

Obviously if you think how the OP is feeling and not any potential readers....she is anxious because everything went fine first few times and now she has suffered a MC which must be a horrendous ordeal and now wondering why it is taking longer than usual.

xcatyz You will feel anxious im sure but thats probably due to what you've been through. It might take longer this time just because you are thinking about it more or your body is adjusting.

Hope you are on here moaning about morning sickness soon ! x

Everyone has their own probelms. I fell PG first time both times but had a hell of alot of problems with first PG and after 2nd.

We are allowed to be upset about our own problems without a competition running.

I think it was insensitive to skip the fact that the poor OP had a MC and go onto picking her up on her thread at all.

Obviously if you think how the OP is feeling and not any potential readers....she is anxious because everything went fine first few times and now she has suffered a MC which must be a horrendous ordeal and now wondering why it is taking longer than usual.

xcatyz You will feel anxious im sure but thats probably due to what you've been through. It might take longer this time just because you are thinking about it more or your body is adjusting.

Hope you are on here moaning about morning sickness soon ! x

9 months for DS1

1 month for DS2

This is my first pregnancy. Conceived first month of trying. Was a big but lovely

With PCOS

DS1 - 2.5 yrs
DS2 - 11 months

Thank you so much whensmydayoff i really appreciate it, i really hope i am on here moaning about all pregnancy issues soon, as i do for so many on woman on here.

I have found so many lovely woman on mn.

[over emotional smile]

xxxx

DS1 7 months
DS2 first attempt (much to DH's dissapointment!)

DC1 - 2 years (ending in early miscarriage)
DD1 - 2 months
DD2 - 1 month

8 years to conceive DS, failed fertility treatments along the way.

Been TTC no2 for 15 months now, had all the clomid I can have and still nothing.

3 months with DS1, first time with DS2, second time with DS3, currently 16 weeks pg with DC4 after 6 tries and an early miscarriage after the 4th try.

I know it can make you demented if you have an expectation of yourself that you'll get pg quickly. But things change over time. It'll happen.

B6 is the vitamin you need and much higher doses than in pregnacare. You should be able to get some advice in Holland and Barrett or post a bland "what dose of B6 do you recommend" in Conception. I also heartily recommend acupuncture.

Good luck.

3 years.

Had unexplained infertility and got pregnant with twins after 1 failed IUI and 2 failed IVF attempts. 3rd time IVF was lucky for us.

DS1 19 months, concieved after a HSG (xray thingy where they put fluid in your uterus and tubes to check for blockages) and lots of heartache & tests. Apparently I just needed a little spring clean in there

Am currently 11 weeks pg with #2 and got pg 1st month of trying

Still a bit in shock 6 weeks later!!!

Oh wow congrats ceasar04 thats brilliant.

and loumacca twins wow i would love twins (not sure i could cope)

xx

Caesar - I also concieved very soon after having an HSG.
Lots of people at the time (including the doc who performed it) said most women conceive very soon after. I didn't believe any of them!

About as long as it took to drink several cosmopolitans on holiday and then forget what day of the month it was.