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16 weeks and still feel rotten

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muddler · 13/02/2010 20:35

I am so fed up feeling sick and exhausted - please tell me your "I felt great at 17 weeks" stories!

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pipinmybelly · 13/02/2010 20:49

im sort of with u on this one...was 16 weeks on thurs and still feeling too sick to eat and still very tired...so i am too waiting for encouraging stories!!

Grandhighpoohba · 13/02/2010 21:29

me too, still feeling pretty rough. Where is everyone with the good news?

TheBreastmilksOnMe · 13/02/2010 21:30

Poor you! With my 1st pregnancy I felt sick right up until 16 weeks but I did start to feel better from then on. The sickness gradually faded away but the heartburn carried on the same. I'm nearly 6 weeks now with baby no2 and I'm just waiting for the MS to kick in! Uchh!

YanknCock · 13/02/2010 21:33

Um....at 16 weeks I got SPD so I at least had something new to complain about

I was being sick until 30 weeks. I wish I'd known that could happen, that would have been better than everyone saying 'oh it will get better at X weeks' and then X weeks would come and go and I'd still have my head in the bin/toilet/bushes.

YanknCock · 13/02/2010 21:35

Sorry, forgot to add, I do hope you feel better soon! I will personally volunteer to hit anyone that says 'have you tried ginger?' to you

muddler · 13/02/2010 22:12

YC your name temporarily made me forget how ill I feel

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YanknCock · 13/02/2010 22:57

Glad to be of assistance

skihorse · 14/02/2010 11:45

Sorry I missed this thread yesterday evening because at 17.3 I was in bed following a busy afternoon of crying & puking. Nope, not getting any better for me and my mum was bad with both until 7 months.

I too wish people would fuck off with the "oh it'll all be better by x" and "have you tried ginger"? Wankers.

kinnies · 14/02/2010 12:31

Fecking ginger pushers!

Just take it day by day.

Could feel better all of a sudden!

I'm 16+6 and still sick all the time, but keep telling myself that I might feel better tomorrow.

Bumperlicious · 14/02/2010 12:41

Oh dear, this doesn't bode well for me at only 8 weeks...

Hope you all feel better soon.

FWIW I have found something that takes the edge off the sickness. There is a CD you can get called Morningwell which is meant to ease MS, it's £20 but they do an iPod app for 59p. I have been using it and it seems to have taken a level of the sickness away. I don't feel 100% but I feel much better than I did before.

muddler · 14/02/2010 14:54

My trick? After Eights. I had box upon box at Christmas and have kept a steady supply every since. For some reason they seem to help - maybe it is an intensive sugar hit, and/or the peppermint.
Either way, flippin great excuse!
Just had a nice nap when DH took DS out to the park, and woke up to a nice big cuppa. That also helps...

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YanknCock · 14/02/2010 15:15

skihorse, you are welcome to join the Anti-Ginger Avengers. We swoop down out of the sky and beat ginger pushers with our handbags (or throw up on their shoes).

I am far too nice to actually do this, but after about 15 weeks, when anyone asked 'have you tried ginger?' I wanted to say in my most withering/sarcastic voice 'Really? Ginger? NO ONE has EVER mentioned that to me before. Clearly you think I am such a fucking idiot that I've been sick for two months and I haven't tried the MOST touted morning sickness cure in existence. Do you think I'm that stupid? Do you? DO YOU????!!!'

But that would be quite rude/aggressive, and I'm sure most people are just trying to help (if a bit thoughtlessly)

skihorse · 14/02/2010 15:28

YanknCock I'm seeing your point vividly. Why on fucking god's earth would anyone think that ginger may be "news" to me? Ginger you say eh? I wish someone had mentioned that before. Next they'll be telling people that smoking is bad for them. Tsk. Where will it end?

muddler I very much like the sound of After Eights being a proven cure... I have snarfled a pack between xmas and now I'll admit. Do you think it's worth me getting another box and giving it another go?

It'll be better in your second trimester. Fuck off - I am well IN to my second trimester and I'm still drooling, puking, crying, wailing and feeling sick. Do I LOOK better?

On the really bad days I end up apologising to my boyfriend for being so bloody lame. All I do is lie on the sofa and sleep. His family phoned the other night and were amazed I was in bed "already". Um yeh, for nearly 3 hours by then!

skihorse · 14/02/2010 15:32

YanknCock I very much liked your profile btw - and wanted to say, isn't "That 70s Show" Wisconsin based? This is probably "ginger" to you.

Aussieng · 14/02/2010 16:25

Ah - a thread close to my own heart.

From 16+2 - 17+2 I was puke free and it was wonderful, wonderful, wonderful. I didn't worry about loss of symptoms or anything I just embraced it. Then on 17+2 puke fest all over again (now 17+5) . So Muddler - I can give you some hope of a 1 week respite but that is the best I can offer!

Bumperlicious · 14/02/2010 19:55

Now why is it that in this important time for my body I can only stomach junk food

YanknCock · 14/02/2010 21:34

skihorse, yep, That 70s Show is based in Wisconsin, but I find people are more likely to have heard of the Fonz.

Bumperlicious, if it makes you feel any better, I went through a period of 3 weeks where I only ate Kraft Macaroni & Cheese, with the orange cheese powder. I thought I'd be giving birth to an oompa loompah. However, he is 5.5 months now and lovely and healthy despite me hardly touching a vegetable for 9 months.

Totallyfloaty35 · 14/02/2010 21:43

In my 3rd pregnancy Ginger actually made me throw up,the only thing that helped was wearing Sea bands.
But my sickness went overnight,so i hope the same happens for you.

releasethehounds · 14/02/2010 21:48

Bumperlicious - I was the same as you. I normally love healthy food - lots of veg, fish etc, but during morning sickness all I could stomach was Pringles or chips!

The sickness really is the worst isn't it? I had it with both mine, the first for 5 months and the second for 6 months, 24 hours a day. No 'cure' worked for me, but that's not to say they don't help some women. But it's impossible to say when the sickness could go - it may be tomorrow, the next day or next month. I really feel for you all - sometimes you just have to bear it and remember, it won't last any longer than 9 months!

Ginger - yeah right. But the worst thing of all was when someone would say "it's all in the mind though isn't it?"

pandora69 · 14/02/2010 23:06

Sympathy to all the MS sufferers. I'm only getting the 'eat or sleep' symptom myself, but am finding being pregnant a fabulous excuse to eat a full packet of ginger biscuits a day. Dunked in my tea - yum! And none of these fancy expensive ones. I like the cheaper biccies.

BTW I am NOT one of the ginger pushers. Oh no. I am here to help relieve you of your unwanted ginger biscuits.

I say eat what your body tells you it needs.

skihorse · 15/02/2010 04:02

Mmmn junk food. I've had more McDonalds in the last 4 months than I'd had in the previous 10 years. Did someone say Pringles?

Ginger makes me vom. I used to love it but by about 6 weeks I was heaving the minute it touched my tongue.

I am at least craving "normal" food again, e.g., proteins & vegetables rather than carby fatty crap.

releasethehounds All in the mind? I refer you to YanknCock's earlier post where she suggest such people be met with a swooping out of the sky & a beating with the handbag!

Pandora Sleeping is lovely... except between the hours of 2 and 6am. Any time other than that I'm good to go (to sleep).

YanknCock · 15/02/2010 10:01

skihorse, I only eat McDonalds when pregnant. For some reason their extra salty fries and a vanilla shake were the only thing that made me feel any better after a day of nausea and being sick!

at Pandora looking for cast off biscuits

releasethehounds, had anyone suggested it was in my mind, I'd probably be involved in a murder trial right about now!

pandora69 · 15/02/2010 10:17

EMERGENCY! EMERGENCY! I have run out of ginger biscuits. Who has the spare ones? I had to have Coco Pops for breakfast and they just aren't the same.

skihorse · 15/02/2010 11:18

Cocopops! You're living the dream! I don't have any biscuits but here, take this jar of crystallised ginger. I used to eat it like sweeties but now it's dead to me.

I like McDonalds cheeseburgers or a portion of 6 nuggets with sweet & sour sauce. I'm also a HUGE fan right now of a Burger King portion of cheese chilli lardball things. Nom nom!

muddler · 15/02/2010 11:33

The mere mention of McDonalds makes me go all Homer Simpson...I usually hate the stuff

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