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rainbowdays · 13/10/2009 16:33

Sorry I could not think of an original title

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rainbowdays · 06/01/2010 18:02

minxi - The snowman sounds like you are having great fun and yes I have something to tell! I was expecting greedy to be on my case... but she obviously has more important things keeping her away from here at the moment!! Throw a few snowballs for me, i haven't had the chance yet!

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iamamummy · 06/01/2010 19:36

just popping on to wish everyone a happy new year!!!

rainbowdays - what a great way to start the year for you, i am keeping everything crossed for this to be a healthy and happy sticky pregnancy for you. xxxx

Chooster · 07/01/2010 11:56

Congratulations Rainbow! very pleased for you, fingers (and everything) crossed that this is a good strong pregnancy - I guess the meds you are on have helped?

rainbowdays · 07/01/2010 16:58

Thank you, not getting too excited yet, a long way to go, but meds might help, as will you all keeping your fingers crossed and hopin'and prayin'.

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seaside72 · 07/01/2010 21:57

Woohoo - wonderful news rainbow- what a great way to start the new year sending you lots of sticky vibes and prayers.

I would love to be joining you but AF arrived for me on NYE! 3 days early - can you believe it Happy New Year Aunitie Flo!

Sorry have not been on much as have had 2 weeks solid of visiting and visitors - lovely but exhausting.

Hope everyone is doing Ok but especially Lottie with those new bubs - really hoping all is well and they are thriving (more scrumptious pics please )

And Fettle - how many days till your DH is back? must be near the final countdown surely?

Will try and catch up properly
xxx to all

Fettle · 07/01/2010 23:10

Tentative, finger-crossed, positive thinking congratulations Rainbow.

we are back from France. House is still freezing, even with heating on full since we got back. Can't believe snow which has fallen while we away - just pleased we made it finally after being cancelled yesterday.

Hope everyone had good christmasses and new years?

10 days til we see dh again!! Only for 10days but still I get to see him!!! Really missing him more than ever at the moment. Hate this kind of weather as I scared of driving in it! Hope it thaws soon.

Sleep well all

xxx

Fettle · 07/01/2010 23:15

Took me so long to write that I crossed with you seaside!! Dh due back for good at end of march so still fair way to go yet!! But as I said we see him for 10 days in 10 days time!!!

Ps meant to say I can't believe how much snow has fallen!!

cityangel · 07/01/2010 23:27

Hi everyone sorry I haven't been on, my life is not my own anymore. I am back at work full time with ds (17 months) in nursery. Last year I was off work having several leg operations (long story).

I sneaked on to see if I could find any of you as I have a faint BFP. Trying not to get too hopefull, but you know how it is.

Ready, I hardly had any milk for ds and he was always lowest on the weight chart, but as soon as I moved to mixed feeding at 4 months and then weaning at 6 months you would never know it now. I gave up feeding at 9 months and it was hard to give up.

sneaks away

cityangel · 07/01/2010 23:28

I gave up breastfeeding at 9 months (not feeding)

seaside72 · 07/01/2010 23:51

So lovely to "see" you city and OMG - another BFP brilliant news - I guess what they say about the September babyboom following a xmas BD sesh must be true!

More tentative but excited congrats come and tell us more - cant beleive your DS is 17 months - come to think of it can't believe in 2 weeks I will have a 2 year old!

10 days - brilliant fettle- then March will come around in no time.

Right - must go to bed before midnight tonight!

rainbowdays · 08/01/2010 09:38

City - congratulations, good to hear from you. Hope you get a chance to post despite the busy-ness.

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Ready · 08/01/2010 13:10

Wow. Congratulations to City and Rainbow. Exciting!

Seaside. I cannot believe C is going to be 2 in 2 weeks... H will be 6 months too

I have started weaning, really slowly... ok, so it is 2 weeks early, and I was adamant I would wait, but dh has convinced me that H is ready - and I really think she is, although she was not so keen on the carrot puree (didn't bother with baby rice Honeyapple after what you said), her face was a picture ... loved the steamed carrot sticks though, although more of it went on the floor than in her moosh. So a couple of days of carrot, then I think perhaps apple or pear? Thoughts/advice/tips anyone? Really want this to be fun for her.

xx

cityangel · 08/01/2010 13:45

I am very rubbish in the kitchen so heavilly relied on Ella's Kitchen and other organic baby food
They are very handy for when you're out and about.
Banana, raspberry, prawns, cheddar, pasta and smoked salmon all go down well in our household
Oh and he joined the cult of yoghurt, organic whetabix and Organix Gingerbread men

If you give them adult meals just check the salt content

yes they're not allowed mega sugary food but as a special trip on a meal out ice cream can be fun, just don't take them to the library afterwards like we did!

if a restaurant doesn't do kids food try pasta dishes/ smoothies/ soup etc.

we find our little one thrives on eating out and eats way more at nursery or in the presence of other kids. At home with just Mummy he's a fussy one!

a particularly contraversial one of mine is if you don't want them to eat/drink it don't buy it. I know so many mums that complain their child only eats breadsticks IMO if that's all they are offered they will and if you want them to chill out on the breadsticks for a time don't buy them!

read up online about when to introduce certain foods eg. no to honey for the first year and look into lactose intollerance in case (start with full fat milk)
also some are surprising my friends kid is very intollerant to kiwi

don't rule out any food groups unless you are sure there is an allergy or intollerance, it might just be their body isn't ready or they don't like it

if you find them use bowls/plates that stick to the table, my ds is always trying to tip his up.

get them used to having water available in a sippy cup or doidy cup as even if they don't have it now they will get used to the idea of having water with a meal

don't go too big on the juice too early, orange juice if not watered down can have a laxative effect & I know some mums who's kids refuse a drink if its not juice so they sneak water into it

do a first aid course or read up for you and dh on how to handle choking/ vomiting
your reaction is key so controlled and not scaring them is best

they are likely to regress when they're teething or ill so always be prepared to make them a smooth old favourite

when they're older let them try with the plastic cutlery they need to learn (yes its very messy) and when they've mastered self feeding this frees you up to tidy etc.

don't always give them the same once feeding is established as this makes them reluctant to try new things and more likely to reject tastes later on
if they are a healthy weight and not ill or teething try new things. If they strop or don't want to eat just leave the table and read a book etc. don't make food into a drama

don't try new things when they're tired/ or force anything if they don't seem up for it/ meal times should be fun not a battle

if they're a fussy feeder don't use the TV or toys as a tool to coax them to eat, maybe they're not ready yet and you don't want to build in dependencies that you can't keep later eg. when you're out or they're school age

once they babbling try and teach them how to communicate when they're full/hungry

don't have big gaps between meals == low blood sugar grummbling

invest in a decent backpack coolbag for the summer, teddy bears picnic with a friend are a fun way to encourage them

take them to the supermarket and let them feel they've chosen dinner and they can pretend to help by squishing some random fruit!

rainbowdays · 08/01/2010 14:10

Ready - city has given you loads of useful information here, but one thing that came to mind is that some people say be careful of giving too many sweet flavours to start with, as it can then be difficult to introduce the blander flavours later. Potato, brocolli, sweet potato (ok this counteracts the sweet argument, along with carrot!). Also when you are ready to introduce wheat items then: weetabix! An easy way to start with weaning is think about what veg you are having with your evening meal, and use that mashed/blended(but without any added salt etc). If the potato is too dry, mix with a little of her milk. Hope this helps.

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cityangel · 08/01/2010 14:33

yes rainbow is spot on my ds really favours sweet taste and isn't so great on anything that isn't sweet or is green... he's addicted to fruit!

Weetabix is also very useful for some friends before bed if the child hasn't eaten very well to stop them waking up hungry

mash is also a favourite and you can mix other puree in

cityangel · 08/01/2010 14:35

I am a biscuit brain today can't concentrate on work as all tests are suggesting 4 weeks pg!

Here are my weaning product notes:

Tripp Trapp high chair

Great as it goes flush to the meal table
a *** to clean and don't bother with the cushion as it gets to dirty and you have to take the chair apart to get it off
do get the reins as you must install the baby safety kit on the legs otherwise they can tip it over.

For out and about

Great as it has a booster level bringing them up the right height and is wipe clean & folds down
If you get one that goes in your handbag just be aware they could end up lower than the table without a cushion
We also got one that screws to the table but doesn't fit most tables so never used it
www.johnlewis.com/230197954/Product.aspx

useful suction tray to keep the worktop clean (very over priced)
also in the beginning we used a shower curtain to protect our floor as it was carpet!
www.kiddicare.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=1 0751&langId=-1&productId=70610&source=froogle&cmmmc=Froogle--Shopping%20Sites--CPC--Froogle

e xcellent bibs that fold up and you can store cuttlery in them:
www.boots.com/en/Brother-Max-Combi-Bibs-Triple-Pack_53790/?CAWELAID=334502048&cm_mmc=S hopping%20Engines--Google%20Base----_-Brother%20Max%20Combi%20Bibs%20Triple%20Pack

Watch as some bibs with velcro wear loose and the scratch the back of the neck.
Go for nickel free if you do poppers
don't get too many small neck bibs as they'll outgrow them

ultimately all in one bips with sleeves that are wipeable but you have to decide on function v appearance
for a special day out eg wedding there are pretty ones:
www.mothercare.com/Newborn-frilly-blouse-dress-bib/dp/B002JE71CA/sr=1-32/qid=126296046 0/ref=sr132/275-7226387-2059827?_encoding=UTF8&m=A2LBKNDJ2KZUGQ&n=161707031&mcb=core

if you use wipes to get food off from her mouth try and avoid the lips as my ds gets grumpy with the taste and the alcohol can agravate, we bought a load of cheap flannels to wet, use and rewash instead

We tried to get BPA free sippy cups & bottles - US site but v informative
thesoftlandingbaby.com/

TO start we we used the Nuby Grip n' sip cup which is great
If you can't get hold of one I can post you one. They do leak a bit but are soft on the mouth

Great for not leaking - when they can handle a straw
www.kiddicare.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/productdisplayA_0_10751_-1__88942_10001_

Doidy cups are great for them to sip from, particularly water if we ever get any heat back in this country
www.johnlewis.com/230409356/Product.aspx?source=14798

Mumsnet seem to either love or hate the fun pod but ours has been invaluable
We use it to keep him contained while we cook, we fill it with plastic balls...
We use the high chair for the breakfast bar but without the tray
or the seat can be lifted out onto the floor to use the tray for colouring
downside- price & the food falls into the middle but can be easily removed.
www.kiddicare.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId= 10751&langId=-1&productId=73149&source=froogle&cmmmc=Froogle--Shopping%20Sites--CPC--Froogle

cityangel · 08/01/2010 14:37

oops fixed the links sorry

Tripp Trapp high chair

Great as it goes flush to the meal table
a *** to clean and don't bother with the cushion as it gets to dirty and you have to take the chair apart to get it off
do get the reins as you must install the baby safety kit on the legs otherwise they can tip it over.

For out and about

Great as it has a booster level bringing them up the right height and is wipe clean & folds down
If you get one that goes in your handbag just be aware they could end up lower than the table without a cushion
We also got one that screws to the table but doesn't fit most tables so never used it
www.johnlewis.com/230197954/Product.aspx

useful suction tray to keep the worktop clean (very over priced)
also in the beginning we used a shower curtain to protect our floor as it was carpet!
www.kiddicare.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10751&langId=-1&p roductId=70610&source=froogle&cmmmc=Froogle--Shopping%20Sites--CPC--Froogle

excellent bibs that fold up and you can store cuttlery in them:
www.boots.com/en/Brother-Max-Combi-Bibs-Triple-Pack_53790/?CAWELAID=334502048&cm_mmc=Shopping%20Engi nes--Google%20Base----_-Brother%20Max%20Combi%20Bibs%20Triple%20Pack

Watch as some bibs with velcro wear loose and the scratch the back of the neck.
Go for nickel free if you do poppers
don't get too many small neck bibs as they'll outgrow them

ultimately all in one bips with sleeves that are wipeable but you have to decide on function v appearance
for a special day out eg wedding there are pretty ones:
www.mothercare.com/Newborn-frilly-blouse-dress-bib/dp/B002JE71CA/sr=1-32/qid=1262960460/ref=sr_1_32/ 275-7226387-2059827?_encoding=UTF8&m=A2LBKNDJ2KZUGQ&n=161707031&mcb=core

if you use wipes to get food off from her mouth try and avoid the lips as my ds gets grumpy with the taste and the alcohol can agravate, we bought a load of cheap flannels to wet, use and rewash instead

We tried to get BPA free sippy cups & bottles - US site but v informative
thesoftlandingbaby.com/

TO start we we used the Nuby Grip n' sip cup which is great
If you can't get hold of one I can post you one. They do leak a bit but are soft on the mouth

Great for not leaking - when they can handle a straw
www.kiddicare.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/productdisplayA_0_10751_-1__88942_10001_

Doidy cups are great for them to sip from, particularly water if we ever get any heat back in this country
www.johnlewis.com/230409356/Product.aspx?source=14798

Mumsnet seem to either love or hate the fun pod but ours has been invaluable
We use it to keep him contained while we cook, we fill it with plastic balls...
We use the high chair for the breakfast bar but without the tray
or the seat can be lifted out onto the floor to use the tray for colouring
downside- price & the food falls into the middle but can be easily removed.
www.kiddicare.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10751&langId=-1&p roductId=73149&source=froogle&cmmmc=Froogle--Shopping%20Sites--CPC--Froogle

honeyapple · 08/01/2010 16:13

BLIMEY-

rainbow- congrats- big fingers crossed here

city- congrats too- and i am very impressed with all the weaning tips .

Ready- glad you steering clear of babyrice.

snow is starting to annoy me now!

greedygreedyguzzler · 08/01/2010 18:30

OMG city! you don't do things by half do you!!!no wonder you haven't posted for so long if you post that much!!!

congrats to you and rainbow.....so how many weeks are you both? when are your due dates??

know what you mean honey! i could do with a bit of normality back in my life and i REALLY need to get away from the biscuits!!

glad you finally got back fettle and how excitng that you will be seeing your dh with the odd name soon!!! FAB!! we wont expect you to post much during those 10 days!!!

greedygreedyguzzler · 08/01/2010 18:39

rainbow - i was just looking at the due in sept thread and it is all SO exciting. i REALLY REALLY REALLY hope it all works out this time. positive thinking is the way to go!

seaside72 · 08/01/2010 20:31

Grrr - what's happened to the site or is it just me ? I have this thread bookmarked and went to it just now and it is all flipped and on 15 pages - I like it all together with last post at the top? I know this happened before and I did something to change the preferences but can't remember what

Much admiration for the comprehensive and excellent weaning tips city - I agree with them!

I would have a loved a Tripp Trapp high chair but our table is oval so was not practical, so I got a hideously expensive bloom one which I love and now works up at the kitchen bar but I have to admit DS is happiest in his £11 Ikea high chair with tray (£3) and I would really recommend it - white, easy clean, looks smart and cheap so if you find one you want/like better later it is no big deal iyswim.

I started with pear puree and then moved onto all the veggies, then onto the Ananbel Karmel receipes (made in bulk and frozen in plum babyfood pots) Like city says C is better out an about now, eats better with us/ in company and can be annoyingly fussy esp when he is poorly or teething. I got so upset about him not eating enough last year and then resolved to be more laid back about it (I remember posting loads about it on here!) They will not starve! Like me C is sometimes very hungry and some days not at all. He is DEF worse when I get stressed about it He also likes plum baby and ellas kitchen and I still keep a few in in case of fussiness/teething and as a last resort. I can spend ages cooking him some delish organic chicken casserole only for him to reject it and prefer a rank plum baby pop - ho hum! Last year DH got quite miffed about all the yummy ingredients for Cassius's dinner that he was not allowed to use
If I get to do it all again I would def mix in more BLW/give him more chunky bits etc - steamed carrot sticks sound great Ready

The 2 certain things I can always get Cassius to eat everyday are bananas and yogurt! I do still give him the plum baby muesli and 4 grain porridge now and he loves them with a mashed banana mixed in.

If I think of anything else I will post!

I am getting bored of the snow too - we don't even have very much but the roads are a mess so have not even been out today. Yesterday we went to the nearest city (Truro) and it was like the apocalypse! M&S carpark only had 4 cars in and I waltzed around the shop practically on my own- very weird! I also had an acupuncture session at a new clinic (Zita West affiliated) so fingers crossed it might give me a boost this month.

fettle - 9 days now!

greedy - how was Lapland?

I am getting excited about going away in 2 weeks - we are off for some sunshine and I can't wait!

better go and do something constructive! How can it be that I have spent all day in and achieved NOTHING today!

rainbowdays · 08/01/2010 21:06

Greedy - thank you for your enthusiasm. However you would ask the awkward question of due date!!!!! Well honestly from lmp, it would be 16th sept, but but but but, due to early ov and all my other children being early and their dates being changed earlier at scans anyway. I have moved my date to 11th September (also as a little aside, it does mean I should qualify for maternity pay without having to find work for an extra week at the end of my current contract in Feb! Not being able to find another job would mean I would lose maternity benefit.

So my due date is 11th September.

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seaside72 · 08/01/2010 22:42

ahh back to normal layout - figured out how to customise!

rainbow - sending sticky vibes x

Fettle · 08/01/2010 23:16

City - congratulations to you too! Mammoth post on weaning there!!

Ready - have to echo others - relax and enjoy it and don't stress if she doesn't want to eat, she won't starve herself!! I wish I'd known this with DD! I was much more laid back with Toby - some days he can't stop eating even now and on others, he barely eats a thing!!

Greedy - leave the biscuits alone!! Eat snow instead - make it disappear quicker!

Seaside - envious of your holiday to the sun!! hope you manage to get away and the planes aren't still frozen!! Think we were actually quite lucky to get home complete with our luggage yesterday as hundreds of passengers aren't getting their luggage! Hopefully your Zita West + relaxing holiday will be just the medicine you need! I went to supermarket today and it was busier than the week before Christmas - madness!!! And I had both kids with me, which I wouldn't even contemplate the week before Christmas.

Rainbow - keeping everything crossed for you.

Must must go to bed - I'm so tired and the house is in chaos and I've got to revise for my reflex mock next week and I'm so bored and worried about all the ice and snow about. I just want my husband home to sort it all out for me!!! And I don't think he's really going to be in the mood for reality of family life when he gets back - he's had a tough few weeks recently with a couple of his guys stepping on IEDs - horrific.

Anyway, on that happy note, I'll love and leave you all.

sleep well!
xxx

greedygreedyguzzler · 09/01/2010 11:15

Have i not told you all about our Lapland saga!!!??? I have told so many people that i thought i had told you lot, but obviously not!!!

Well, here goes............I will try and be brief!

First of all it took us 2 1/2 hours to get to Gatwick instead of 1 hour cos it was snowing really heavily.

So we thought our flight might be cancelled, but it wasnt and we were on the plane taxiing to the runway (on time!) when the pilot said there was a technical problem with the plane........typical! so we sat on the plane for 1 1/2 hours while they fixed it and then we cheered the engineers and thought we were on our way...............but, no!!!

then the pilot told us they had shut the runways at gatwick for deicing and we would have to wait another 20mins! so, another 1 1/2 hours later we FINALLY took off!!!

everyone was really pissed off cos we had spent 3 hours sitting on a plane not moving!

anyway..........3 hours later we were going in to land and the pilot comes back on the speaker and tells us we cant land at the airport we are supposed to cos the runway was frozen over!!! AAAARRGGGGGHHHHHHH!!!

that then meant we had a 3 1/2 hour coach journey to get us to our hotel instead of the 90 min journey we were expecting.

SO, we didnt get to our log cabin till 11pm! instead of 3.30pm. so we couldn't do any of the snow activities we were meant to do that afternoon and our trip was effectively halved cos we had to leave the next afternoon!

the log cabin was FAB and the next mornings activities were lovely. we did husky ride, snow mobiles, one horse open sleigh, reindeer ride, ice fishing, snow shoes etc etc and saw santa!!
the very short amount of time we were there was fab, but it was really spoilt by all the delays!!
oh, and we were delayed by another 1 1/2 hr on the way home and then had to sit on the plane for 40 mins once we had landed while they found some steps!!!

anyone still with me?

sorry about that!!!! just had to share!!! we have complained, but not sure where it will get us!!