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Just been offered a job, am a couple of months gone with twins and my employers don't know

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lolianja · 01/06/2009 23:14

Perhaps foolishly I said nothing during the interview and didn't worry too much afterwards because I came across like such a disaster-attracting clown that I didn't think I had an icicle's chance in hell of ever being let into the building ever again, let alone given a job! Fortunately and unfortunately, it seems I was wrong.

The job's in central London, I'm 20 year old, have recently moved to Solihull from Essex with my partner and we have a three-month-old boy. Now two more babies on the way - don't ask.

I assume I'm legally obliged to tell my new employers about the pregnancy, but at what stage? I know in theory they can't give me my marching orders because I'm pregnant but does this actually apply in practice?

I feel very daft for lying (by omission) now and am wondering what I ought to do next.

Thanks in advance.

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StealthPolarBear · 03/06/2009 19:47

sorry LG, it's not working, you're just you

MysteriousAura · 03/06/2009 21:30

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NameChaaanger · 03/06/2009 22:16

now you, MA, sound interesting and mysterious. Tell me more about yourself.

NameChaaanger · 03/06/2009 22:17

darn it, done it again! Just don't out me in a searchable way!

MsTeriousAura · 03/06/2009 22:21

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nappyaddict · 04/06/2009 22:51

Unicornvomit

The maths does add up. Her DS is 13 weeks old. She is 10 weeks pregnant so probably conceived about 8 weeks ago. This would have made her DS about 5 weeks. Her DS was born the 1st June and she got pregnant the first week in April which was when her DS would have been about 5 weeks old. So the maths of all that does add up. Presumably she found out 3 weeks later (when her DS was 8 weeks old) that she was pregnant.

I don't know how much admin jobs pay an hour but I'd be surprised if working 19.5 hours a week will even cover the £264 train fare.

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