Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Vaccines = autism?

283 replies

Demdem6 · 10/05/2026 07:54

Hello

so I am currently pregnant with a baby boy and my partner is strongly against getting him vaccinated when he gets here as he believes vaccines cause / increase risk of autism,
especially in boys

id never thought twice about this but now hes put it in my head. Yes ive done my own research but hes saying doctors and the internet will tell you what you want to hear because they want you to vaccinate your kids. Tbh hes a conspiracy theorist

i just want to hear from people who vaccinated their sons and their son didn’t develop it? I know some people will shout at me for this, not my intention to offend anyone

OP posts:
OneShyQuail · 10/05/2026 08:49

Ncncnc26 · 10/05/2026 08:01

🤦🏽

@mumofb2
Vaccinations are outdated?

Why? Because the diseases they protect against are pretty much eradicated?

👀👀👀 il wait

spiceandathingsnice · 10/05/2026 08:49

Also research the potential consequences of catching the diseases you are vaccinating against … measles, mumps, rubella, meningitis etc etc.

No Medical procedure is without risk … but please research the documented side affects that have been reported rather than discredited research from 30 years ago

The strongest link so far to autism is genetic … BUT they are still researching and trying to unravel a lot about it.

DeftWasp · 10/05/2026 08:50

Demdem6 · 10/05/2026 07:54

Hello

so I am currently pregnant with a baby boy and my partner is strongly against getting him vaccinated when he gets here as he believes vaccines cause / increase risk of autism,
especially in boys

id never thought twice about this but now hes put it in my head. Yes ive done my own research but hes saying doctors and the internet will tell you what you want to hear because they want you to vaccinate your kids. Tbh hes a conspiracy theorist

i just want to hear from people who vaccinated their sons and their son didn’t develop it? I know some people will shout at me for this, not my intention to offend anyone

OP, please vaccinate your child, vaccines are the reason we have removed much of the risk of previously common disease that killed so many children.

There was speculation, years ago, driven primarily by one doctor, who was subsequently struck off that the combined MMR vaccine could cause issues (such as autism) - however that was conclusively debunked a long time ago.

Measles, Mumps and rubella are nasty, potentially fatal illnesses that vaccination prevents, it's that simple.

The Covid vaccine brought back many of the "anti vax" theories - sceptics were concerned by its rapid development and wide roll out - some forms of that vaccine (particularly the Astra Zeneca) did have a higher risk profile than most vaccines commonly administered, but they have now been withdrawn, and still did much good in an emergency situation.

The Covid vaccine was also the first of a revolutionary development MRNA vaccines, unfortunately, those who didn't understand science properly were concerned the vaccines could alter the DNA in us - that was never the case, but a lot of chattering by ill informed people on You Tube gave rise to vaccine hesitancy.

Your partner has obviously read a lot of this crap - and being concerned for your baby - has taken it as gospel, however he is wrong.

Get your child vaccinated - and good luck with motherhood

Beryl23 · 10/05/2026 08:50

Demdem6 · 10/05/2026 08:11

Not sure where I personally said people lie on the internet? 🤣 to break it down a bit for you though, remember how the Covid vaccine was practically forced on us a few years ago? Doctors swearing you needed to get it or you’d be seriously ill. Lots of people refused and ended up fine, myself included. Hence why I thought I’d ask people who had actually experienced it. Hope that helps :)

This is a very strange mindset. Vaccines are advised because you can get very ill without them, that does not mean everyone will, but why take the chance? ‘Oh my child might get measles… oh but I’m sure they’ll be fine like I was during covid without the vaccine’. I mean it is your choice to not to get the Covid jab, like it is to not get your child vaccinated but why put your child at risk of a potentially deadly illness that is preventable?! You don’t need people on the internet to tell you what to do but I know I couldn’t forgive myself if my child died when it could have been prevented.

sparepantsandtoothbrush · 10/05/2026 08:51

"hes saying doctors and the internet will tell you what you want to hear because they want you to vaccinate your kids"

And where did he get his information from exactly?

Theonethatlurks · 10/05/2026 08:51

Demdem6 · 10/05/2026 08:28

Thanks guys :) I’m off now to enjoy my Sunday!

Cool, just don’t forget the tin foil hats for you and your DP!

bigsoftcocks · 10/05/2026 08:51

Are you related to trump ? Are you yourself as stupid as your partner !??

Whatswrongherethen · 10/05/2026 08:52

History went like this....

Thousands of years - very little scientific knowledge - many people died and many didn't make it through childhood.

Hundreds of years - some scientific knowledge - lots died - and lots didn'take it through childhood.

Decades - golden age - huge breakthroughs - infant mortality rate decreases rapidly and most (in developed countries) make it through childhood.

The internet years - rise in misinformation. Undereducated/low cognitive ability start to mistrust science - rise in rates of childhood diseases like measles.

When I see posts like this, I always think of mothers 100 years ago watching their kids die of measles and think how they would despair of this sort stupidity. Then I think educators must be doing a bad job somewhere along the line.

I think conspiracy theorists are the type of people who actually want to understand the world and are curious.... They just get it wrong either because of poor education or cognitive limitations.

Figgygal · 10/05/2026 08:52

Do people still really believe that well denounced rubbish though I can see how with rfk jr in the US administration
No vaccinations don't cause autism
Anecdotal stories of individuals don't make science.
Yes I have two vaccinated boys no autism
Millions and millions of people do

BoldnessReborn · 10/05/2026 08:53

Obviously there are people who have been vaccinated and are not autistic. That is a large majority of adults and children in this country. Go into any public space and they are everywhere.

Wish44 · 10/05/2026 08:53

Demdem6 · 10/05/2026 08:13

Guys - chill out, seriously 😂😂

I don’t need medical journals, I just asked simply WHO VACCINATED THEIR SONS and autism didn’t happen. I don’t understand why people are so triggered by this 😂

I think it’s understandable that people are upset. People who don’t vaccinate their children put all other children at risk. It is anti social not to vaccinate. Anti social behaviour tends to make people upset.

GenialHarrietGrouty · 10/05/2026 08:53

Three sons here, all vaccinated, none with autism.

Has your idiot partner's research extended into the rates of death and serious disability amongst children who catch the diseases we vaccinate against? Is he vaccinated himself?

Wednesday101 · 10/05/2026 08:54

OP is a dreadful person

AD1509 · 10/05/2026 08:55

This entire theory came from a doctor (Andrew Wakefield) who published a fraudulent paper apparently showing a link between MMR and autism. The paper was found to be false (it was retracted by the journal), the data was either incorrect or fabricated, they didn’t have ethics (to perform a series of invasive tests on children) and Wakefield had been hired by the lawyer of a bunch of anti-vax parents to perform the “study”. He was also getting paid off by the parents and he had his own vaccine patented he could cash in on once MMR was off the table. Because of this he was struck off the medical register and can never practice medicine in the UK again. It’s all utter bollocks spread on social media by incompetent people who claim to have “done their research”. Be a good parent, protect your child from diseases that can harm and kill them.

MyPolitePeachSloth · 10/05/2026 08:55

I work with autistic children and I find it deeply offensive that someone would rather have their child die of a preventable disease than have Autism. I really want them to do an add campaign where they show lots of happy healthy children (who happen to be autistic), then compare that to another child dead or dying in a hospital of a disease that could have been prevented with a simple vaccine. Which, by the way does not cause autism!
I hate the doctor that first made up this rubbish. Autism is inherited, there is no link to vaccines at all.
sorry rant over

Anewuser · 10/05/2026 08:55

Owlsintheforest · 10/05/2026 08:43

Nearly dying from medication and reading through medical inserts with caution is loopy?

Your comment is loopy. Your son almost died from the flu despite having the flu vaccine. That’s loopy.

Edited

And you don’t seem to understand English. If he hadn’t had the flu vaccine, he was 27 times more likely to have died.

I’d rather take those statistics than your fingers crossed.

OneShyQuail · 10/05/2026 08:55

Demdem6 · 10/05/2026 08:11

Not sure where I personally said people lie on the internet? 🤣 to break it down a bit for you though, remember how the Covid vaccine was practically forced on us a few years ago? Doctors swearing you needed to get it or you’d be seriously ill. Lots of people refused and ended up fine, myself included. Hence why I thought I’d ask people who had actually experienced it. Hope that helps :)

But lots of people didnt?!

Covid was so unpredictable. There has not been another disease like it. Usually a disease affects everyone with similar symptoms (measles, chicken pox, flu etc) severity can waiver depending on your immune system but its pretty much textbook for everyone.

Covid was very random...every had different symptoms, no symptoms, very healthy people with no prior health issues ended up seriously ill in hospital, some sadly died, some people had it and didnt know they had it, some people never seemed to catch it despite being very close contact with those that did (i was one of these people)

Even just in my family my two children suffered very differently each time they had it, I apparently never caught it (tested religiously because of my dad being inmunocompromised)
The vaccine response was because of the unpredictable aspect of the disease.

Great news that you were fine. But you took a gamble 🤷‍♀️

sittingonabeach · 10/05/2026 08:56

Have you checked whether there is autism on either side of the family?

Didimum · 10/05/2026 08:56

Owlsintheforest · 10/05/2026 08:35

My DH and I feel the same as you (we are NOT anti vaccine, we are pro medically necessary intervention only). We didn’t have the covid vaccine and are deeply uncomfortable with the 6 in 1 for babies. We have looked at the risk of children/babies catching XYZ disease and the risk of an adverse side effect from the vaccines (the Americans have good data on this). We’ll also be asking the doctor for the vaccine inserts before we make a decision - it’s not uncommon for us to ask for medication inserts because both of us have had severe reactions to medications previously. Sadly I had the flu jab in 2013 which landed me in hospital so we are very very thoughtful about all medications.

I would ignore the people that say things like ‘without vaccines you’ll DIE’ because they do not know your medical history- as mentioned the flu vaccine almost killed me, I had the flu in 2024 which was nowhere near as severe as the flu vaccine side effects. My DH is was also prescribed medication in 2020 which almost killed him, he was hospitalised for 2 weeks. So rightly so, we will not be blindly following any schedule.

Stay on the same page as your DH (labels like conspiracy theorist / anti vax are unhelpful) explain your feelings and also calmly talk with your GP. Best of luck 🩷

Do you realise the likelihood of your children catching XYZ diseases is only low because other people vaccinate their children?

Rubiesandsapphires · 10/05/2026 08:57

Polio was a dreadful disease, when I was younger I used to see many people with leg irons from it. My DH has scarred eyes from measles and I had whooping cough as a child. All these diseases are horrible and dangerous. People seem to have forgotten about them.
Vaccinate your child.
BTW I have 3 sons, all vaccinated. None with autism.

Rarelyout · 10/05/2026 08:58

Three sons. All vaccinated. No autism. Im
a medical professional who ( in the genuine sense) “did my research”. I also was part of the Covid vaccine roll out project.

GenialHarrietGrouty · 10/05/2026 08:58

mumofb2 · 10/05/2026 08:07

this is your opinion. Personally I opted out of the rotavirus.. and that’s ok. If I could have hand selected 1 or 2 out the 6 in 1 vaccine I would have.

Why did you opt out? Do you think it's OK that your children may become seriously ill with permanent effects on their health? Is it OK that they might put vulnerable people who are immunologically compromised at very serious risk?

BoldnessReborn · 10/05/2026 08:59

Also, just for information, I am immune suppressed.

I had measles as a child (not nice, but the vaccine there was back then wasn't that widely used -- note I didn't have that vaccine but I am autistic anyway!), so once I was immune.

However, the fresh outbreaks of measles amongst unvaccinated children in our community now pose a real threat to me as my past immunity can't be relied on (neither would a vaccine work on me now because of my immune suppression).

I rely on the healthy majority to vaccinate so I can safely work in schools, like other vulnerable people.

Thatsillymama · 10/05/2026 09:00

I know of two families who believed that the vaccines were the cause of their first child's autism so they didn't vaccinate their second child. Both families second child was also autistic.

My own son has autism and it was apparent long before the vaccinations. All of my nephews on my side of the family are autistic so it's genetics in our case.

Tulipsriver · 10/05/2026 09:00

Demdem6 · 10/05/2026 08:13

Guys - chill out, seriously 😂😂

I don’t need medical journals, I just asked simply WHO VACCINATED THEIR SONS and autism didn’t happen. I don’t understand why people are so triggered by this 😂

Because your child, who is innocent regardless of how stupid his parents might be, could die if you don't vaccinate him.

Children dying or becoming seriously ill from preventable diseases is horrible and people are rightly 'triggered' that you'd consider taking this risk just because your partner is a conspiracy theorist.