"It seems the majority of advice is not to drink any alcohol during pregnancy. I guess the majority don't want to take the risk, no matter how small, just in case. "
That isn't the majority of advice, that is the DoH advice, NICE guidelines still state that 1-2 units once or twice a week is fine, most doctors/mws when pressed will tell you stay off the booze for the first 3 months and then follow NICE guidelines. The simple truth is they know alcohol abuse can cause FAS but apart from that they have no idea what alcohol consumption could cause.
Just found this from NICE, trying to find a link to the guidance.
Chequers I am pretty sure that even more than one glass won't harn your baby by that stage!!!
A spokeswoman from the National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence (NICE) said: "The experts have concluded that there is no consistent evidence of adverse effects from low-to-moderate alcohol during pregnancy (less than one drink or 1.5 units per day) but the evidence is probably not strong enough to rule out any risk.
"The recommendations are subject to consultation and final guidance is due to be published in March 2008."
I didnt drink at all the first 3 months and then have had 2 units twice a week for the last 4 months (i.e. 175ml glass of white wine twice a week - bliss). However I have just found out that apparently you shouldn't be eating goats cheese and I've merrily been consuming that for the last 7 months, my poor baby it's going to come out with 2 heads.