Hi all, sorry for going quiet. I've been bleeding and EPU have confirmed I have a haematoma right next to the pregnancy sac, 4 times bigger than the baby. It's been a long week. They've prescribed what is practically bed rest and progesterone up until 16 weeks if the pregnancy progresses, which has been brutal with side effects so far but hoping it will settle. It's a watch and wait situation at the moment, but right now I'm pregnant and I'm trying to hold onto that thought. The encouraging thing is that we saw a baby in the right place with a good heartbeat, though it was dating behind. We have another scan next week to check on things.
I'm going a bit crazy not being able to exercise, particularly running which is a big stress reliever for me. I'm allowed a short walk every day. And I can't lug my toddler about (have they met toddlers?) I have a huge week coming up at work the week after next with multiple in person events and I'm honestly really worried about how to deal with that.
My booking appointment isn't till I'm 11 weeks, which feels quite late. Last time I think it was around 8 weeks.
Congratulations @Newhere1993 and @Juno2026 and anyone else I've missed.
Hope the bleed has settled @ManifestSunshine? Hopefully it was just the probe disturbing things.
I'm sorry so many are feeling so rough. My nausea and fatigue is definitely worse this time round, but then my toddler might account for some of that. There also seems to be quite of us experiencing bleeding in one way or another.
@Katie2908 and I can't remember who else - but on the being 1 and done because of a rough trimester thing - I promise you forget and it's so worth it! It's almost like witchcraft. I was also a 1 and done after my pregnancy, birth and post partum, yet here we are 😅Obviously totally fine if you want to stick to one and done, but I remember when I thought I'd have to be 1 and done I felt so sad and grieved about the family set up I wanted, only for that to not be the case as we decided to go for another one. So I just don't want anyone to feel sad or worried or like they have to choose how many children they have based on this! I don't know if I've phrased that very well.
Congrats on the scans @essa @SummerLover89 @Fluck and anyone else I missed. It's magical to see them.
@Niknak8493 I'm sorry you're feeling so alone (I think it was you, sorry if not!) We're all here, and all in our same but different worry boats. The first trimester is definitely a scary and lonely place.
@Pregjune I'm sorry, bleeding in pregnancy is so scary. I think if the blood is darker it's less worrying than if it's bright red. It's also something like 1-2 in 4 women bleed during pregnancy - and there's certainly a few few of us just in this group who've had bleeding. You obviously can't know for sure but will keep my fingers crossed. I thought with the bleeding I've had there would be no baby or a baby on the way out when I had my scan on Tuesday, but there it was. You don't know until you know.
Sorry if I've not responded to everyone, this is probably long enough as it is but I hate to ignore anyone when this is such a worrying time!