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SIL told hubby shes expecting and not me - should I care?

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sarahmckenzie24 · 06/02/2025 20:29

she came over the house last night and i was at the gym, and told hubby shes expecting with her husband there too. She did not once mention to tell me, ask where I was, hasn't text me, my hubby just told me. Am I being petty to feel out the loop and not included? we have been texting december/jan about both trying to get pregnant, but kind of had a small small falling out but have spoke since in Jan. I feel a little left out, but I am trying not to take it personally, just would of liked to have been told by her herself. If roles were reversed, I would totally have the respect to tell her myself if I was having her niece/nephew/

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sarahmckenzie24 · 31/03/2025 16:12

update on this - she wasn't pregnant. she said she tested again and it was negative. hmmm

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MissDoubleU · 31/03/2025 16:30

What was your fall out about? She could still be carrying a grudge.

Either way, she can tell her db without telling you. That’s fine.

Also, if you’re both trying to conceive she might want to keep the moment of announcing just for herself. Without you showing disappointment it isn’t you, or her herself feeling insensitive celebrating while you’re still waiting for the same moment.

FurryTeacup · 31/03/2025 16:37

sarahmckenzie24 · 31/03/2025 16:12

update on this - she wasn't pregnant. she said she tested again and it was negative. hmmm

So you threw a giant hooha on the internet about nothing?

sarahmckenzie24 · 31/03/2025 16:38

FurryTeacup · 31/03/2025 16:37

So you threw a giant hooha on the internet about nothing?

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