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BFP after recent loss (Thread 2) 🌈

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MrsB2019x · 25/07/2024 09:51

Continuation thread for BFP after recent loss. All welcome!

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Lemonbalm8 · 29/07/2024 20:38

CosmicLove · 29/07/2024 20:36

Thank you @jellyfish2 @torturedpoet13 for the lovely messages. We are very relieved! Still not feeling out of the woods but definitely a bit calmer. I also had my booking appointment this afternoon and the midwife was lovely. So kind and reassuring, and very sensitive about my MMC and the anxiety I'm feeling now. Unfortunately this was her last week on the team 😩 so will have to wait and see who we get next time!

@SJ88xx welcome and I'm so sorry for your losses. I can't imagine how devastating it must be to have 4 losses and I'm hoping beyond hope that this is your time ❤️🙏

@Lemonbalm8 would love to join WhatsApp group. Thank you for organising. I can't see any way to DM on the mobile app which is all I use - does anyone know if it's possible to do it through the app?

I think through the app I don't know but you can do it on the website on your phone browser. You have to log in again. Sorry I don't actually have the app but I heard people having issues on the app 😕

jellyfish2 · 29/07/2024 20:45

@CosmicLove yeah you have to go on the browser to send a DM. I don't use the app anymore as I don't think it's as easy to use and it seems quite limited.

Dreamer1987 · 29/07/2024 23:23

Mommabear96 · 28/07/2024 16:09

@MrsB2019x yes I’ve been the same. Been quite anxious the last couple days because my symptoms are maybe changing?
I had been super nauseous and throwing up at least once per day then the last two days I haven’t really felt too nauseous (possibly because I’ve been eating more often? But hard to tell)…. Then this afternoon I’ve been feeling nauseous for hours which is weirdly reassuring lol…

Just wondering if it’s possible for morning sickness to start getting better at 8/9 weeks or not as most things online say it peaks at this time then resolves around 14 weeks…
With my last pregnancy it didn’t start til about 12 weeks and latest til about 17 weeks…
then this time round it’s started at 5 weeks and feels like it’s lessening now at 8+4?
idk what to feel about it

Omg I literally could have written this!! I w been extremely nauseous from about 5 weeks, almost like clockwork, every day 10-3 ish. Not throwing up but I’m not a sicky person, just super nauseas and only wanting beige e.g mash, waffles, hula hoops. Massive food aversions. Friday was my WORST DAY I felt horrendous all afternoon. But since then, and I turned 8 weeks that day, it’s been way more manageable. The odd wave of nausea but nothing like it was. My boobs still hurt and are big, my obsessive BBT taking is still high and I still have food aversions and don’t want veg or fruit but it’s not as severe as it was. What I wouldn’t give to feel really sick again. Have read a million threads some end well some don’t. Really trying to stay calm as what will be will be. But I feel you and I’m here with you!! Tagging @MrsB2019x tlo as I know you’re experiencing similar. I have no cramps or spotting (feel like I should say ‘yet’) so need to focus on what is not happening. Sending love to everyone else too xxx

Dreamer1987 · 29/07/2024 23:24

CosmicLove · 29/07/2024 09:56

Morning ladies, pleased to report all well with my scan this morning! Measuring 9+3 which I am today and heartbeat a strong 170. Little limb buds waving around which was lovely to see. We're over the moon ❤️

Omg what a RELIEF!!! I’m so happy for you! Yay - stunning photo!! Positive thoughts now as your pregnancy progresses xxxx

CosmicLove · 30/07/2024 07:12

@Dreamer1987 thank you lovely ❤️

CosmicLove · 30/07/2024 07:13

@MrsB2019x all best wishes for today Mrs B. Sending lots of positive energy your way 💖 xxxx

MrsB2019x · 30/07/2024 07:20

CosmicLove · 30/07/2024 07:13

@MrsB2019x all best wishes for today Mrs B. Sending lots of positive energy your way 💖 xxxx

Thank you so much 🥹

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Rockyslife · 30/07/2024 10:57

Morning ladies, thought I’d share some positive news, our nipt bloods came back negative this morning which were obviously over the moon about. We have our dating scan to get through next week which I am still really anxious about but I guess we have to celebrate all these small wins. I still am expecting something to go wrong, but for anyone unsure about the nipt who have been through losses it really was worth the money for that little bit of extra reassurance. I hope you’re all ok xx

purplecolouroffunk · 30/07/2024 12:42

@CosmicLove ahhh so so happy for you!! What an amazing scan photo 😍😍

Beks96 · 30/07/2024 12:47

Rockyslife · 30/07/2024 10:57

Morning ladies, thought I’d share some positive news, our nipt bloods came back negative this morning which were obviously over the moon about. We have our dating scan to get through next week which I am still really anxious about but I guess we have to celebrate all these small wins. I still am expecting something to go wrong, but for anyone unsure about the nipt who have been through losses it really was worth the money for that little bit of extra reassurance. I hope you’re all ok xx

@Rockyslife that's amazing news, definitely celebrate the 'small wins' because they all add up💖 not long to go now and hopefully the 12 week scan will give you the much needed reassurance x

Lemonbalm8 · 30/07/2024 12:58

Rockyslife · 30/07/2024 10:57

Morning ladies, thought I’d share some positive news, our nipt bloods came back negative this morning which were obviously over the moon about. We have our dating scan to get through next week which I am still really anxious about but I guess we have to celebrate all these small wins. I still am expecting something to go wrong, but for anyone unsure about the nipt who have been through losses it really was worth the money for that little bit of extra reassurance. I hope you’re all ok xx

Wow that's amazing! Hopefully 12 week scan goes smoothly and you can relax a bit. I am absolutely terrified over the next few weeks with the scan and the nipt everything is overwhelming, but I'm hoping and praying we get our miracle rainbow baby all safe and sound.
Thanks for saying it's reassuring, I hope mine comes back low risk, but it's so expensive, I am glad to hear it's worth it. Can I ask if it came back as low risk or were there stats/probabilities? Just to get myself prepared.
Have a lovely day 💓 x

KittyFantastica · 30/07/2024 13:26

Glad to hear the results were great @Rockyslife! Roll on the scan and even more reassurance :)

CosmicLove · 30/07/2024 13:29

purplecolouroffunk · 30/07/2024 12:42

@CosmicLove ahhh so so happy for you!! What an amazing scan photo 😍😍

Thank you lovely! 💜 hope you're doing okay xx

CosmicLove · 30/07/2024 13:30

Wonderful news @Rockyslife you must both be so happy and reassured. Delighted for you ☀️ xxx

Rockyslife · 30/07/2024 13:36

@Lemonbalm8 I was in your situation last week had the fear of having to have a scan to check baby was still viable and dating over 10 weeks and then had the fear of those results but once you’ve got over that hurdle you’ll be relieved that you did it. I just said to myself either way I would want to know now and that’s what helped me know it was the right decision and out of our control. I haven’t had the results through yet she’s emailing them to me so when I get them I’ll let you know. It’s mental to know that she knows the gender of our baby but we’ve opted not to know haha

Lemonbalm8 · 30/07/2024 14:32

Rockyslife · 30/07/2024 13:36

@Lemonbalm8 I was in your situation last week had the fear of having to have a scan to check baby was still viable and dating over 10 weeks and then had the fear of those results but once you’ve got over that hurdle you’ll be relieved that you did it. I just said to myself either way I would want to know now and that’s what helped me know it was the right decision and out of our control. I haven’t had the results through yet she’s emailing them to me so when I get them I’ll let you know. It’s mental to know that she knows the gender of our baby but we’ve opted not to know haha

Thank you lovely. I'm so happy for you, it's good news to have leading up to the 12 week scan. I think you can even mention it at 12 week scan and they focus on the baby's development, so you get more focused scan on other important stuff 🤞🏻

MrsB2019x · 30/07/2024 16:24

Brilliant news @Rockyslife!

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MrsB2019x · 30/07/2024 16:27

Good news at this end too, baby was perfect at our scan, very wriggly and measuring bang on our dates at 9+6 🥰 we are so over the moon

BFP after recent loss (Thread 2) 🌈
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CJ2021 · 30/07/2024 21:56

Hello all, would you mind if I join here?

Im currently 5w4d after a CP last cycle. I’m really struggling with anxiety as my symptoms are really on and off. I’ve also had quite a bit of cramping so currently fearing the worst! Nausea was bad from 1dpo last pregnancy (loss) and then disappeared a week before the CP. It was also bad from 1dpo this pregnancy but has massively dropped off since around 18th July 😫 Tests remain as dye stealers atm.

I already have a DS and had extremely bad nausea from 1dpo until 20 weeks, hence my panic!

Its so hard after loss 😭

Sending you all lots of luck 🌈

MrsB2019x · 31/07/2024 09:04

Hi @CJ2021 and welcome 🥰 we’ve all kinda gravitated to a WhatsApp group now but you’re more than welcome to join, DM one of us your number if you’d like to be added xx

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Rockyslife · 31/07/2024 13:37

@Lemonbalm8 so had the results and it basically says low probability on all three and then 1:10,000 x

Lemonbalm8 · 31/07/2024 18:30

Rockyslife · 31/07/2024 13:37

@Lemonbalm8 so had the results and it basically says low probability on all three and then 1:10,000 x

That's great! Not long to wait for me now x

SJ88xx · 01/08/2024 14:42

Hi ladies. I wanted to jump on to share our good news from our scan today ❤️ little bean is measuring bang on 7 weeks with a healthy heartbeat! So I will see you all on WhatsApp 🥹

BFP after recent loss (Thread 2) 🌈
CosmicLove · 01/08/2024 15:29

SJ88xx · 01/08/2024 14:42

Hi ladies. I wanted to jump on to share our good news from our scan today ❤️ little bean is measuring bang on 7 weeks with a healthy heartbeat! So I will see you all on WhatsApp 🥹

Congratulations @SJ88xx you must be thrilled! Great news ❤️

CosmicLove · 01/08/2024 15:30

Just checking in @purplecolouroffunk
I hope you're okay? Sending love ❤️