I want a baby but my boyfriend doesn't

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I have 3 older and young teenage children to my ex. Boyfriend has 2 older teenage children to his ex. We have known each other for 6 months and recently moved in together. I have started to feel broody which I am surprised at myself I would love one baby with my boyfriend but he has said that is one thing he doesn't want to give me infact he has booked himself into having the snip I feel so upset especially as my ex had the snip just after a give birth to our 3rd baby because he didn't want more childen. My boyfriend has said several times to me "I don't want to give you a baby" "if you are pregnant I want you to have an abortion" I'm 40 he is 48

@berksandbeyond it’s not but that’s your ignorance not mine ☺️ I also don’t need luck 😉

@DracoDormiensNumquamTittilandum Fertility hasn’t declined, my age is clearly not too old, hence why I’m pregnant. I’m also not knackered, I’ve got children and don’t have time to be knackered ☺️

@NamingConundrum I can’t and won’t live my life thinking about older age and decline in health. Every day is precious. None of us can predict the future. It’s quite sad that many live worrying about ‘what ifs’.