can i just write this down? need hugs

[eleanorsmum]

i'm currently having a threatened miscarriage. am trembling writing this. brown blood after internal scan weds, little bit thurs, lots fri with clots. spoke to ooh doc sadi to rest up over weeekend, scan monday. if worse call back. worse sat, red blood and more litte clots, phones ooh doc told to go to a&e. went got transfered to ward and saw consultant. can't do anyting till monday. internal scan not available. basically tough luck if you bleed at the weekend beofre 12 weeks! am not impressed with royal berks at mo. but am trying to get through today.

oh eleanorsmum, im sorry that this is happening to you. how many weeks are you?

(((((((((((EM)))))))))))))) praying for the best news x

oh you poor thing

fingers crossed for you

xx

It's a dreadful experience.

Unfortunately, there really isn't anything medics can do to stop a (possible) miscarriage. It really sucks.

Oh mate, so sorry about this I've had 2 threatened miscarriages and it's the pits with the waiting - always over a weekend too! RBH are pretty crap, I know! Is there anything I can do? I'm not too far from you. Have you got an appointment for Monday?

Lots of {{{hugs}}}

LT xx

yup 9.30, thanks.
am 7.5 weeks

I have absolutely no experience of this at all, but have all my hugs, it must be a horrific experience. I hope all goes well in the end.
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Sorry to hear this, and that the hospital were not able/willing to scan you at the weekend.

Good luck for tomorrow.

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Why does it always happen at the weekend? I am so sorry EM - I am so hoping you get good news on Monday and lots of (((HUGS))) your way.

How are you doing?

Poor you I had 2 mcs both at weekends. It sucks! But having said that also bled a lot with healthy DD2....fingers crossed.

im 17weeks with id twins had this problem at 14weeks and got told everything the same as you so no exactly how you feel. in mycase i argued it that i wasnt going anywhere to sit and wait see what happens and after alot of fuss they brung out a portable scanner after telling me there was absolutley nothing they could do.
thing its terrible the way we are treated over something as sensetive as this.

good luck on monday hope all goes well for you both. x

Oh EM, I'm sorry. Hope you're OK, speak to you tomorrow. xx

Any news hun? xxx

You alright? Thinking of you!

its all over. lost it yest pm. feel so empty now. have to go for op on weds to remove rest. didn't know i could cry so much.

you poor poor thing.

Oh eleanorsmum ... I'm so so sorry.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((em)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) oh sweetheart xxx

I am so so sorry... I wish there was something to say that would help, you aren't alone - please come and talk as much as you need to.

Thinking about you, you rest and take care of yourself.

Oh EM Give yourself time. Don't rush it. Its a horrid feeling, I know. I've been there twice too. Keep talking, we're here for you. x

You poor darling. xx

Oh em - I am so sorry this has happened to you. I remember that 'totally empty' feeling well
They will likely do a scan on Wed just in case they don't have to do the ERPOC, will keep fingers crossed you don't have to go through it.
Saying that, I did and you will find lots of MNers that did too to talk about it with.
Cry and post away - whatever helps.

Really sorry to hear your dreadful news x

so sorry emxx

I am so sorry.I don't know if this wil help but I have had 2mc and my 1st thought after the 2nd was that I would never be able to have another baby...well I got pregnant again within 2 months aftef the bleeding stopped and now I am looking at her asleep on the floor.

I am also emotionally ready to remeber my other babies that didn't make it - so I am going to plant a tree in my garden to remember them.