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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 19/10/2022 19:24

I hope everyone suffering from the Horrors of Hyperemesis will find this thread useful as a source of support and information.
There's no TMI on here - can't be by definition - and nobody should feel ashamed of moaning as much as they feel the need to.
MOH's wonderful website is full of useful information on this illness:
//sites.google.com/site/pregnancysicknesssos
Another invaluable website is:
//www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk
If you need help in obtaining medication, phone them on:
024 7638 2020
Lastly, the NICE guidelines on treatment are useful:
//cks.nice.org.uk/topics/nausea-vomiting-in-pregnancy
I would like to thank everyone who has given such invaluable support and advice on this and on previous threads.
It has been suggested that I add some practical tooth cleaning advice: a lot of sufferers find using a child's small toothbrush and strawberry toothpaste far less nauseating.
On my image of a pink castle: that is an image I use because when I was little, my family had a Snakes and Ladders board with an image on the last square of a pink castle in the clouds. As Hyperemesis is so like a grotesque version of Snakes and Ladders - eat a meal, go up a ladder, first thing in the morning bile run, down a snake - I have used the image of that pink castle on the last square of that Snakes and Ladders board as a metaphor for the happy end of Hyperemesis.
Remember when you are at your worst, 'This Too Shall Pass'. It really will.
So many women on this thread have thought they couldn't get through this, but they did.

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LucindaE · 18/01/2023 19:19

Some scam keeps deleting my posts, I'll have to be brief. Welcome to Wrenegade and NP2705. Wrenegade I hope your query about food is answered in my normal spiel below. NP2705 Sorry you had inadequate treatment. I suggest you ring Pregnancy Sickness Support on 02476382020 who will phone back with good advice. Here's my normal spiel: Most sufferers find that they improve a lot at some point between weeks 14 and 20, or sometimes later. Even those who are unlucky enough to suffer throughout generally are not as ill later on as they are in the first part. A good anti acid can make a surprising difference to the sickness. Kesostix are worth buying online or from a chemists, as while they aren't they best test of dehydration, hospitals take them seriously.When reporting on the vomiting to doctors, remember to emphasize the number of heaves in each vomiting session, as doctors tend to count these as 'vomits' and this can lead to their underestimating the severity of your symptoms. Besides drinking through a straw, here are some drinks that have helped others: full sugar flat coke (if you don't find it too acid), ice lollies, frozen smoothie ice lollies, the juice of tinned fruit, Vimto, Lucozade, apple juice, Ribina, Dr Pepper, soda water, Elderflower water, tonic water, ice cubes, Iron Bru, lemonade, lemon squash, orange squash, orange juice (if not too acid), fizzy orange (M and S has been recommende), 7Up, isotonic drinks, sips of strawberry or chocolate milkshake (maybe soya), fizzy water, apple juice, Robinson's fruit drinks, Rubicon sparkling mango drink , raspberry Lucozade sport and frozen ice cubes of flat Lucozade sport. Also, pink lemonade , cloudy lemonade and Sprite. Foods of a sort include tinned fruit, cuppa soup, nibbles of crisps and chips, cheap ice cream, Scotch pancakes, bagels and biscuits, potato smileys, minature salty Yorkshire Puddings and dry cereeal.
gg9230 I hope Ondansetron helps you as it has helped so many. Do get a laxative, though: really needed!

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LucindaE · 18/01/2023 19:27

IHaveBeenFallingFor30Minutes Good advice, as ever. Babytwodue and QueenBee22 Cheering you both on for the next four weeks. Here is the Due Dates with Wrenegade added. Apologies to anyone rudely ignored. My posts have been deleted twice, so I'd better log out...

Due Dates
Ballyboo1986 26 February
FarmWife23 5 March
Melissa2023 4 April
Quinny2288 24 April
izzyroo92 27 May
heartbroken22 6 July
charlotte1256 16 July
PumpkinDart 17 July
mallowmoon93 22 Jul
Wrenegade 15 August

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LucindaE · 19/01/2023 21:57

I hope everybody is coping today.

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FarmWife23 · 20/01/2023 17:14

@gg9320I hope your flight back was okay, how are you feeling now? I had a relapse around 15/16 weeks too and ended up back in hospital. At that point I swapped out Cyclizine for Ondansetron and it made a big difference. This must be the week of the relapse, I’m almost 34 weeks I’ve had a few horrendous days and am back to throwing up ‘safe’ foods and drinks and losing my anti sickness medication. Trying to just keep positive as I know the end is in sight, but it’s just so grim and after 29 weeks of vomit I’m very much over it!! X

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LucindaE · 20/01/2023 17:49

FarmWife23 Sorry to hear of this relapse.

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QueenBee22 · 20/01/2023 21:18

Does anyone find when they are tired the nausea is much worse?

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gg9320 · 20/01/2023 22:09

Thanks @FarmWife23 I made it through ok! so so glad to be back home. The ondansetron really seems to be working so hopefully I can get discuss with my gp to get on prescription here before I run out. I’m sorry you’re suffering another relapse, it’s so disheartening when previously everything was going ok! I bet you’re counting down the weeks now! HG is such a miserable condition 😞

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LucindaE · 21/01/2023 13:52

gg9320 I'm glad all was well, and seemingly you haven't got problems with tied up bowels, as so many have with Ondansetron. Joining you in cheering FarmWife23 on for the home straight! QueenBee22 That is really common. It seems that taking rest is as necessary as taking anti emetics for most with Hyperemesis.

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FarmWife23 · 21/01/2023 17:27

@gg9320 glad the Ondansetron is doing the trick for you, it was a total game changer when I started it. Hopefully it’s not making you too constipated 🙈

@QueenBee22 at the start I totally underestimated how much rest/stress can make things better/worse, but when I eventually gave in to resting it was a total game changer. It’s the only thing I feel like I can control that actually makes a difference to how I feel. I’m really lucky as I don’t have children to look after and my husband has been amazing, but today I slept till 10, went back to bed at 1, slept again till 3:30 and woke up feeling like a new woman. X

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FarmWife23 · 21/01/2023 17:28

And thanks @LucindaE ❤️ not too long to go, and this thread has been a lifesaver! X

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QueenBee22 · 21/01/2023 20:15

@FarmWife23 thanks for your message. I have a toddler so its completely different to my first pregnancy when I could rest whenever I wanted, that's just not an option anymore. I am also working fulltime and by the weekend I am completely exhausted and I have vomited this weekend and last weekend. I wonder is it the tiredness all week catching up with me.

@LucindaE thank you, I am really finding by the weekends I am so tired, nausea worsens and vomiting starts. Not being able to rest when I need to has been very difficult. I have an appointment with my consultant this week so I am going to mention it and see if maybe they can up my anti nausea meds or change them to something else perhaps.

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LucindaE · 22/01/2023 20:10

QueenBee22 My goodness, working full time and with a toddler. Anyone who does that with Hyperemesis deserves the Iron Cross.
FarmWife23 I am so glad that this thead has helped.
Apologies to anyone rudely ignored.

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heartbroken22 · 23/01/2023 10:38

Hi guys I'm nearly 17 weeks and I don't want to speak too soon or jinx it but feel a bit better with the nausea and the sickness. I'm really scared of jinxing it by saying I feel better. I feel happy about baby too. Thank God. Ive been trying to rest as much as I can and yeah the days I don't get rest or enough sleep are hell. I've just remembered the severe hg always comes back to me in the last trimester so doing as much I can. Still can't cook or go to the supermarket. Im always in my pyjamas. It's not much of a life but I just need to make it to 20 weeks. Then to 25 and so on. Hopefully this will be my last pregnancy.

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LucindaE · 23/01/2023 16:26

heartbroken22 Sufferers do fear 'putting a jinx on it' or something, if they admit to feeling better. Glad to hear it. and I hope it improves a lot more. for you.

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heartbroken22 · 23/01/2023 20:06

Thank you so much @LucindaE ❤️ xx

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QueenBee22 · 23/01/2023 20:56

@heartbroken22 glad to hear you are feeling better. I had a huge change at 18 weeks with my first pregnancy so hopefully it might be something similar starting for you. Good to know you find lack of rest or sleep an issue as well. Hope this is the start of a positive time for you.

@LucindaE I am not sure if I'm bad enough to say I have hyperemesis. One GP said once you have all day nausea and have lost weight that's hyperemesis and that I have it. A doctor in the hospital told me you must be vomiting a minimum of three times a day, three days in a row (which I am not thank god) to have hyperemesis. Doctors differ I guess. I am taking an antiemetic twice a day and currently I have nausea for a lot of day, vomit a few times a week, and I have lost 4 pounds. Tiredness and the smell and even the sight of food can set me off. Is that hyperemesis do you think?

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LucindaE · 24/01/2023 20:37

QueenBee22 I think it sounds like it, though I'm not medical! Doctors do seem to vary. It's all very confusing as most doctors count individual heaves as vomits, but not all do.

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QueenBee22 · 24/01/2023 21:14

@LucindaE thanks I didn't know that. Good to have all the information.

Hope everyone is doing okay.

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SpringChicken06 · 25/01/2023 18:41

Any tips for 3rd trimester sickness? Only have 4 weeks left in work but the sickness is back with a vicious vengeance unfortunately.

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LucindaE · 25/01/2023 19:07

SpringChicken06 That is dismal. Sorry, do remiind me. Were you on helpful meds before the relapse? Are they willing to prescribe them again. I'm getting stupidly mixed up about the meds you were on before, and can't findthe posts.QueenBee22 You certainly deserve an award, as I said, for struggling into work full time with a toddler.

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SpringChicken06 · 26/01/2023 09:45

Hi @LucindaE. I’m on metaclopromide and cyclizine. I did stop them for a few weeks in 2nd trimester as I could cope with only the couple of vomits a day and without taking them (saving on the drowsiness), so may just need to regularly take them again.
But is it normal for it to “return” like this in the 3rd trimester?

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LucindaE · 26/01/2023 19:05

SpringChicken06 Unfortunately, it does return for some in the thrid tri, although hopefully, it's rare for it to be anything like as bad as in the first.
Definitely, don't try to struggle on without meds if it's getting bad again.

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LucindaE · 27/01/2023 17:16

Cheering everyone on.

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QueenBee22 · 27/01/2023 19:51

Met my lovely consultant today and told her how much I am struggling with the nausea for most of the day. She has increased the dose of my anti nausea meds and told me if I don't improve within a week to start taking a second anti nausea tablet three times daily. Great to have a new plan and a plan b if that doesn't work.

Hope everyone is doing okay.

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LucindaE · 28/01/2023 20:14

QueenBee22 I am so glad that your consultant is helpful and has a good plan ready.

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