Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

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Snaf · 19/01/2008 15:32

...we are NOT, any of us, even the qualified, nearly qualified or 'professional laypeople' among us, able to accurately diagnose problems over the internet.

If you are pregnant and:

  • in pain or
  • bleeding or
  • think your waters might have gone or
  • not feeling the baby move as normal or
  • anything doesn't feel quite right

PLEASE ring your hospital or your midwife FIRST

PlEASE do not sit around on MN waiting for an answer or advice.

MN is a fantastic resource and I for one love talking about the aches and pains and problems of pregnancy as much as anyone else, but MN is not a substitute for professional help.

I know lots of people use MN because they feel as if they don't want to 'bother' mws etc. And often mws/doctors don't give particularly satisfactory advice, it must be said .

But they are there for a reason, they are the professionals, they can see you and assess you and monitor you in a way that MNers simply can't.

I hope this is received in the right way! I don't mean don't post about XYZ, just that it worries me when I see people posting and waiting for advice on here rather than just phoning their hospital - however embarrassed they may feel.

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
VeniVidiVickiQV · 20/01/2008 19:05

How many weeks VS?

Snaf · 20/01/2008 19:05

Hey, I'm not a midwife yet, lulu!

Give me a few months, though [gulp] [fear] [blind panic]

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lulumama · 20/01/2008 19:07

if you ever should end up in a hospital or MLU up norf / merseyside, give me a shout ! we can run away to Ina May;s farm commune

VVV..did you kick said doctor?

VictorianSqualor · 20/01/2008 19:08

28+4, but I desperately wish it was 38!

VeniVidiVickiQV · 20/01/2008 19:16

No, I think I cried when I got out. I'd just had 4 warts burned off my hands and a verucca off of my foot when the nurse doing the burning sent me in because she could see I was swollen and my BP was up. It really was the last thing I needed.

VS - I take it they did discount a UTI?

VictorianSqualor · 20/01/2008 19:17

They did a urine sample and it had protein in it but everything else was ok, so I'd imagine so?

belgo · 20/01/2008 19:17

I'd also have thought it was a UTI.

carmenelectra · 20/01/2008 19:18

Oh dont wish your pregnancy away VS, i did at times and now i wish i was preg again!

VeniVidiVickiQV · 20/01/2008 19:24

oh the irony of amateur diagnosis on this thread

belgo · 20/01/2008 19:25

yes vvvqv

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