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Right side pain very worried now

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Scorpio8 · 16/07/2022 09:21

I am 7 weeks and panicked soon a I found I am pregnant. I had two scan first they saw sac and second the heartbeat.
I been worried a lot about this pregnancy and every time something happens have to Google old threads on here. I had several things happen. Last night fell asleep woke up bursting for a wee so think I held my bladder. I have right side pain and got up from bed really bad right side pain. Something not right at all.
Very scared at the moment.

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Scorpio8 · 22/08/2022 19:01

@ShaneTwane

They ask you to take it with you the letter. I hope you find it.

It's horrible feeling and like me it will be good news.

I will be thinking of you.

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ShaneTwane · 22/08/2022 19:39

Thank you! I found the letter and even a pot to piss in literally and my mom is coming tomorrow before the appointment. Originally to babysit dss but now dp said if i want my dm to come with me which i would much prefer. So will see thankfully my appointment is 12 tomorrow.

Scorpio8 · 23/08/2022 15:53

@ShaneTwane

How was everything with scan?

I hope your okay?

When your ready come and update.

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ShaneTwane · 23/08/2022 17:27

Sorry for the delay i ended up going to meet my dsis after and went shopping. Everything turned out perfectly the baby was bouncing around everywhere waving lol!

Scorpio8 · 23/08/2022 17:32

I am so happy to hear everything okay.

Glad enjoyed shopping after with your dsis.

Did they get all the measurements? Did you do screening?

Do you have due date?

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ShaneTwane · 23/08/2022 17:37

Yeah she was very happy said measuring exactly 12 weeks due 7th march :) and yeah i did the screening hopefully comes back low risk. Feels surreal

Scorpio8 · 23/08/2022 17:42

@ShaneTwane

That's really good news.

I have to go back for screening and my baby wasn't moving so she couldn't measure.

Crazy seeing baby on the scan how big it's got.

Now we can stop worrying but still like need to tell my mum and dad.

Just enjoy rest of you day.

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ShaneTwane · 23/08/2022 18:34

Absolutely. Soon we will need a new thread for going through the rest of the pregnancy! Not worrying as we finally seen them. When is your screening scan? Mine took a while as the baby kept spinning round so she struggled to measure for ages. Hope all goes well telling your mom and dad.

Scorpio8 · 23/08/2022 18:43

@ShaneTwane
That's so funny your baby so active lol.

I got to go for screening on 30 August but will be going to see my mum Friday and telling my dad too.

I will need to leave early very early Tuesday morning appointment 9:45am.

I had to write another post but I doubt people will respond. I might need to go to another site. I need advice on my job but will need to leave.

Is you DP looking up pregnancy stuff? Telling you what you can and can't eat?
My Dp and my son watching me so funny.

I am sure feeling flutters but not sure have bad constipation still.

When 20 weeks we need predictions on what we think we having.

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ShaneTwane · 23/08/2022 19:26

Ooh not long now then! And yes absolutely. Do you have a feeling how they will react to the news?

No dp honestly doesn't seem too bothered at all annoying man. Its me lecturing him on all my cans and cannots haha.

Scorpio8 · 31/08/2022 22:53

@ShaneTwane

I have told my parents and more people know. Feel more anxious as everyone is happy for us.
I am still have bad cramps due to constipation but having lots of things to help. Just don't feel well.
I look massive and my mum said I look more that 14 weeks lol.
I am just so uncomfortable trying not to worry as had this before and all was okay at 12 week scan.
I am not sure if I am feeling baby move or its just wind. Getting wind feelings in my stomach.
I have a video call with rainbow soon and then October 20wk scan and then again in November.

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ShaneTwane · 31/08/2022 23:13

Im sorry to hear your still anxious but i get it i still have that feeling of dread although ive told everyone now cant believe we have made it to the 2nd trimester! How did everyone take the news?

Scorpio8 · 01/09/2022 09:58

@ShaneTwane

Everyone is happy but I just don't feel well at all so uncomfortable.

I am sure I am feeling the baby move lol..or I just have bad wind.
It's like the baby laying so low in my pelvis it's uncomfortable.

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ShaneTwane · 01/09/2022 19:02

Im sorry your not feeling too good. Was today any better? Ive had an awful amount of stress on at the moment its been a pretty awful week but im muddling on.

Scorpio8 · 01/09/2022 21:10

@ShaneTwane

What happened?

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ShaneTwane · 02/09/2022 20:30

I lost my job and i think my dp is depressed or anxious although he refuses to speak to me and tells me hes fine despite the fact he absolutely doesn't want to return to work and is trying to delay as much as possible. Im so stressed and tired.

Scorpio8 · 02/09/2022 20:35

@ShaneTwane

I am really sorry you lost your job. I think best to leave him don't stress yourself out too much.
I really hope things get better in time.

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ShaneTwane · 02/09/2022 22:16

Thanks i hope so. How are you doing today? I have a mad urge to scrub the house although i know tomorrow i absolutely wont be bothered haha

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ShaneTwane · 11/08/2022 21:41

Oh I see September is so much better than January which would be towards the middle)end of pregnancy if your due around early March so thank God for bringing that forward. Hopefully the midwife can bring the scan forward as well and feel free to rant away here whenever you need to.

I don't understand the point of epu and I don't get why people say there's nothing can be done for miscarriage when they have already said progesterone given at the first sign can sometimes save the pregnancy. Why is women's mental health ignored so much in early pregnancy as if it doesn't matter? Early pregnancy sucks.

This isn’t actually true. Progesterone only helps if you have low progesterone and it’s only recommended to be given to women who have a confirmed live pregnancy, active bleeding AND at least 1 previous miscarriage. There was no evidence it prevents miscarriage in any other situation.

Scorpio8 · 05/09/2022 08:14

@ShaneTwane

How are you doing?

At the moment trying not to think too much of the pregnancy. Felt odd with feeling like baby was low and after that my body has changed so just trying to not think anything. I have appointment with rainbow midwife at 10:30. At this point I keep telling myself my body just changing and pains are liagments pain and constipation and have telephone appointment this morning.
I am okay got a lot of other personal stuff my mind is scrambled.

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ShaneTwane · 05/09/2022 10:10

I hope your rainbow appointment goes well and gives you some peace. The night before last i had horrific abdominal pain all night and a mild abdomen pain all day but its eased for now, 14 weeks today.

Hope your feeling better too im the same so many bad stuff happening.

ShaneTwane · 05/09/2022 15:50

@Scorpio8 How was your appointment?

Scorpio8 · 05/09/2022 16:34

@ShaneTwane

Nothing much was said he just asked about how I was doing mentally.
I said I am okay not really much I can say.

I am going to my GP about this constipation so she might prescribe something different than Lactulose.

To be honest just trying to not think of pregnancy and keep saying to myself everything is normal.

I felt on Thursday like that baby so low down sitting was so uncomfortable but standing was okay. Then I think baby may have moved up. Not sure if I am feeling movement or wind.
I just don't know it's all changed again. It strange lol..

How are you today?

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ShaneTwane · 05/09/2022 17:12

Oh so a bit of a let down. Whens your next appointment? Its tough isnt it, i want to relax and enjoy it but i seem to get horrible symptoms more and more. I fainted today and have felt shit ever since. I cant wait for my next appointment in 2 weeks.

Scorpio8 · 05/09/2022 19:21

@ShaneTwane

I hope your okay? Please take it easy and rest up

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