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Due September 2022 (Thread 5!)

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IzzyLeigh · 21/03/2022 21:05

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annlee3817 · 09/04/2022 21:46

@20viona exactly, fed is best

ShiningStarz · 10/04/2022 07:08

Yep I hand expressed. The midwife will give you colostrum kit

amorningperson · 10/04/2022 12:24

Hi all, just catching up but wanted to say how sorry I am @IzzyLeigh for your loss. I have an old sweet dog and she is the light of my life. Honestly, I really feel for you and I know how awkward it can be as people who don't have dogs or have the same connection with their dogs (seeing them as part of the family) can be a bit confused as to how painful but my goodness, you poor thing. Rest assured you gave your pup the best life and so much love. Flowers

amorningperson · 10/04/2022 12:49

Hi all, just catching up - Amazing bump pics - so cute to see everyone. I def feel like bump has popped out, even when I lie down there a little hillock there popping out. My DC loves chatting to it, really sweet. He's been a great influence of joy in this pregnancy. I was terrified he would feel sidelined or something but honestly it feels like we are all in this together.

Re feeding stories: It's been so helpful to read yours. With my first DC this was the hardest part of it all, I wasn't prepared (spent forever prepping for birth!). I had a really tough few weeks but was determined to breastfeed. Me and DH had a bit of formula in the house at one point just in case, but I was determined to continue with the BF as I've heard that supply relies on demand (so if you supplement it can hurt your supply). I did have a few tearful nights, my nips were AGONY at about 2 weeks, and baby wanted to drink every hour for 45 minutes. I ended up expressing exclusively and bottle feeding for 78 hours. IT was the best thing ever, my nips healed completely and I was able to get him back on the boob afterwards! Nip cream and cold cabbage leaves are a must also, they got me through the worst of the milk coming in.
RE: collumstrum harvesting... I've never heard of this?! do you just produce endless amounts until baby comes and milk comes in?

@Poppypip1 @TotoAnnihiliation I feel the same re bad body image guys - though I don't have the added stress of GD so I really feel for you. But I have already put on 10kg! Can you believe? I feel like that's huge. I keep eating pasta at night, it's all I ever want. I've been 'trying' to be more conscious of food- did someone mention us making an exercise accountability thread for those wanting to do more movement because I need that- I've booked 3 gym sessions and missed them all [hmmm]. I know that labour is so physically intense and I just don't want to spend the rest of this pregnancy not caring for my body. I felt a bit grotty in the last trimester last time, just sooooo uncomfortable and large and unfit so.. it would be great to avoid that this time. Anyhoo I'd be super up for that!

@stimpyyouidiot- eek re kicking- I can also feel it, mostly first thing and at night when I'm ready bedtime stories with my DC. I really feel like they've gotten more regular and stronger this week too (17+6 today).

@Famii hope you are feeling less anxious. Are you able to get a private scan? I have been cramping a lot this week especially have sleeping with DH or my sparse work outs - are you very active? Hope you're feeling ok.

amorningperson · 10/04/2022 12:50

Forgot to say- is anyone starting to prep/buy anything? I've been trawling the sales for some winter bits as my DC was a summer bub. Got a cute little fleece pram suit from baby gap and some cute stuff at charity shops.

Carebear99 · 10/04/2022 13:20

Ahhh 18+2 and haven't really felt anything. I hope I do soon. I've got a posterior placenta so it's not that. I have a retroverted uterus but I presume it's not tilted forward.

I'm not buying anything until I'm at least 30 weeks

stimpyyouidiot · 10/04/2022 13:26

We've bought a perfect prep. But no clothes yet as we find out sex on the 20th. After that I might get some little bits that I see if I like them but mostly will do it closer to the end.

TotoAnnihiliation · 10/04/2022 14:45

Ladies, I've started an accountability thread in the pregnancy section. I'm on my phone so trying up work out how to add a link ...

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/4526448-september-2022-exercise-accountability

handbagsandholidays · 10/04/2022 19:21

@stimpyyouidiot

We've bought a perfect prep. But no clothes yet as we find out sex on the 20th. After that I might get some little bits that I see if I like them but mostly will do it closer to the end.
I've not bought anything yet but a friend was accidentally sent a perfect prep machine by Amazon. She is nearing 50 with no children of her own so sent it my way as Amazon said they didn't want it back! Lol aside from that, this baby has absolutely nothing yet x
handbagsandholidays · 10/04/2022 19:22

When I was pregnant with my son, we had his entire nursery complete by the time I got to 20 weeks 😂 that was a very very long time ago!

ShiningStarz · 10/04/2022 20:37

@handbagsandholidays we had the perfect prep machine, was fab. Just make sure you put in fresh water as often as you can. It can be tempted to just refill it and not empty and fill and that can cause nasty bugs and make babies sick.

@TotoAnnihiliation fab idea! I just made my salad for tomorrow lunch haha. Really need to do this with you all.

I bought cute little outfits and then when I had to change the baby I was so freaked out. I ended up buying zip sleepsiits and our little girl lived in those for 3 months 😂😂

Natural baby shower is a fab website and they have great deals. If you stay in touch with them via phone or email they generally beat other website prices and give additional discount and free delivery.

stimpyyouidiot · 10/04/2022 20:49

@handbagsandholidays ah brilliant!! They are amazing.

Also I ended up painting dds room at 41 weeks pregnant (I was so pissed off she hadn't come yet and needed distraction!)

handbagsandholidays · 10/04/2022 20:52

[quote ShiningStarz]@handbagsandholidays we had the perfect prep machine, was fab. Just make sure you put in fresh water as often as you can. It can be tempted to just refill it and not empty and fill and that can cause nasty bugs and make babies sick.

@TotoAnnihiliation fab idea! I just made my salad for tomorrow lunch haha. Really need to do this with you all.

I bought cute little outfits and then when I had to change the baby I was so freaked out. I ended up buying zip sleepsiits and our little girl lived in those for 3 months 😂😂

Natural baby shower is a fab website and they have great deals. If you stay in touch with them via phone or email they generally beat other website prices and give additional discount and free delivery. [/quote]
@stimpyyouidiot @ShiningStarz This may sound like a stupid question but can you use the perfect prep with bottles other than TT ones? We used Dr Browns with our son and they were fantastic. Ideally I'd want to buy those again but if there's not compatible with the perfect prep then I'm a little stuck! X

ShiningStarz · 10/04/2022 21:03

@handbagsandholidays yep any bottles are fine. We used maam bottles with it. There is a little shelf where you set the bottle and that can be lowered or put up higher depending on height of bottle. The maam ones came with a bucket type thing for sterilising, made it so much easier. We just washed with water and fairy liquid and put them straight in the microwave in the bucket.

ShiningStarz · 10/04/2022 21:10

This was on an nhs website. I used ready made formula bottles for first 6 months and bought a bottle warmer from Argos. Only used perfect prep from 6-12 months for this reason:

Perfect Prep machines
Some people use ‘Perfect Prep’ machines to make up formula feeds. We strongly advise you against using these machines because they deliver a small volume (‘shot’) of very hot water and then add cool water to make up the rest of the feed. This is not a sufficient temperature to kill the bacteria in formula milk and your baby may become unwell.

handbagsandholidays · 10/04/2022 22:05

[quote ShiningStarz]@handbagsandholidays yep any bottles are fine. We used maam bottles with it. There is a little shelf where you set the bottle and that can be lowered or put up higher depending on height of bottle. The maam ones came with a bucket type thing for sterilising, made it so much easier. We just washed with water and fairy liquid and put them straight in the microwave in the bucket. [/quote]
That's so handy to know thank you.

I'm very confused by the guidelines on how to make up a feed. In all honesty, with our son we used to boil the kettle and leave the water in a flask to keep hot. I would never use it after 6 hours and whenever I would pour it in to a bottle it would always be too hot to drink so would need cooling down under the tap or dunked in a bowl of cold water.

However, I was speaking to my friend a few months ago and she is a health visitor. We were just generally talking about making up bottles and she said that you're meant to boil water, pour it in to the bottle, let it cool a little then add the formula as otherwise the water is too hot and affects the composition of the nutrients in the formula. 😬 I had never heard that before and in all honesty, I was too embarrassed to question it so kept my mouth shut 🙈 She also mentioned something about not shaking a bottle and swirling it as otherwise it created air bubbles in the milk! I'd always shaken a bottle to make sure it was properly mixed 😬

I genuinely don't know what the right way to make bottles up is anymore as the last time I had to do it was 10 years ago. x

Peauela · 11/04/2022 07:16

@amorningperson I bought some baby clothes simply because I can't help myself 🤣 we're leaving bigger purchases until May/August after our 20 week scan but we have things in mind already. We also started on our nursery and I absolutely cannot wait to see the final effect 🥺

@TotoAnnihiliation defo going to follow that thread!

@ShiningStarz zipped sleepsuits is all I bought so far really! Haha 😂

Thank god only 3 days of work this week I AM EXHAUSTED 😂 It took me almost all day yesterday to put together an ikea dresser 😂 but now I feel accomplished lol
Hope everyone is good 💕 we have our sneak peek scan on Thursday, can't wait to see baby girl 💕

Peauela · 11/04/2022 07:16

Wanted to say May/June lol BABY BRAIN IS REAL

ShiningStarz · 11/04/2022 09:49

@handbagsandholidays there's good info on making up a formula bottle feed on nhs website.

You are supposed to let the boiled water cool in Kettle for 30 minutes, that way it drops from 100 degrees to around 70. When at 70 it is recommended to make up the bottle as it's not too hot to kill the nutrients in formula but hot enough to kill any bacteria etc.

We used readymade formula bottles and bottle warmer for the handiness. Yes it was probably more expensive but after around 6 months we moved to the prep machine as baby was weaning then so sterilising not as vital.

Celyn22 · 11/04/2022 09:55

I have baby brain too @Peauela! I’m struggling to remember names of things and to concentrate on anything. Also has anyone noticed a return of exhaustion? I had quite a bit of energy again until 3 days ago and now I’m back to naps, and finding it challenging doing much physical stuff. I’m 19+5 today... I thought the tiredness returns in 3rd trimester!

Tinadecember · 11/04/2022 10:12

morning!

we haven't bought anything yet for the baby, 17+5 today but waiting until our 20 week scan is over with and fingers crossed good news.

My sister had the perfect prep for my niece who is 2, it wasn't around when I had my DD 12 years ago but honestly, I was amazed watching her use it haha! It will be a definite purchase for me as I don't plan on breast feeding at all. I remember the feeling with my daughter of waking in the night to make a bottle and waiting for it to cool in a jug of cold water :( :( torturous!!!

Another must buy will be a sling so I can go about my daily routine as usual as possible.

Anyone else have any absolute must buys either from recommendations or previous experiences?

TotoAnnihiliation · 11/04/2022 10:13

@Celyn22 - I'm exhausted. I had to have a nap on Saturday, I've been trying to avoid napping but I needed it!

I'm counting down the days until my 20 week scan on 3rd May. I'm not coping very well between scans as I worry something will have gone wrong. I only had a private scan last Thursday!

My DD came at 35 weeks so I want everything ready by 30 weeks just incase. Last time an ex friend ripped me to shreds and took the piss because I had my hospital bag packed at 32 weeks. One of the many reasons we are no longer friends.

TotoAnnihiliation · 11/04/2022 10:15

Just to weigh in on the perfect prep argument - breastfeeding didn't work for me last time. I was also very poorly with PND, the prep machine was a life saver. If breastfeeding doesn't work this time, I'll be getting another one.

stimpyyouidiot · 11/04/2022 10:27

We got the new perfect prep which you put the powder in first (we did this with the older one anyway) the hot shot is 70 which should do exactly what the kettle does. It was a dream!

PrettyTulip · 11/04/2022 10:33

@TotoAnnihiliation I'm with you on the anxiety between scans. Even more so now I've caught covid and don't appear to have a rounded belly yet or movement (this is my first though 16w5d).
But what a complete 🔔 end your ex-friend sounds. Why on earth would you take the mick out of someone for that?! If anything I'd credit out for the organisation! X