Please shake me. 3 MC and I still won't believe it

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Just the above really. 4 weeks Pg- meant to get AF tomorrow; I still am struggling to believe I will get past 7 weeks. That's the longest the little bean has lasted recently. I have a beautiful DS who is 2 but I have had 3 MC lasting no longer than 7 weeks in the last year. Hand holds please mums. Will I be ok 😔
These are my tests just today. Yes a serial tester. Do not judge 😂

Here you go!

Sorry not sure if my message came across properly... I meant here is a hand! You can do this. We are here for you

Wonderful news, your worries are justifiable. No one can say for certain things will be okay, you’ve had a terrible experience but unless there are medical reasons, there is no reason why you can’t go full term.

Wishing you all the luck & best wishes for a safe, healthy pregnancy

Congrats OP

I would be asking your local EPU for a viability scan- especially due to having 3 MC's. My EPU said that if I get pregnant again, they would gladly do a viability scan at 7-8weeks. I too have had 3 MC's, no children though and TTC 11yrs now.

Have you had investigations as to why you've had 3 MC's? Have they recommended progesterone? Best of luck this time op.

God you're all so lovely. Thankyou all so much.

I haven't had an investigations into why I keep MC. If it happens again this time (god forbid) I think I'll be a bit forceful and ask for a bit of a delve into why it's happening.

I'm praying for a miracle tonight that I don't wake up to blood clots and soaked sheets ☹️

You're all such lovely kind people for commenting. ❤️

Congratulations! Sending you all the luck in the world

Congrats on the positive tests! Maybe you could immediately start taking 75mg aspirin (no need for a prescription) since it seems to help so many women who have had multiple miscarriages, and can't harm anything. It's working for me!

And if you are in a position to get progesterone pessaries prescribed, again, could help and won't harm. I'm on them (well, was on them until 14 weeks) too. If no joy with getting a prescription then order some progesterone cream off the internet.

This is good advice above. I’d be contacting the GP and/or your local EPAU to see if anyone will give you progesterone.
Aspirin was also a game changer for me. Best of luck. Definitely seek out investigations. GP can do the general tests e.g thyroid. They should also refer you to a recurrent miscarriage clinic for more investigations.

I had four miscarriages but have two children now.

Praying for a miracle for you too as I'm in a similar position but no positive test yet. I've heard amazing success stories so will stay positive for you.

Another vote for 75mg Asprin, you can buy it at most supermarkets or home bargains etc

I took it when I got pregnant after my 3rd miscarriage and now have a healthy 1 year old, also pregnant again and been taking it and am 11and half weeks along

Can't say it was that for certain but it's the only thing I changed!

Thankyou all so much. Started taking aspirin this morning. Think I'm gonna swerve the progesterone though as heard different things about it xxx

Wishing you all the luck in the world and positive thoughts for this little one.

I had 4 mc never got past 7 weeks , had progesterone on no.5 and he is now 8 years old 😀 what negative things have you heard ?

Tommy's have some really good advice on their website for pregnancy after miscarriage. It would be better to read their advice over anything else on the internet IMHO.

Aw lovely news!! Wishing you all the luck in the world and congratulations

De- lurking to wish you and Babybuttons all the very best . Congratulations ! 💐

Thankyou everyone !!! I got this today!!! Feeling a bit more confident although I don't know if that means anything at all?!?

I have dull cramps. Really really worrying this is the start of it again

@dairymilkbuttons Hi op congratulations I had 3 miscarriages and then they put me on aspirin and i had my little girl. I got dull aching cramps early on and they were scary because I'd had miscarriages but I'd had them with my first child too and everything was fine

@Tittyfilarious81 that's really reassuring Thankyou. I have a hot water bottle and am trying to relax. It's just a dull ache and in my legs a bit. I'm praying this isn't MC number 4.

Handholding @dairymilkbuttons 💐 I've been having spotting and have been at peak anxiety after 2 previous miscarriages. I'm just taking it minute at a time which is better for my anxiety, literally "at this moment all evidence suggest everything is ok".

Progesterone worked wonders for me, I had 2 MCs and I’m now 35 weeks pregnant. Best of luck xxx

Fingers crossed for you - very strong positives there

@dairymilkbuttons How are you feeling op