Pregnant again after missed miscarriage and feel like i am going crazy

[Lcy]

Hi
As some of you may know i found out i had a mmc at 11 weeks in August. I am now 7 weeks pregnant and feel like i am going crazy, I have already had two red bleeds at 4 weeks and 5 weeks and brown discharge for 2 week after that (it has stopped for 6 days now). I was scanned at 6 weeks and everything was ok (heartbeat etc) and now EPU wont scan me until 12 weeks.

However this is exactly the same pattern that happened last time - brown discharge for 2 weeks, all ok on scan at 6 weeks, discharge stopped, but then the baby died. I dont have any morning sickness and my boobs are not as sore as last time.

I have spent all of Christmas pretending everything is ok because my family dont know (and then crying in bed every night). Everyone has gone home now and i feel like i am at breaking point. I just feel that it has all gone wrong again and dont know how i will cope if it has.

Is anyone else going through this at the moment or gone through this in the past?

Thanks Lcy

Thanks for this link Lcy it has really helped. how far are you gone now?
i think i will oppt for an early scan as i cant relax. maybe that will set my mind at rest. my first pregnacy i didnt even no i was pregnant till i was 9 weeks i had pains and spotting 2 weeks before but didnt think anything of it. i had slight pain in my right side and my BF wanted to be safe and sorry so went to a&e had the checks and was booked in for an early scan the next day. They told me the babies heartbeat was not present and baby had stoped growing at 6 weeks. i was then quickly taken into another room to talk to a dr who explained to me i had had a missed miscarriage. i felt numb didnt really take in alot of info all i remember him saying was i think you should go home let it happen naturally as d&c could leave me not being able to have kids which is a load of rubbish he just didnt want to wast his time. i was going to go home but my BF didnt want me to go through the pain at home so i had the d&c. the dr i felt was very rude! he had his mobile on while he was talking to me and every 5 mins it would go off.
I feel totally different this time now. have had no spotting and i feel like im glowing. hopefully things will be better this time. thankyou again Lcy x

I am 9 weeks tommorow - it sounds like this is going to be a more successful pregnancy for you. If you speak to your midwife they will probably book you in for a reassurance scan at around 8 or 9 weeks as you had a missed miscarriage previously. Good luck xx

Hi I'm just wanting some advise/reassurance I had a missed miscarrage in dec 06 I was 14 weeks pregnant with a nine week old foetus with No hearth beat. I have just found out (this morning) I'm 4 weeks pregnant again, and although trying not to think about it I cant help but worry about the same thing happening again, I'm getting a few very mild cramps my boobs are really tender but have no nausea or sickness like last time. am I just being paranoid or should I really be worried?

Barnpot same situation im 7 weeks pg had a mmc oct 07.now with tis pregnancy had mild cramps around the due date of my period. have no sickness just very tired and sore boobs. all normal but still im so worried.