Lost twin at 16 week other one suffering

[Heyppl]

Hey, looking for similar experience. I am 37 yrs old, pregnant with twins, or was pregnant with twins, had NT scan at 12 weeks and was good. I did the screening test and it came back high risk for Down syndrome, my beta HCG was elevated at 3.2 and papp-a was so low at 0.39 .. so they put me at high risk of 1:17; did an nipt test, although not so accurate with twins and came back negative.
They suggested amnio at 16 weeks. I went on that day to discover that one of babies has no heartbeat and the other one diagnosed with severe symmetric IUGR. Baby was measuring 16 days behind
The twins were di/di with one placentia fused and seperated by wall
Any recomendatios or past experiences. I am dying unfortunately.. i git pregnant thru iui and thought it was really a miracle

So sorry x

Sorry for your loss op.

So sorry for your loss op

I'm so sorry @Heyppl. I was so hoping for a different outcome for you.

Sending strength

Thinking of you at this difficult time x

I'm so sorry OP

So Sorry for your loss.

So so sorry for your loss @Heyppl 💕

So very very sorry for the loss of your beautiful twins 😢😢

So sorry to hear that

So sorry to read this op 💔 take care of yourself

I’m so sorry xxxx

So sorry for your losses

So sorry op

I'm so sorry, OP.

I'm so sorry for your loss xx

I am so sorry. I hope you have someone to take care of you.

I hope the hospital are being supportive. I lost my son at 17 weeks and 6 days. It was the worst thing and still is. After he died we were taken to a bereavement room in the hospital where we spent time with him beside us in a cold cot and the following week we were put in touch with a bereavement midwife who has been a lifeline.

Being in that room with him are moments I will cherish forever. If you feel you can or want to, do ask them about spending time with your little ones. Also ask for a bereavement midwife who can help support you with a lot of things.

I am really sorry, I’ll be thinking of you and your little ones