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Lost twin at 16 week other one suffering

70 replies

Heyppl · 20/03/2021 17:37

Hey, looking for similar experience. I am 37 yrs old, pregnant with twins, or was pregnant with twins, had NT scan at 12 weeks and was good. I did the screening test and it came back high risk for Down syndrome, my beta HCG was elevated at 3.2 and papp-a was so low at 0.39 .. so they put me at high risk of 1:17; did an nipt test, although not so accurate with twins and came back negative.
They suggested amnio at 16 weeks. I went on that day to discover that one of babies has no heartbeat and the other one diagnosed with severe symmetric IUGR. Baby was measuring 16 days behind
The twins were di/di with one placentia fused and seperated by wall
Any recomendatios or past experiences. I am dying unfortunately.. i git pregnant thru iui and thought it was really a miracle

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Isadora2007 · 31/03/2021 18:21

@Heyppl I’m so sorry to hear your tragic news. Much love to you and your partner ⭐️⭐️

Shamoo · 31/03/2021 18:24

I am so sorry for your loss OP - my heart goes out to you.

MrsIronfoundersson · 31/03/2021 18:26

I'm very sorry for your losses OP Flowers

mommybear1 · 31/03/2021 18:27

So very sorry for your losses Thanks

atotalshambles · 31/03/2021 18:29

I'm so sorry , OP . Much love to you xxx

Kitkatchunkyplease · 31/03/2021 18:30

So sorry to hear this. Sending love.

lemonandthyme · 31/03/2021 18:34

I am so very sorry, OP

SplendidSuns1000 · 31/03/2021 18:35

I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. Do you have real life support?

Thinking of you x

MummyLE · 31/03/2021 18:37

I'm so sorry for your loss x

bluejelly · 31/03/2021 18:39

So sorry to hear. Have you got someone to talk to in real life? X

Lurkingforawhile · 31/03/2021 18:44

So sorry to hear that, sending love

GrumpyHoonMain · 31/03/2021 18:47

I’m so sorry. Pls if you haven’t already do contact the ivf clinic for counselling - they have teams that can help you pick through the grief.

notawittyname1954 · 31/03/2021 18:50

I am so sorry.

MotherWitch · 31/03/2021 18:51

Oh love, I'm so sorry xx

Happymum12345 · 31/03/2021 18:51

I’m so sorry for your loss. Flowers

Gastontheladybird2 · 31/03/2021 18:57

Sorry for your loss op Flowers x

braceletsandbangles · 31/03/2021 18:58

Oh Sweetheart, I'm so so sorry Flowers

laura1711 · 31/03/2021 19:00

I am so so sorry for your loss Flowers

Crazybunnylady123 · 31/03/2021 19:01

So, So sorry for your loss! Flowers

Kiki275 · 31/03/2021 19:02

Hi @Heyppl, I'm so sorry to hear this. I lost twins through TTTS and it's heartbreaking. I hope they can identify how the genetic issue occurred and hopefully recommend how it can be avoided again. Sending massive hugs at this difficult time xx

WhoopsieFairy · 31/03/2021 19:05

How devastating. I'm so sorry for your losses OP Flowers.

ASimpleLobsterHat · 31/03/2021 19:05

Sorry that your beautiful twins are gone Flowers

chickadeee · 31/03/2021 19:05

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you get some answers so that you can understand what happened.

NorthLondonTwins · 31/03/2021 19:10

@Heyppl
I’m so sorry. Thinking of you during these difficulties times. I know there is nothing I can say to make it feel better but I wish you lots of strength and I hope you have an amazing support network around you. Sending you lots of love and thoughts for you and your twins ❤️❤️

Conditionconditioncondition · 31/03/2021 19:25

Sending lots of love, kindness and support your way x

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