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Due November 2021 - anyone?

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AlackAlasAlackaday · 18/02/2021 13:11

Anyone else with veeery early November positives who wants to hop on a thread and keep one another company?

I’ll start - I’m a MN regular posting under a new name. Took a test this morning and got a BFP! I already have DD(3) and last year we sadly lost her sibling to miscarriage - so I’m expecting a nervous nine months ahead. Sorest boobs ever and odd dreams the past few days but otherwise feeling ok (I know it’s very early though!). Oh, and DD gave me a hug yesterday and announced that there was a baby in my belly 🤦‍♀️

How are others getting on?

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Dominican20 · 10/03/2021 15:26

Hi all, please can I join 😊 I got my BFP a few days ago and am 4+2. Think I will be due around 15th Nov. I’ve had metallic taste for the last few days and sometimes cramps. This will be my first baby so don’t know what to expect but very excited 😊

RandomlySelectedUsername · 10/03/2021 15:58

[quote lara1992]@DizSquiz congratulations to you to! Just taken another two tests still in disbelief[/quote]
I’ve been doing that too! I’ve taken a test every day since I got my BFP 🤦‍♂️

RandomlySelectedUsername · 10/03/2021 16:00

@Dominican20

Hi all, please can I join 😊 I got my BFP a few days ago and am 4+2. Think I will be due around 15th Nov. I’ve had metallic taste for the last few days and sometimes cramps. This will be my first baby so don’t know what to expect but very excited 😊
Hi! Congratulations! I think our dates are nearly the same, that’s exciting! It’s my first baby too. I’ve been having mild cramps but nothing else. So hard to believe. I’m hoping to book an early scan in a few weeks 😊
Soph1726 · 10/03/2021 16:14

Hi everyone  - just got my BFP last night so predicted due date is around 16 Nov. I think I must have ovulated early because my period is not due until Sunday.

It will be my second, my first child turns 2 in June!

Strawberry0998 · 10/03/2021 16:40

@squidlady I definitely think there’s a correlation between bad period pain and pregnant cramps! I’ve always had short 2-3 day periods but my god the worst pain ever, so bad sometimes im bent over double all day! I definitely keep getting weird cramp type twinges I would say not constant but maybe every couple of hours?!

I’ve also heard ginger is good for nausea

@GSMCK hope you get a better night sleep without the dog stealing your covers 🙈

Dominican20 · 10/03/2021 16:51

@RandomlySelectedUsername congrats to you too! Yes I keep getting twinges now and again and I am trying not to worry 🙈 I done another pregnancy test today the Clearblue date test which said 2-3 weeks so that’s reassuring. Can’t stop looking at it, haha! Wonder when the symptoms start to really kick in!

Aisforharlot · 10/03/2021 17:31

Hi all,
Took a teat Monday and behold, a second line. pretty shocked! 37 with a ds7.
I have no idea my date really as I can't remember my last period exactky, except that it was prob feb. So I'm down for mid Nov if seashell (yes, I have named it already) sticks around.

Aisforharlot · 10/03/2021 17:32

When will you guys self refer to check in appt?
I'm on citalopram and don't want to come off it.

Aisforharlot · 10/03/2021 17:34

Symptoms so far are twinges, sore blogs and INSOMNIA.

AlackAlasAlackaday · 10/03/2021 17:39

Welcome a, you’re in good company with the insomnia on this group!

I’ve self-referred already and gotten a raft of letters re appointments, tests etc, but I think the approach varies area to area.

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Aisforharlot · 10/03/2021 18:00

Thanks. I think you're a few weeks ahead, I want to wait mostly for superstitious reasons after last pregnancy which was mmc.

Kayeyeem · 10/03/2021 19:07

@Aisforharlot congratulations 🎉 I'm about 6 weeks and I've yet to speak to a midwife. I rang the GP surgery when I was about 4 weeks but the receptionist said they won't want to know until you're 7/8 weeks but it must be different for different areas as others have said they got an appointment as soon as they found out 🤷🏽‍♀️

Is anyone suffering with horrible headaches? I've always had an issue with headaches/migraines but with my previous pregnancies that seemed to go away when I got pregnant. This time round I've had a headache almost the whole time 😩

sakuramiyagi · 10/03/2021 19:10

@Kayeyeem I'm in the same boat as you, constant headaches. They haven't reached migraine level for me, but they are awful.

Have you tried the headache/migraine cook patches? I found they helped me.

Kayeyeem · 10/03/2021 19:14

@sakuramiyagi It's so debilitating isn't it! 😣 Yes those patches are great and the forehead roll on. I've been trying to avoid paracetamol if I can, I know you can take it but I'm trying to only use it when it's horrendous otherwise I'd be taking it everyday! I'm hoping this is just an early pregnancy symptom and it go away soon 🤞🏼 I can't even watch telly tonight 😩

squidlady · 10/03/2021 19:40

Is everyone else still having sex? We haven't since finding out, I'm too anxious! Would like to though...

Nov21 · 10/03/2021 20:03

No sex for me!! I’m too terrified it’ll make me bleed and miscarry however irrational that is!

Fillybee · 10/03/2021 20:08

Hello! 4+2 here so due 15th Nov. I have 2 boys already. Had 3 miscarriages in between the boys so trying not to think too much about this pregnancy until we reach the 8 week point which is a bit of a milestone for me... Has anyone started a Nov 21 Facebook group yet? I find it hard to keep track of these mumsnet threads especially in those early days when so many people will be joining everyday Smile Nice to meet you all, fingers crossed for us all xx

Sunbird24 · 10/03/2021 20:12

I haven’t had sex in over 3 years @squidlady! 🤣

Welcome newer ladies! It’s a mad house in here but there’s always someone with the same worries or symptoms as you...

Aisforharlot · 10/03/2021 20:34

@squidlady yep Blush
No bleeding, all well.

squidlady · 10/03/2021 20:52

Do forgive me @Sunbird24, that question wasn't very inclusive!

Welcome everyone, lovely to have so many here Smile

Sunbird24 · 10/03/2021 20:59

😂 Squid it’s ok, it really doesn’t bother me! It wasn’t very good even before that so I don’t miss it. Just as well really eh? 🤭

DizSquiz · 10/03/2021 21:12

@squidlady hey! We haven't since finding out as similar to you, too scared at the moment. But as soon as we can we will 😅 I think I'll feel more comfortable about it after 7+ weeks x

AlackAlasAlackaday · 10/03/2021 21:18

Welcome filly! Facebook group - there is one set up by the other Nov 21 group, link below. I suggest anyone who wants to, joins this one rather than creating a second one. A few of us are on there. (I have no idea why there are two Nov 21 groups on MN but but in our defence this one was first! Hopefully come a second thread they'll consolidate.)

www.facebook.com/groups/830127751051335/?ref=share

squid, we managed it once since finding out. It's not fear of bleeding etc for me that's stopping it, I just feel too unwell/tired really. And on that note, have just woken up from a 2.5 hour nap! Whoops. Lord knows how much I'll manage to sleep tonight then, but I literally couldn't keep my eyes open. The toddler was really confused, DH says, at being awake later than mummy.

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HLMx · 10/03/2021 21:35

Evening 👋
Due 23rd November with my first. I knew I was pregnant just a few DPO but finally got a positive test 8 DPO on the 6th March. I did another test this morning and the line is much much darker this time so I'm feeling much more accepting.

I haven't told anyone yet not even my OH 😲🙈 I didn't know how to do it but now I have a plan for Saturday, so fingers crossed for good weather.

According to my app I'm just 3 weeks 1 day pregnant. I've spoken to my midwife today and she's booked me in for an appointment on 21st April, does that seem a little far away?? I'll be 10 weeks by then, so I'm not sure?? Any advice totally welcome 🌟

Fillybee · 10/03/2021 22:09

@AlackAlasAlackaday thank you! I’ve joined xx