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Summer '20 Grads Part III

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SmileyT · 14/09/2020 16:20

@Dipsy77 ❤️❤️ 15th September
@Mococo1 ❤️ 16th September EDD 27th March
@zippityzip ❤️ 18th September EDD 29th March
@mrsmummy1111 ❤️ 21st September EDD 3rd April
@Sausage1990 ❤️28th September EDD 20th April
@smileyT 💚 2nd October 🧡 26th October EDD 15th March
@mrsI2020 💚 2nd October EDD 22nd May
@cocoblue22 💚 3rd October EDD 12th March
@littleRa 🧡 14th October EDD 8th March

@noble89 EDD 25th March
@fairylights2 EDD 1st April
@eloise27 EDD 8th April
@Lettie365 - EDD 11th April
@Ltay2 EDD 11th April
@Madz123 - EDD 13th April
@blodyn91 - EDD 14th April
@samilicious EDD 16th April
@Mustbemad82 EDD 20th April
@MrsEmilyB EDD 30th April
@Catherinettc EDD 19th May
@Blondi3 EDD 25th May
@Sophi123 EDD 25th May

💚 extra scans ❤️ 12w scans 🧡 20w scans

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Cocoblue22 · 29/09/2020 20:09

@blodyn91 what a lovely scan! Congratulations and I'd say that's a girl 💗 x

Mrsi2020 · 29/09/2020 21:01

@Ltay2 lovely news and you’re right epu is horrible! I much prefer the private scans! I’m going to have another at 11 weeks so oh can go as he won’t be allowed to my 12 week one!

Early scan today went well and we had a heartbeat 💓 xxx

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Bl0ndi3 · 29/09/2020 21:07

@Mrsi2020 aww that's lovely ❤️ how far along are you? X

Ltay2 · 29/09/2020 21:12

@Mrsi2020 Aww lovely scan! Yeah OH wasn't allowed with me at EPU and won't be allowed at the dating scan next week either. At the moment as things are he is allowed to 20wk scan so hopefully won't need another private one but definitely will book one if things change!

blodyn91 · 29/09/2020 21:25

@Mrsi2020 ☺️☺️ cute lil bean!

So OH friend just told him you have to pay to find out if you are having a boy or a girl? 😧 Is that true?

Bl0ndi3 · 29/09/2020 21:26

@blodyn91 not unless you pay for a private scan earlier as I'm sure it will just form part of the 20 week scan and I'd be so surprised if any trust made you pay! Xx

Mrsi2020 · 29/09/2020 21:40

My local hosp dont tell the gender! Altho I think a gender scan is only about £60 at the private clinic and tbh it’s a much nicer experience! Think we’ll keep it a surprise! 🥰

Thanks everyone! 7 weeks today but she said it could be a couple days out xxx

Bl0ndi3 · 29/09/2020 21:43

@Mrsi2020 omgosh really wow! That shocks me, as if they won't tell you! Surely they can see so why wouldn't they just say? Madness!

Ignore me then @blodyn91 😂

Regardless I'll be having a private scan at about 16 weeks so I know the sex just before Christmas

blodyn91 · 29/09/2020 22:20

I had a great first scan at 12 weeks, I was the first in post lunch brake so was straight in, and OH allowed in, so don't want to pay £60 😆 I'll just have to wait and see then. Everything is different everywhere!

Catherinettc · 29/09/2020 22:41

@Mrsi2020 we are very close in due dates as I think im 7 weeks 2morro Smile

Scan at epu 2morro at 1.30pm im scared now after the bad news this week on here :(

@Ltay2 glad ur scan went well mrs ❤❤

@blodyn91 love ur scan pics!! So exciting xx

Last night I didn't get past 10pm and tonight im nowhere near ready for bed lol. Think it's nerves for 2morro tbh. Will keep u all updated xx

zippityzip · 30/09/2020 06:01

I thought that finding out the sex at 20 weeks was standard but there was a sign up at my hospital that said "We MAY verbally confirm gender if confident with the results but it is not expected and do not ask us to write it down".
I bet someone has complained about them getting it wrong.
I'm not finding out anyway but if I was I would defo be paying for a private one.

Mustbemad82 · 30/09/2020 07:22

Lovely news @Catherinettc I have my dating scan confirmed for Thursday 15th October when I should be 13 weeks
My friend gave me a home Doppler yesterday and I got to hear a little train heartbeat - very sweet
Only told a couple of people, children still don’t know and we will wait

What are people’s thoughts about names ? I understand if you don’t want to share but just wondered what people where thinking x

SmileyT · 30/09/2020 08:34

@blodyn91 amazing scan you'll see such a big difference between now and your 20wk scan aswell which will be lovely 🥰 also yes it's worth checking with hospital some have a strict 'don't ask about gender' policy, definitely because people have sued NHS after being told the wrong gender, but considering OH was allowed in with you and you got a few pics printed aswell I reckon your hospital is nice...also I'm guessing girly for you xx

@Ltay2 glad it all went well at EPU and baba was all good x

@zippityzip loved reading that message yesterday... 1year from now I'm hoping to be enjoying spending time with my bestie and her little boy on her last month of Mat leave. OH will have got a promotion and I will have found the perfect replacement career where I only have to work Tuesdays and Wednesdays but get paid a full salary 🤪 and hopefully back into the gym and playing netball a couple times a week 👌🏾

@Mrsi2020 yay to another successful scan, I love how they explained what everything was, I just saw mine as a blob 😂

@Mustbemad82 Me and DP have agreed I'd pick first and middle name if he gets surname so I'm pretty set on what his name is but won't be saying it out loud/ writing it down until I tell DP next year 🤪

My 32nd birthday yesterday and feeling overwhelmingly emotional about life, how long I can I blame hormones!? 🤔 planning on telling my family on Friday which is also making me super anxious

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zippityzip · 30/09/2020 09:09

@SmileyT Happy birthday for yesterday!

Don't worry last year was my 30th and I literally had a crisis. Full on breakdown. And I wasn't even hormonal.

I'm 31 soon and it makes me emotional as I'm a GROWN UP. I just don't let myself think about it 😂

Bl0ndi3 · 30/09/2020 13:21

@SmileyT happy birthday for yesterday ❤️ I know how you feel I turned 30 a few weeks ago and it's rubbish getting older haha!

@Mustbemad82 we've started thinking names and have a bit of a shortlist but it changes all the time

Atm we like
Girl: Poppy, Phoebe, Hallie, Nora and lily
Boy: Frederick

We struggle to agree on boys names clearly and that's the only one we both really like atm we both have lots of names we like that the other doesn't

Mustbemad82 · 30/09/2020 13:36

@Bl0ndi3 my 16 year old is freddie x

Lovely choices - love the name Nora x

Sophi123 · 30/09/2020 13:57

Hi girls - I'm back! Had another scan this morning at 6w4d after the one last week for bleeding/cramping etc. Got to see a little healthy embryo and heartbeat. Could tell I was anxious but said that at the moment things were 10/10 so just need to try and relax.

I was so sorry to come back and read sad news on here - there is nothing I can say to make it better but hope you get the space/time you need @Sausage1990 to heal.

It was also my birthday yesterday @SmileyT but don't worry about feeling old - I turned 34!!

Catherinettc · 30/09/2020 14:42

Ladies scan went brilliantly so I can relax now ❤

Around 7 weeks and wee heart beating away nicely. Only 1 baby 🤣🤣 (not googling about hidden twins 🤣🤣)

Wee pic for u guys ❤❤❤

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Bl0ndi3 · 30/09/2020 15:49

Great news on both scans ❤️ @Catherinettc
@Sophi123

I can't wait for mine now, it's proper dragging dunno how ill cope between 7-12 weeks 😞😞😞

blodyn91 · 30/09/2020 16:48

Aww lovely scans!!! Now both of you can relax a lil bit now 💆🏼‍♀️ (or try)
@SmileyT Happy Birthday!!! Im 30 next year and it does scare me, remember when I thought id be married and have two kids by 30 🤔🙄 Yep I definitely think I have a good hospital, they gave me 9 photos of the scan for free and they are really clear. The maternity unit is new so I think the ultrasound machine is new.

@mustbemad82 yes we have a few names. Aeron for boy, Seren for girl so far. Welsh names as it will take OH surname ☺️

Well I had someone smash into the back of me today as I slowed for an oncoming ambulance 😩 Everyone ok, the lad that hit me was shocked bless him, so just had to tell him its ok. Luckily my car is a company car so easy to sort out, but all my back sensors have been smashed 😬 his car was a lot worse off. Just got home so treated myself to a bowl of cereal 😋

Busybee143 · 30/09/2020 17:17

@Catherinettc @Sophi123 congratulations on the scans ladies, I'm so nervous for mine tomorrow I'm feeling quite optimistic but I'm scared and trying to keep grounded in case it's bad news!
@blodyn91 I'm 30 next year too, there seems to be a few of us around that age. I've totally heard 30 is the new 20 😂

zippityzip · 30/09/2020 17:35

I'm so gutted I'm in my 30s 😭 well, almost 31.

My eldest is almost 10 and even though I KNOW I'm not an older mum, not even by a stretch. I really feel like it now!

zippityzip · 30/09/2020 17:38

I was genuinely thinking today I wonder if I can squeeze another baby in before I'm 35 😂
Fucking mental. This is the woman who never wanted kids.

SmileyT · 30/09/2020 17:39

I had to reread my post as was wondering whether I'd said I was worried about being old, which I wasn't until you all mentioned it 😂 was just emotional because my mum didn't ring me which most years wouldn't bother me because she is a bit strange and doesn't really do things the way 'normal' mums do but it really affected me yesterday. Then today when I got to work they had a surprise call where they announced they are making mass redundancies, they are hoping it will all be voluntary but we'll see. So ready for some time off now 😴

@Catherinettc @Sophi123 great news on more successful scans 🥰 and happy birthday @Sophi123 what a fab birthday present to see that lovely heartbeat 💗

I hope all is well tomorrow @Busybee143 stay positive ❤️

@blodyn91 glad you are okay and it's easy to sort the car xx

Sorry loads of grumbling from me but hope you are all well xx

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Mrsi2020 · 30/09/2020 17:43

@Mustbemad82 were tossing around a few names! Immi /indie for a girl atm but I don’t know if they’re it for me. And Rocky for a boy !

@SmileyT how many weeks are you now? Can’t believe you’re gonna hold on to the name for so long ! 😱 I couldn’t haha! I have to set the name quite early. I did with my girls and trying to pick a name that doesn’t clash with the other three is hard haha xx

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