Summer '20 Grads Part III

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@Dipsy77 ❤️❤️ 15th September
@Mococo1 ❤️ 16th September EDD 27th March
@zippityzip ❤️ 18th September EDD 29th March
@mrsmummy1111 ❤️ 21st September EDD 3rd April
@Sausage1990 ❤️28th September EDD 20th April
@smileyT 💚 2nd October 🧡 26th October EDD 15th March
@mrsI2020 💚 2nd October EDD 22nd May
@cocoblue22 💚 3rd October EDD 12th March
@littleRa 🧡 14th October EDD 8th March

@noble89 EDD 25th March
@fairylights2 EDD 1st April
@eloise27 EDD 8th April
@Lettie365 - EDD 11th April
@Ltay2 EDD 11th April
@Madz123 - EDD 13th April
@blodyn91 - EDD 14th April
@samilicious EDD 16th April
@Mustbemad82 EDD 20th April
@MrsEmilyB EDD 30th April
@Catherinettc EDD 19th May
@Blondi3 EDD 25th May
@Sophi123 EDD 25th May

💚 extra scans ❤️ 12w scans 🧡 20w scans

@Sausage1990 I'm so sorry for you and DH. I cannot imagine how heartbroken you must feel 💔 take each day as it comes and stay strong xxx

@Mustbemad82 we have such a supportive family unit... The difficulty is we're all in separate local lockdowns. So we actually aren't allowed to see each other. Although I think this counts as exceptional circumstances and we may break the rules. Being away from everyone atm is hard enough and now it feels even harder. I just want to see my mum and my twin sister.

Thank you @busybee143 @Mococo1 and everyone for you kind messages. Honestly you girls have been such a huge support, I cannot tell you how much it means to me. Xx

@Sausage1990 Fuck lockdown you need your Mum and sister.

I am genuinely gutted for you, I honestly didn't expect this. I'm so pleased at least your DH was there able to support you.

We are here for you. I'm so sorry - there's nothing I can say to make it better. xxxxx

@Sausage1990 deffo fuck lock down, I had a miscarriage two days into lock down and it was shit being on my own. I was so lucky that I had my little one to look after, she was my reason to get up and function. Focus on doing something with someone everyday regardless of lock down, you need the company and TLC xxx

@Sausage1990 when mine happened I was in local lockdown but didn't hesitate when my parents wanted to come see me so fuck lockdown and get all the support that you need x

@zippityzip @busybee143 @bl0ndi3 you're right, having support through this is so much more important. Being on my own right now isn't a good idea. DH is taking some time off work as he needs it but so doesn't want me to be alone. And when he does go back I'll figure it out about who I can be with. I definitely don't want to be alone with my thoughts & my grief. Thank you for your encouragement 💕

@Sausage1990 absolutely devastated to hear your news. Definitely both take as much time as you need and if you need anything we're all here for you xxx

@sausage1990 so sorry to hear this, such sad news 💛💛 sending lots of love for the next few weeks xx

@Sausage1990 Oh my god 💔
I'm so so sorry, genuinely can't believe it.
I can't even imagine how you're feeling but I'm so grateful you had DH there with so you didn't have to go through it alone. It won't make the grieving any easier, but in that moment at least you were there to hold each other's hands.
Absolutely fuck lockdown! Go and be with your mum and twin.
We're all thinking of you and sending you lots of love. And goes without saying, we're here for support when you need it x

@Sausage1990 I am so sad to read your news but as the others have said don't worry about lockdown restrictions your mental health is so much more important and if there was ever a time you needed your twinny it's now ❤️ My MC was discovered after 2 healthy scans and I know how hard it can be after seeing that lovely heartbeat, I had Surgery but if you want to ask anything about my experience please don't hesitate, or just want to share how you are feeling on here, so much love to you and DH xx

@Busybee143 with my MMC I had spotting and even though they said that wasn't a cause for concern it put me on edge so I never really relaxed in the last pregnancy. Really hope all is well on Thursday, how many weeks will you be?? X

@blodyn91 @Madz123 thinking of you both and hoping all went well xx

@Sausage1990 I'm so so sorry. That sounds just awful 💔. As the others have said definitely ignore the lockdown restrictions and visit your family.

@Sausage1990 I'm soo sorry to hear that 💔 Take time for yourself and know that we're all here for you x

@SmileyT sorry to hear about your miscarriages, I'll be ten weeks on Thursday so far enough along to know if everything has gone right. Still no big symptoms but I know some women don't get them and some women get horrendous symptoms and will still miscarry, it's anyone's game eh! I'm keeping everything crossed.

Thank you for all your kind messages & support. I don't want my experience to frighten anyone who's not had their 12 week scan yet, please take joy in any moment you can. We may be going through the ringer right now but at least we have our happy memories sharing our news with our loved ones & those moments of enjoying the pregnancy and our little bean.

I hope your scans went well @blodyn91 & @madz123 💕

@Sausage1990 broke my heart reading your news 😭😭😭 Definitely screw lockdown, you need your friends and family! 💜💜💜

@blodyn91 diolch 💕 did yours go okay? I've been thinking of you xx

@Sausage1990 I'm so sorry, I experienced this in February and it's heartbreaking. Look after yourself and definitely see your family xx

Yes my scan went well, haven't felt like sharing since your news 😩 @Sausage1990

It was in the wrong position so ended up having to go and totally empty my bladder for it! I was overwhelmed and never heard OH talk so much! He was so cute.
Heres a photo for anybody who wants to guess sex?
I feel nub = girl but skull = boy 🤔
So they dated me as 12weeks, ahead of my prediction so new EDD is April 12 and 20week scan is on the 20 of November 🥰

Congratulations @blodyn91 💕 Lovely photos!

@Sausage1990 I'm so so sorry can't believe it 💔

@blodyn91 Ah look at that! I have no idea about theories so can't help there but what lovely pictures ❤️

@blodyn91 I thought as much - thank you so much friend for being so considerate 💕

I am so thrilled for you & happy to hear your good news - fabulous scan, baby looks gorgeous and I'm guna guess Girl. I duno why I just feel like it's a girl. Xx

@Sausage1990 you are so brave, family and DH support will make you feel lots better ❤️ I've had two miscarriages and know it's absolutely devastating. I'm still so gutted and shocked for you 😩 wish I could just give you a big hug, we are here whenever you need us xx

@blodyn91 baby is looking like a cutey already..im thinking a little boy from the pics! Will you be finding out eventually? my nub said boy but the sonographer said nub theory is rubbish as she scanned herself loads of times during her pregnancies and it was completely wrong for her both times x

I've managed to get myself a scan at EPU for 2.30pm tomorrow. Had no more bleeding since that little spot on Saturday morning but still terrified, and OH can't come in with me so he will be waiting in the car 😫

@Ltay2 good luck - keep us posted

I have a date for my dating scan on 15th October when I should be 13 weeks

Had a scan at 10 and things ok but I’m
Just not confident or feeling good with things . It just seems such a lucky dip and I’m not sure I can be as brave as some of you have and are being x
I’m not sleeping with the worry x

@mustbemad82 honestly this weekend I was having nightmares and had two breakdowns, I was terrified. My symptoms have sort of gone and my belly is still flat as a pancake. So totally understand how you feel, and as you said there are ladies here who have gone through some terrible things. Just try and keep yourself distracted. This morning I went on a really long dog walk to calm myself. Do not google anything and watch really uplifting comedy films before bed.

@Mococo1 yes we will be finding out, just makes things easier. I have 4 nieces and no nephews so if its a boy will need to spend more