March 2021 #3

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Pregnancy group for anyone due in March 2021 💜

@MrsJ89 I guess I’ll just find out on Thursday! Might be a very short call!

@Enjoy07 you'll have to let me know. Mines not till the 30th!

All of my appointments are in person from now on. I don't know if it is just my trust that is doing everyones face-to-face or just me because I have serious mental health history.
I'm a bit bummed out too because they have put me on the 1st time mum appointments schedule so I have all the extra ones because it's my partners 1st baby, has anyone else had this? It sounds weird to me and I reckon they just want to keep an eye on me, if it is I'd rather they be upfront.
So for me I know my 16 week appointment will include a discussion about if they need to get the perinatal health team involved because my MW told me she was reffering me just incase I needed it.

Hi everyone, we went for our scan and sadly once again this is the end of the road for me. Our babies heart stopped beating at around 7.5-8 weeks.
My heart is absolutely breaking 💔 as we want nothing more than to have a healthy baby that we get to bring home but we have just had so much sadness, this is our 3rd pregnancy and third loss each through different causes.
I wish everyone the absolute best and healthy pregnancies, you all seem so lovely.
I can only hope and pray that one day we get our rainbow baby. 🌈 xx

@HollieL567 I am so sorry! My thoughts are with you!!x

@HollieL567 I'm so sorry hollie, my heart is broken for you.. you've had such a tough time lately, I'm so sorry today wasn't better news. Take time now and look after yourself 🤍🤍🤍

@HollieL567 I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. That's heartbreaking. xxx

@HollieL567 I'm so sorry for your loss, this is so shit and must be a lot for you to take in. Please make sure you get any support you feel you might need and look after you and your partner.

@HollieL567 so much love coming your way. I can't imagine how you must be feeling but know it must be awful. Take the time you need. Love and hugs x

I am sorry for your loss @HollieL567. I hope you are able to access support during this difficult time and that you are referred for tests to investigate why you have had three very sad losses. I hope things work out how you hope soon.

Not great news for us either I'm afraid. The nuchal translucency was raised so we have to go down the route of fetal medicine. In a bit of shock I think, was so relieved to see a baby, ignorance was bliss.

@HollieL567 so sorry to hear this x

@HollieL567 I'm so sorry to read this 🤍 please be good to yourself, you will have your rainbow baby ♥️ sending lots of positive thoughts your way.

Awww guys 😢

@HollieL567 I am sooo sorry for your loss. I was really hoping everything was going to be ok. I hope one day too will get your rainbow baby.

@Usplusone try to remain positive until you have had more investigation. I know this is easier said than done but lots of healthy babies are born that have a raised NT at the dating scan xx

@Usplusone thinking of you, must have been such a shock. I assume you'll be seen quickly?

@Babafarmer thank you. I'm heartbroken, but trying to stay positive and remain grateful that at least we now know and can start investigating. Being a medic is a double edged sword, I'm quite good at distancing myself emotionally but also know too much.
I'm most dreading telling my MIL who will need to know as we are going away with her next week. Her mother has cancer and is refusing treatment so she's already stressed. I think she'll be really upset and I'm going to find it hard to tell her myself when I really don't want to have to support anyone emotionally apart from my husband. I realise this sounds really selfish...

[quote MrsAndMrs]@Usplusone thinking of you, must have been such a shock. I assume you'll be seen quickly?[/quote]
I hope so, we want CVS, I'm 12+5 and it needs to be before 14 weeks

@Usplusone not selfish at all. You need support! I'm sorry to hear it wasn't the good news you hoped for. Hoping you're seen quickly and it works out. x

Thankyou all for your support. 💞
I think I'm going to choose natural management and hope it all doesn't take too long and not too painful.
It's so sad. 😭 I really hope everything goes well for you all. Xx

@HollieL567 I am so so sorry for your loss. Like others have said take your time to grieve. I am sure you will get your rainbow baby. 🌺❤️

@Usplusone sorry to hear that, can't imagine how stressed you are.. much easier said than done but try remain positive as nothing is set in stone yet. I'll be thinking of you and hoping for a positive outcome for you 🤍

@HollieL567 I'm so sorry for your loss! Thinking of you and sending lots of love your way hoping you get your rainbow baby one day x

Hey everyone just wanted to throw in a link for the new thread as we're coming to the end of another!

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/4023341-March-2021-4?watched=1

@HollieL567 I am so sorry to hear your sad news. Be good to yourself, I can't imagine how hard this must be for you 😢💞