Catching up with TTC after MC thread January 2020

[BecsterG]

Hi Ladies, hoping you all can join soon. The TTC (trying to conceive) after MC (miscarriage) January group have been so supportive I hope we can keep it up for those who have BFP (big fat positive).

Good luck for the scan tomorrow @Zoey36 . Let us know how you get on. I feel like this week is dragging and really wish it was tomorrow night so my scan would be in the morning.

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Scan was fine! Measuring 6+4 with a heartbeat! She also said I can come back in 2 weeks for another scan just for reassurance.

Oh that's great news! Yeay. That's brilliant you can go back in 2 weeks. I don't think I'll get that option. If all goes well tomorrow I'll have another 5 weeks to wait as not due my dating scan u too I'm 13 weeks! Mmm

So pleased it went well. Does that make you relax a little? X

Yeah I was very surprised that she offered that. I kept asking her if it was because she had seen something concerning but she said it's at their discretion and since with my MMC, it didn't develop last 6+4, it would be nice for me to see further development.

Would you book a private one? I was going to book one for 9 weeks. It has reassured me yeah x

I should be almost 8 weeks so don't think I'll get another one but yeah I might book a private one maybe for 10 weeks if I can't move my scan forward.

That's really good they're doing just for you. Gives you piece of mind too hopefully x

So pleased for you @Zoey36 what a relief!

Does anyone else find themselves crying at everything at the moment? Call the Midwife has just ruined me! 😭😭😭

Hi ladies,
That’s great news @Zoey36
Did you have a scan @BecsterG?
I’m going for another one tomorrow and feeling very nervous 😟
7 weeks today, feeling nauseous on and off but I wouldn’t say it’s getting any worse 😥

@Cruiser1 How are you? Good luck tomorrow.

I had my early scan this morning and all looks good. One baby with a heartbeat and measuring as I though, 7+4. I have a heart shaped uterus so they want me back in two weeks for another scan. I'm relieved but still anxious and don't think I'll relax more until my dating scan.

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@BecsterG that’s amazing news ❤️ Delighted for you 🥰

I’m 7 weeks but always measuring small, it was the same on my DD! I’m refusing to let them change my dates this time, I POAS every day and I know when I conceived 🙄

@Cruiser1 thank you. They actually asked me this time when I got my first BFP as I got it at 10DPO plus I have short cycles so I guess they take that into consideration.

I guess if you measured small with DD it will be the same this time and maybe why you didn't get quite the reassurance you needed last week? You should be able to see everything tomorrow so I have everything crossed for you.

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@raspberrypickle I've just watched that episode of Call the Midwife! OMG heart wrenching x

I know! In hindsight I probably shouldn't have watched it 😐 it was Sister Monica and her 'flowers of Nonnatus' that got me, and then when they laid the flowers in memory of Warren 😭😭😭

@Cruiser1 good luck today. Let us know how you get on.

Also @BecsterG so sorry I should have said that's great news about the scan, really pleased for you x

@raspberrypickle thanks. Any news on yours?

It was meant to be yesterday but I had to work so they moved it to the 20th Feb x

Shame you had to work. Fingers crossed for 20th Feb x

Hi @Cruiser1. How was the scan today? Been thinking of you this afternoon x

@Cruiser1 I hope everything is okay. xx

Glad for you who have had happy scans. How are you all doing? My sickness was becoming horrible but today I've not been sick and have felt completely fine. It's a welcome relief but the same happened with my miscarriage- symptoms just disappeared. I know I'm being overly anxious but you can't help but worry. I have another scan a week on Wednesday so I think I'll just be worried now until then!

Hey @Zoey36 , you probably are spotting things more than before but you never know it might be back tomorrow!

My sickness comes and goes. Defo not as bad as with my DS but it's there all the time just not as extreme. I too am over thinking it and have started thinking has it lessoned, am I imagining that?!

I have another scan the day after yours and it will be at the back of my mind all the time until I have that. I also think I might have a UTI or bacterial infection so going to get a GP appointment tomorrow. Also loaded with the cold and so tired it's unbelievable. I'm in bed now. Ha ha

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I haven't been sick since Thursday but today I'm not feeling great. So hoping it's just eased a bit! That would be great!
Hope you got a GP appointment! How are you feeling?

@Zoey36 I'm ok. Thanks for asking. The GP took a swap so I'll hear in a few days if it's a bacterial infection or thrush or whatever. It might just be the change in PH level but thought I'd get it checked out.

I don't feel as sick tonight so worrying now. Ha ha it's never ending. I just want to get to my dating scan and everything be OK.

That's not good you feel rubbish tonight. It does seem to come and go doesn't it. God morning sickness sucks.

@raspberrypickle I think you have your scan tomorrow? Good luck. Let us know how you get on.

@Zoey36 do you feel like these two weeks to our next scan is dragging?

@Cruiser1 thinking of you. Hope you are doing ok?

Hi,
Yes it's tomorrow at 9.50. Thanks for your kind words, I'm starting to feel a bit nervous now 😞. Hope you're doing ok? X

I'm sure it will all be fine but I completely get how you feel. I feel like that about my next scan despite everything being fine last week.

I'm fine that. Just keeping my head down and trying to get through it.