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He wants an abortion

103 replies

Delta8319 · 29/12/2019 22:46

I found out I am 6 weeks pregnant.... very unexpected...

I have been with my partner 10 years and he's always made it clear he didn't want more kids (has a child to a previous relationship)

However I came off my pill and was honest and told him...

Low and behold.. after 14 months I'm pregnant! I'm
So confused... I don't know what to do.... my husband is 100% clear he does not want this pregnancy to continue... I'm uncertain and emotional. I'm so scared this will be my one and only chance and if I don't do this now then in later life it will come back to haunt me with huge regret...

Advise please...... do I terminate and continue with my life or do I choose to continue and ultimately end up doing this alone..... 😔

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BecauseReasons · 31/12/2019 11:43

Damn, forgot to bold the first paragraph, sorry

GummyGoddess · 31/12/2019 12:00

My second child was a surprise and failed morning after pill. DH wanted me to terminate and I refused. I saw the options as terminate and end the marriage, keep baby and divorce or keep baby and it all works out. Only one option was going to make me happy and it involved keeping dc2.

He has come around to dc2 and now adores him, but it's very possible we're getting divorced anyway. However I just wanted to say that nothing will ever compell me to wish dc2 hadn't happened, he's amazing and worth any potential divorce.

OhMyDarling · 31/12/2019 12:57

@BecauseReasons agree completely

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