Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Classed as obese at booking in appointment- size 12

41 replies

Woodlandwitch · 04/11/2019 19:17

I knew I had a wobbly tummy left over from c section from baby number 1 and have been struggling to get rid of it so I wouldn’t have been surprised if they said I was overweight.

But I actually just by 0.1 point get classed in the obese bracket so need a GTT this time

I’m a size 12, how is that now obese?!?

OP posts:
Ohyesiam · 04/11/2019 19:22

Have you got a tiny frame? Friend of mine looks very overweight and is a 12 because she tiny bones.

Or maybe the bmi thing is a blunt instrument and is failing you? What size were you in pre kids?

BIWI · 04/11/2019 19:23

Vanity sizing, I'm afraid.

Clothes size has little to do with your weight.

CmdrCressidaDuck · 04/11/2019 19:24

A small person can be obese at a size 12. A dress size, in isolation, doesn't mean anything and certainly doesn't mean you're NOT obese. Plus many shops vanity size.

Justasconfusedwithnumber2 · 04/11/2019 19:24

I agree OP, the BMI measure is not great IMO. I am a size 12 with my second pregnancy after a CS and fell into the same category but was 30 BMI on the nose. I wasn't referred for a GTT until fundal height started measuring big at 28 weeks which came back clear. I wouldn't worry too much it hasn't effected my pregnancy.

Woodlandwitch · 04/11/2019 19:25

I’ve always been a 12, my BMI last time i was weight when I was doing Cambridge after having baby number 1 was 25

OP posts:
DuchessMustard · 04/11/2019 19:25

It's just another bit of proof that dress size means absolutely nothing. Whenever people post threads on here & give their clothes size rather than their height & weight, I always think it's meaningless - and it is.

Woodlandwitch · 04/11/2019 19:25

I am still wearing those same clothes (not stretchy ones)

OP posts:
user1471449295 · 04/11/2019 19:25

Clothes size doesn’t mean anything. It’s how much fat you are carrying. Also, clothes sizes keep getting bigger and bigger. I have stayed the same weight/size for 20 years but I am 3 sizes smaller Hmm. Please don’t rely on dress sizes!

BIWI · 04/11/2019 19:26

A bit about vanity sizing from Wiki - note the bit I've put in bold:

Vanity sizing, or size inflation, is the phenomenon of ready-to-wear clothing of the same nominal size becoming bigger in physical size over time.[1][2][3] This has been documented primarily in the United States and the United Kingdom.[4] US standard clothing sizes are no longer used by manufacturers as the official guidelines for clothing sizes was abandoned in 1983.[5][verification needed] In the United States, although clothing size standards exist (i.e., ASTM), most companies do not use them any longer.[2]

Size inconsistency has existed since at least 1937. In Sears's 1937 catalog, a size 14 dress had a bust size of 32 inches (81 cm). In 1967, the same bust size was a size 8. In 2011, it was a size 0.[6] Some argue that vanity sizing is designed to satisfy wearers' wishes to appear thin and feel better about themselves.[2][3] This works by adhering to the theory of compensatory self-enhancement, as vanity sizing promotes a more positive self-image of one upon seeing a smaller label.

itsabongthing · 04/11/2019 19:26

How tall are you and how much do you weigh?

I’m 5ft4 and have just dropped from the obese to the overweight category at about 12st 6.
I am still a 16/18 so nowhere near a 12 (unless it was very stretchy....)

Woodlandwitch · 04/11/2019 19:26

I’m 5ft 4 and was weight at 11 stone 11.

At my lightest I’m 10stone 9, but that was way pre kids

OP posts:
BIWI · 04/11/2019 19:27

Hah! Sorry. The bit I should have put in bold is this sentence

In Sears's 1937 catalog, a size 14 dress had a bust size of 32 inches (81 cm). In 1967, the same bust size was a size 8. In 2011, it was a size 0

Woodlandwitch · 04/11/2019 19:27

My waist is well defined and 31 inches right now. Normally 30 inches

OP posts:
itsabongthing · 04/11/2019 19:28

How can you be wearing the same clothes at bmi 30 that you were wearing when your bmi was 25? Are they not very fitted?

Baguetteaboutit · 04/11/2019 19:28

It just is, op. If your height and weight indicate that you are obese you can't wave around your size 12s and mitigate the health effects.

LucileDuplessis · 04/11/2019 19:29

So you had a BMI of 25 last time you got weighed and now it's just over 30 and you're still wearing the same (non stretchy) clothes? Are you sure that's right OP? The difference between those two BMIs is around 2 stone, so I'm sure you'd feel heavier.

Woodlandwitch · 04/11/2019 19:29

Thinking about it my boobs have ballooned since being pregnant

OP posts:
BlueCornsihPixie · 04/11/2019 19:29

Well the bmi calculation hasn't changed so you must have gained weight

I think we imagine obese to be massive, like supersize vs superskinny, or the tv shows of people who are 40st. Obese isn't really that big at all, and could easily be a size 12-14 for a shortish woman.

Woodlandwitch · 04/11/2019 19:29

I’m starting to think the bmi calculator was wrong. I just looked myself and I wouldn’t be a 30

OP posts:
Woodlandwitch · 04/11/2019 19:30

She told me my weight so putting that through I’m a 28

OP posts:
Jesskir89 · 04/11/2019 19:31

I'm 5ft 4 and was classed as overweight at 10 stone 4lb. I'm way more than that now so I'll also be obess, at almost 12 stone you probably are classed as that I'm affraid

MillicentMartha · 04/11/2019 19:31

I just calculated it at 28 as well. She got it wrong.

AllTheWhoresOfMalta · 04/11/2019 19:32

Meh. I’m 5ft 9 and a size 14/16 and have been all my life- literally since puberty. I’ve got 36JJ breasts. I was classed as obese in both pregnancy- really don’t think I look obese and the midwife expressed surprise. Said BMI doesn’t account for comically large boobs. I was fine and didn’t have any weight related problems (or any problems other than sickness) in pregnancy. It’s just one of those stupid red tape things you can’t get wound up about.

dementedpixie · 04/11/2019 19:32

I get you as overweight rather than obese.

Baguetteaboutit · 04/11/2019 19:32

Well then, she either measured you incorrectly or you are shorter than you think you are.