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I can tell I'm not pregnant anymore

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loutyre · 28/05/2019 08:30

Little bit of background...
Currently 7 weeks pregnant with my 2nd. Iv had 3 miscarriages in the last year plus 4 in past years. Last time I miscarried I just knew. I went with my gut. This time I have been feeling really sick, my boobs have been sore and iv been that but more tired. Woke up this morning and nothing. I feel fine. I just know in my gut that the baby isn't growing now. I'm tempted to go and get another clear blue to see if it still says 3+ weeks but I don't know if that will give me an answer. I just can't wait around for the next 5 weeks until dating scan to see if baby is still there or not

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LittleFairywren · 19/06/2019 14:58

I'm so sorry op

ravepixie · 19/06/2019 15:11

Flowers our thoughts are with you.

HJWT · 19/06/2019 15:15

@loutyre just been reading your thread hun so sorry for the bad news 💐 xx

bessie84 · 19/06/2019 15:24

Im so sorry to hear this hun. What are the problems @loutyre? Surely if theres a baby and heartbeat thats good? 😥

FrankT · 19/06/2019 15:35

Keep us updated xx

BIWI · 19/06/2019 15:41

I'm sorry Flowers

darlingtwinklebum · 19/06/2019 15:46

So sorry Thanks

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loutyre · 19/06/2019 15:58

I should have known from the get go that something was wrong x

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darlingtwinklebum · 19/06/2019 16:08

@loutyre please don't blame yourself Thanks
How bad is the news? Are you able to continue with the pregnancy? Don't answer if it is too soon just trying to get an idea of the situation
Thinking of you

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loutyre · 19/06/2019 16:20

No they don't think baby will have a long life expectancy x

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Whackaguacamole · 19/06/2019 16:45

So sorry SadFlowers

bessie84 · 19/06/2019 16:47

@loutyre 😥😥😥😥 big hugs xxx

darlingtwinklebum · 19/06/2019 16:59

How terrible I'm so sorry. We're all here for you I'm sure the pp's will agree Thanks

Windygate · 19/06/2019 19:01

I'm so very sorry Flowers

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loutyre · 19/06/2019 19:39

I just want to throw in the towel. 3 failed pregnancies in a year

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rubyroot · 19/06/2019 20:19

@loutyre I’m so sorry, this must have been such a rollercoaster of emotions with the bleeds the positive scans etc.

You’ll get through this I promise. I too have one and a number of losses. One with bad news at 12 week scan which resulted in termination.

You feel like throwing in the towel now, but things might change. Give your little one lots of cuddles. You’ll get through this xx

Lazysundays18 · 19/06/2019 21:08

I'm so sorry xxx

spellingtest · 19/06/2019 21:32

My darling. This is beyond shit. I'm here. We are all here. Vent, shout and scream. We are here. I'm so sorry that you are going through this.

ThePerturbedPenguin · 19/06/2019 21:36

I’m so sorry Sad

Kyogre · 19/06/2019 21:40

That’s so sad. I’m so sorry OP. 💐💐

WishUponAStar88 · 19/06/2019 21:46

Oh op I’m so sorry xxx

babyno5 · 19/06/2019 21:46

@loutyre I am so so sorry that it's not good news. It's so bloody hard. I've lost 8 over the years but also successfully had 5. Every single one is harder than the last.
Sending love and healing hugs to you xxxx

yellowblueorange · 19/06/2019 21:56

Very sorry to hear this OP Thanks

bessie84 · 22/06/2019 07:41

How are you @loutyre xxx

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loutyre · 22/06/2019 09:13

@bessie84 I'm just sad. Don't have any answers. Just a confusing sad time. My partner is still very optimistic but I have never had that way of thinking xx

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