I can tell I'm not pregnant anymore

[loutyre]

Little bit of background...
Currently 7 weeks pregnant with my 2nd. Iv had 3 miscarriages in the last year plus 4 in past years. Last time I miscarried I just knew. I went with my gut. This time I have been feeling really sick, my boobs have been sore and iv been that but more tired. Woke up this morning and nothing. I feel fine. I just know in my gut that the baby isn't growing now. I'm tempted to go and get another clear blue to see if it still says 3+ weeks but I don't know if that will give me an answer. I just can't wait around for the next 5 weeks until dating scan to see if baby is still there or not

Anyone awake? Iv just woken up to a really uncomfortable pain in my upper abdomen. Part of me wants to think it's trapped wind or indigestion.

Anybody any thoughts and how I get rid of it?

@loutyre peppermint tea if you have any🙂

@niamhzs unfortunately not. Iv got lemon and ginger tea will that work?

Get on all 4s and lean down as if you're looking for something under the couch. Butt right in the air. Really helps with trapped wind.

Or mints.

@loutyre how many weeks are you now? Pains can be normal where everything is moving

My last pregnancy I had bleeds the whole way through and have had 3 miscarriages in my history. It's bloody scary and even more stressful when there seems to be no reason. My baby is about to be 1 so although stressful for me he was always fine! Hopefully they can give you some answers for the bleeding if it continues

Looks like some late night yoga for me then I am 10 weeks but adamant when I go for a scan on Wednesday they will tell me there's no heartbeat

What a rollercoaster, thinking of OP!

Well the yoga worked a little but iv just left last nights tea in the toilet bowl sorry TMI but feeling slightly better

Glad you are feeling better.
I think expecting the worst is your mind’s way of protecting you. It’s hard to accept. Fingers crossed for Wednesday.

I've had bleeding all the way through, clots like you describe. I'm now 22 weeks and haven't had any for about 10 days now.

I feel every time I go they check the heart beat is there and just send me on my way and the worry remains.

Hope things settle down for you.

Hi @loutyre so sorry for you losses!

I was also put on aspirin during my first pregnancy, it's well known for reducing the risk of mc and it baffles me as to why all high risk women aren't told of this?!

It thins your blood and 1. Helps blood flow through your placenta and 2. Helps line your womb for baby.

There's lots of stuff online about it. I took it from 8 weeks up until going in to have him x

Woke up bleeding this morning just going to keep an eye on it. I'm up at the hospital tomorrow anyway for a scan but if it gets worse I'll go up today

Oh @loutyre - is it heavier or spotting. This early pregnancy lark sucks 😥

@bessie84 from what I can see just spotting. I was able to find the heartbeat on Friday with a Doppler and I was throwing up all weekend so I am keeping my fingers crossed. It's unreasonable to make anyone wait 12 weeks until they can relax a little. It's a train of emotions and it just makes me realise if this is or isn't successful I'm not doing it again. Iv cried more times these last 6 weeks than ever

Oh sweetheart. I totally know that feeling all too well. I whole heartedly also agree, its too much for people to wait until 12 weeks, its an horrific time when your having worrying symptoms. I bled from 7 - 14 weeks with my son, it was horrific (that was a few months after i had his sister who was stillborn at 41+3) and your right... it makes you think you wont ever put yourself through it again.
I have everything crossed for you. Are you able to rest today? I hope it stops and tomorrow comes real quick for your scan. Xx

@bessie84 awwwww that breaks my heart. I have a little girl and I worried every day even after I had seen her on scans but I bleed with her aswell. I had group b strep and I drove myself mad on google I ended up having her on my living room floor on my own. Us women have it so tough. I will keep you posted xx

Fingers crossed for you OP. The anxiety is unbearable isn't it? I only had one miscarriage and fell pregnant soon after with DS2, but I was a nervous wreck throughout the pregnancy. He's a very bouncy 6 year old now.

Fingers crossed for you today OP.

Good luck today OP, thinking of you this morning

Good luck and best wishes for today @loutyre xx

Thinking of you @loutyre xx

Had a scab, seen a 10+5 baby. Saw heartbeat. Unfortunately there are problems though. Currently sat in a private room at the hospital waiting for the doctor to discuss my options. It's not good news

Oh no. So sorry.

So sorry 😭😢