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young mums to be?

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SavanahXx · 13/08/2018 16:03

hello ladies, I'm a young mum to be, and I was just wondering if there are any more young mummies to be? would really appreciate some mum friends Smile Flowers x

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Pickledgerkingsareathing · 15/08/2018 15:40

I'm 18 and due number 2 in 3 1/2 weeks :) my sons 16months x

SavanahXx · 15/08/2018 15:46

hello @Pickledgkingsareathing aww, how's mummy hood? and how are you finding this pregnancy Smile? x

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MissKatyKat · 15/08/2018 16:59

Thank you so much @SavanahXx that means a lot. I did tell the dad when I first found out but he wasn't interested and then he thought I'd had an abortion so he probably won't be bothered that I haven't but I suppose he has a right to know and the baby has a right to know who her real dad was if she wants to look for him one day.

SavanahXx · 15/08/2018 17:44

you have no need to thank me @MissKatyKat is he the same age as you? maybe he's a little scared? its an overwhelming feeling finding out that you're going to be a parent, no matter how old you are, or how prepared you are, he might have a change of heart once he knows you couldn't have the abortion? I have no idea, I just really want you to be ok and everything work out for you, your predicament has really moved me, and I cant help but to want to just help you as much as I can! haha Smile xx

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MissKatyKat · 15/08/2018 18:24

@SavanahXx yes he's the same age as me and he's also going to uni in a few weeks (a different one). He says he never wants kids and he always made that very clear for the two years we were together. Thank you so much for caring, I'll keep you updated. I hope you're not feeling too bad today xx

SavanahXx · 15/08/2018 18:32

I thought I never wanted kids either, now look at me, all I want to do is be a mum, he just sounds a little immature still, he'll eventually get out of his little imaginary world and realise he created a child. and again, stop saying thankyou haha! and I'm fine today, tbh i've been more like "I hope @MissKatyKat is ok" and make sure you do keep me updated Smilexx

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Tallula386 · 15/08/2018 18:37

Love this ladies!! I'm in my 30's now with 3 lovely boys and had my first at 19!

I wish you all the best of luck!! It can be a hard road. Just make the best of it that you can.

Any questions welcome if that helps?Smile

SavanahXx · 15/08/2018 18:50

hello @Tallula386 thankyou!! I know for one, I'm definitely excited, and so is my OH Smile sounds strange but I for one cant wait for all the sleepless nights, because cuddling my baby girl will make all the hard work so rewarding, definitely scared about labour though!! ive been looking up about it, and honestly it doesn't seem like how I pictured it was going to be haha! so now I'm definitely scared haha, and aww 3 boys? sounds amazing Grin x

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Tallula386 · 15/08/2018 19:15

You'll be fine, your body is made for it. Stay calm and follow your instincts.

3 boys is great fun!

SavanahXx · 15/08/2018 22:14

@Tallula386 would you believe this pregnancy is already taking its toll on me lmao, I'm super short, I'm already looking 6/7 months gone, I'm finding it even more awkward to walk and my ribs are bloody killing me haha! I love my little girl unconditionally already but she isn't half hard work like her mum haha Grin

and I bet it is!! Smile

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Pickledgerkingsareathing · 16/08/2018 22:34

It's tiring but honestly the most rewarding thing in the world !!! This pregnancy is taking its toll on me with ds being so young but nearly over ! Xxxx

SavanahXx · 16/08/2018 23:01

aww! bet you cant wait, must be tiring, it definitely sounds it Grin xxx

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Kate123cl · 20/08/2018 08:03

@SavanahXx Found out today that we're expecting a little boy! I had a feeling we would be!😊💙

Kate123cl · 20/08/2018 08:03

Yesterday*$

SavanahXx · 22/08/2018 18:38

sorry, I have only just seen your message @Kate123cl that's amazing!! bet you're excited! congratulations FlowersFlowers x

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Kate123cl · 22/08/2018 18:39

No worries @SavanahXx I am very excited!Smile started buying blue and thinking of names haha! Hope you're keeping well? X

SavanahXx · 22/08/2018 18:50

I'm so so happy for you @Kate123cl have you decided on a name yet? we haven't for our little one, she's just going to end up having no name lmao. I'm doing good thou, baby has decided she's a night time baby thou and already keeping me awake at night haha, how are you doing??
and ive only gone out and got 1 pink thing, and its only towels haha, OH is petrified of us going getting all pink, then her coming out as a boy haha, he's a weirdo. think we might go and pick her pram up on Tuesday, very excited for that Grin x

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Kate123cl · 22/08/2018 19:20

Thank you! We really like Freddie but it seems quite common now! Brodie is close 2nd! Haha I find girls names a lot harder to be fair to you! I haven't felt much movement yet as I have a posterior placenta :( haha it does happen though when they say one sex and it comes out the other Grin ooo picking up the pram will be very exciting!! X

SavanahXx · 22/08/2018 19:31

aww, them names are so so cute Grin!! and I know what you mean, before we found out the sex, we found boys names easier to agree on, but girls names are hard haha, and oh noo Sad I'm sure you will start to feel him soon!! and when he does all them big rolls and kicks for you, it will be amazing!! and I know yeah, I don't think she'd come out a boy thou, when the sonographer showed us her from the bottom, I said "aww she's a girl isn't she" and the sonographer said he was extremely confident that he hasn't seen a penis and that she's a she haha Grin and I know, so excited, wanted to get it for weeks, but didn't want to get it too early, but I'm definitely caving now and just have to go get it haha Smile x

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Kate123cl · 23/08/2018 07:59

@SavanahXx Haha that's so lovely! I think it's very uncommon they get it wrong anyway so do more pink shopping haha!Grin we got our pram last week and my boyfriend won't stop pushing it around the house he's so excitedGrinx

SavanahXx · 23/08/2018 18:41

@Kate123cl aww! Haha, he sounds dead excited haha, when's your little one due?x

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Kate123cl · 23/08/2018 19:26

@SavanahXx he is lol! Due 25th JanSmile you? X

blh23 · 23/08/2018 19:49

Hello lovelies - can I join? Just found out I'm pregnant and would love some buddies to talk to on the way! I'm 23 and this is my first 😊 hope everyone is feeling okay! xo

SavanahXx · 23/08/2018 19:59

@Kate123cl 17th December, then got Christmas pretty much straight after, never going to have a break lmao.
@blh23 of course you can join!! The more the merrier. Congratulations on finding out your pregnant!! How are you finding it so far? I'm feeling very sleep deprived right now, little one does huge rolls at night, and keeps me up with it!! Her dad seems to think its all a big game and loves it thou haha :) I just want a decent nights sleep lmao!! 😊xo

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Dandybelle · 23/08/2018 20:05

Hello! I'm 24 and currently 27 weeks with my second baby. First baby is no longer a baby actually and now a very independent 4 year old girl haha. I don't know if I still properly count as a young mum but I feel like one so... here I am 😂