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Super worried after 2 MC!

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Alicejj8x · 20/06/2018 15:56

Hello ladies I just cannot shake the whole miscarriage feeling.

This is my 3rd preg 2 ended in Mc one this year and one in 2016

I mean I do have some
Symptoms but no sickness which is worrying me. I think
I'm
Around 4-5 weeks preg but if we was going
From
My last period o would be 6 weeks but I know I ovulated late

Just feeling a bit down and freaking out when In reality I don't need to

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NotAsGreenAsCabbageLooking · 20/06/2018 16:00

Think there’s a few of us in that club..

Nothing to do except wait and see unfortunately. It just goes so slowly!

Alicejj8x · 20/06/2018 16:15

@NotAsGreenAsCabbageLooking oh it does doesn't it.

I've got my scan next week but stil
Super nervous

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Ilovechocolate111 · 20/06/2018 17:07

I'm in the same boat. Just found out in pregnant I'm around 5 weeks and I've had 6 mc. The only main symptom I have is sore boobs! I'm petrified in going to mc again. I went to the docs today to arrange an appointment but they said as I'm not priority I have to wait 2 weeks for the appointment! I'm holding hands n praying

Alicejj8x · 20/06/2018 21:30

@Ilovechocolate111
Oh hun I am
so so sorry to hear about your losses must of been horrible for you and now extra scary!

Just hang in there lovely

Wow that's so bad you've got to wait for 2 weeks considering your past of MC!! Xx

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Ilovechocolate111 · 20/06/2018 23:02

Looks like I've spoken to soon! 😔
Just gone to the loo and guess what I saw when I wiped?!! It's not loads but I no its the beginning! 😔
I'm so sad right now!
I thought oh I've had 6 mcs already I can have another.. But it's really hit me this time!
Nd I have no one to talk to. I have no family or friends just my oh who won't talk about stuff like that..
😢

Bringonspring · 20/06/2018 23:08

I’m so sorry for you ilovechocolate have you had any tests to understand the underlying cause? Could be jus really unlucky but at that number I would really Perdue tests.

I also had two MC but have gone on to have a successful pregnancy

Wishing you and OP lots of luck

Ilovechocolate111 · 21/06/2018 07:13

Well there was nothing this morning when I wiped?
Fingers crossed
I am suppose to go to a miscarriages clinic next week to do test ect to Hopefully find out why. But I don't think they can do the test if your pregnant.
So. I'm going to have to ring them up to see what I should be..
I also have 3 kids already, middle one was premature at 27 weeks.? Don't no why!
I was told they probs won't find any underlining problem or cause for the mc as I've already got kids?
The mc started after I had a premature kid (apart from my 1 pregnancy ended in a mc)
All I keep thinking is why.. Why me? Xx

Alicejj8x · 21/06/2018 08:29

@Ilovechocolate111
Oh I hope it was nothing hun!! And that everything is all ok

Keep us updated once you've had your appointment and I'll be thinking of you xxxx

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Alicejj8x · 21/06/2018 08:30

@Ilovechocolate111 if your getting an appointment ** xx

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Ilovechocolate111 · 21/06/2018 17:04

It's kids of stopped now. I'm hoping it was just an inplantation bleed or something like that.
I aint having no pain or cramps.
I have an appointment on the 1st July.
I am so scared! Xx

Alicejj8x · 22/06/2018 19:16

@Ilovechocolate111 how are you today lovely how is the bleeding?

I am praying it is all fine for you xxx

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Alicejj8x · 22/06/2018 19:17

@Ilovechocolate111 1st July isn't far away hun just try keep calm xx

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Tryingforsleepthief2 · 23/06/2018 12:18

I found out on Weds I am pregnant after a miscarriage in April. I am trying not to freak out but I didn't expect to get pregnant again this quickly and I have no symptoms now. With my first, I had every symptom and was sick at least 5 times a day.

I will pay for an early scan this time as it was a missed miscarriage last time but I'm dreading going in to that room again.

Alicejj8x · 23/06/2018 14:22

@Tryingforsleepthief2
Ahh congrats hun!
I am so sorry to hear about your loss I too had a MC not long ago end of March/ start of April so we're about the same I would say :)

It's so scary I think with symptoms it's super scary and lack of them!! But just got to have faith in our little beans and hope it's all ok

When will you have your scan?

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Tryingforsleepthief2 · 24/06/2018 21:16

Middle of August I think. According to an app I've got I will be 5 weeks tomorrow.

Took a digital test today, just to check I'm not seeing things and to make sure hcg levels are in the right place.

I can't remember when I started having symptoms last time. I remember feeling really dizzy and sick and then one day it all stopped, but I'm not sure when they started.

Tryingforsleepthief2 · 24/06/2018 21:17

Oops, that sent before I meant it to!

Hope yours goes better this time, all the luck to you and the little bean

Alicejj8x · 25/06/2018 10:31

@Tryingforsleepthief2
ah well atleast a scan is booked Hun.

I am
So nervous for Wednesday but this morning I did start to feel abit sick but it's gone atm as I ate something so hope it's good news :/ just so worrying isn't it

Thank you xxx

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Alicejj8x · 25/06/2018 10:31

@Tryingforsleepthief2 ah that's good did the test go up or show how far?

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Tryingforsleepthief2 · 27/06/2018 07:05

Good luck for your scan today.

I booked an early private one last week. Can't deal with the wait. I felt sick all day Monday but then yesterday, nothing. I don't know if that's normal or a bad sign.

The test said 2-3 weeks which is accurate and means dr will say I am 5. Just can't believe it's happened again so soon.

Alicejj8x · 27/06/2018 11:02

@Tryingforsleepthief2
Ahh when is your scan booked lovely?..
Yeah I am sure that's all fine and matches up ..

Soooo....
Had my scan and we saw a heart beat :)
They are saying I'm around the 5 week mark ( which does Match up to when I thought I ovulated)..
they seem very happy with how everything looks she said it's in the correct place but main thing was the heart beat :)

Then had a chat with my fertility nurse and she seemed happy she said she wants to scan me again in 2 week so the 11th July ( as they like to do this at the clinic) and just wanted to check everything is progressing as it should do, she said obv at the mo my last period date I should be further along but coz I know I ovulated late I think this is why I'm later than they have put in my notes?
She said only to them it could make them think things aren't progressing but last time this was the case I was 2 weeks out from what the notes were saying and things developed how they should but then sadly Mc
So do you think this is an ok sign as I know I ovulated later??

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Tryingforsleepthief2 · 30/06/2018 13:31

I think that's a brilliant sign- you've seen the heartbeat and that is reassuring.

In France and other European countries they aren't late until 42 weeks as they know the first two weeks of a pregnancy, when dated from the last period, we aren't really pregnant. If your cycles are always long I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Good to get the reassurance of a further scan too. And great you saw the heart beat at 5 weeks. That gives me hope I'll see it at 8. My scan is on 16th July.

Alicejj8x · 01/07/2018 16:43

@Tryingforsleepthief2
Ah just keep counting
Down those days till your scan :) it'll fly round soon you see :)

Yes my cycles are normally every 3 months so I expect that's why and I know I ovulated late and it matches my dates :)

Thanks just hope it continues to progress xxx

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Tryingforsleepthief2 · 01/07/2018 19:53

Fingers crossed for you.

When I went to the loo earlier there was blood when I wiped. Praying it's just because I had sex with OH for the first time since we found out earlier and not because it's a miscarriage.

Alicejj8x · 01/07/2018 19:59

@Tryingforsleepthief2
I have heard after sex it's so common for
Blood/ spotting as it's so sensitive down there atm!
My fingers are crossed for you! Xxx

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Tryingforsleepthief2 · 17/07/2018 18:16

Saw the heartbeat at the scan yesterday. Hope you are feeling well. X

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