Super worried after 2 MC!

[Alicejj8x]

Hello ladies I just cannot shake the whole miscarriage feeling.

This is my 3rd preg 2 ended in Mc one this year and one in 2016

I mean I do have some
Symptoms but no sickness which is worrying me. I think
I'm
Around 4-5 weeks preg but if we was going
From
My last period o would be 6 weeks but I know I ovulated late

Just feeling a bit down and freaking out when In reality I don't need to

Ahh yay :) congrats lovely! So happy for
You how far are you now?

I know cramps and stretching is normal and don't
Get me wrong it's not painful painful but I defo know these cramps are here today :/

I'm
9 weeks tomorrow and have my scan tmo
Morning so freaking out that these cramps mean something is wrong
:/

How did it go? Xx

@Tryingforsleepthief2

Sorry forgot to message and update lol

Everything went perfect thank you

Little bub was wriggling so much they found it hard at first to get measurements lol one was 9 weeks and the other was 8+6 but she said to go for 9 weeks which matches up with what I've got wrote down 😬😊

Have my MW on Monday and then can book my 12 week.

How are you? Xx

Really sick. Wasn't at all last time so trying to see the good in it! Still panic on a regular basis that something has gone wrong but trying to remain calm.

So pleased cramping wasn't anything to worry about.

Sorry for delay in reply, don't get notifications for some reason!

Congratulations on the scan you must be so relieved.

I’m 6 weeks following 2 miscarriages. I’m a nervous wreck, my symptoms have fizzled out. Can’t work out if I’m just expecting the worst to try and prepare myself, I’m just too scared to ley myself get excited. 12 week scan feels forever away. I don’t want to pay for an early one after my last experience having one. It’s so hard!!!!! Really trying to not even see myself as “having a baby” until we get that positive scan.

@Tryingforsleepthief2
I know what you mean it's like a good
Sign isn't it when you feel/ are sick

How are you feeling lately xx

@Embobolina88
Thank you yes but the worry starts all
Over a few days after the scan lol

Oh hun I know how you feel. I've had 2 MmC and you will and do compare last time to
This time but try not to. Try and think
This is a new pregnancy a new baby and this will
Be the one for you :)

Have you got any scans booked in?

@Alicejj8x no scans booked yet but I spoke to my midwife on the phone yesterday about symptoms disappearing and she said not to worry about it, another strong pregnancy test is a good sign and she’s going to try and arrange a reassurance scan for
Me to check if it’s a viable pregnancy. I feel so down!

@Embobolina88
Symptoms
Do
Come
And go hun I promise you don't freak out just yet. Although it is so easier said than done I know how you feel about worrying after the MC you do think the worst but symptoms do
Fluctuate and you never know tmo you may wake up and feel so sick or you maybe one of those lucky ones who gets hardly nothing :)

That's so
Good she can get you in for a scan to put your worries aside! I hope it's soon for you. Can you do a private one in the mean time
If you feel like you can't wait?

X

@Alicejj8x my first pregnancy went perfectly. The second pregnancy I didn’t get to my 12 week scan, at 11 I got an upset stomach, went to hospital and the baby fell out. Last year I paid for an early scan at 9 weeks- she told me there was no baby just a yolk sac. She said I could go back in a week for a free test. But basically I just had to wait around- the bleeding started so I went to a and e- ended up staying in for 2 nights because the kept forgetting to book me on for a scan (scan to confirm what I already knew from the scanning place). The whole ordeal was just horrendous, waiting around in the hospital on my own. I’d rather wait for one the midwife will arrange, then if they tell
Me it’s gone wrong I’m in the right place, not in limbo.

I’m so hoping the symptoms disappearing doesn’t mean anything, but I can’t shake the feeling that I’ve lost this one too!

@Embobolina88
Oh bless you that sounds horrible to have to go
Through :( I can't even begin to imagine. Bless you

Just keep positive and let's hope this scan comes through soon!!
I understand about not wanting to go
For a test privately bless you. Xxx

I freak out every day when I'm not sick. I find it's worse if I haven't eaten or have been up late... on the days I'm not ill sometimes I'm tempted to stay awake late to see if I'm sick in the morning. Never manage it though. Hope you are just being sensitive to symptoms @Embobolina88.

I was told after my miscarriage that scans are automatic after two losses.

I have my booking appt tomorrow with midwife so I'll get my date for my scan... so hard not to worry in the meantime! When is yours @Alicejj8x

@Tryingforsleepthief2
Yeah I've had 2 losses and they scan me every 2 weeks up
To 9 weeks so last Wednesday was my last scan with them but everything so
Far has been ok. I've just been sick
Too so hope that means it's ok :/ I just ger so
Worried

My 12 week scan is the 13th August xx

Ok I tested Tuesday and got a thin dark line. Then again this morning and got a wider line but slightly paler? Help?! I don’t know what it means!!!!

I think that's fine hun @Embobolina88
Still positives.
Some of mine are so so light and faint and others are dark

Have you heard of the hook effect?