Partner has left me at 33 weeks pregnant

[Nayynayy]

So yesterday I had an argument with my boyfriend, which stemmed from me saying he hadn't asked all day if I was okay and I really needed a hug... in which he said 'I should of got out whilst I could!" I left to go to my mums returning home this morning expecting him to be there but all his stuff has gone and I've not heard a thing from him. I'm 33 weeks pregnant with our first baby and I'm absolutely terrified. Also been told this week my grandad has terminal cancer and may only have weeks left to live and I'm now sat here alone in tears on new years eve!. I don't know what to do, feel like I'm going out of my mind. Has anybody else had their partner leave whilst pregnant?

Yeah think I'd be a bit scared to get a
C-section.

Been out looking at prams today, it's all a bit confusing 🙆 plus I was hangry when I was trying to pick 😄 got some good offers this time of year though. Gonna go back to mothercare tomorrow and hopefully get sorted

Well done OP! You're amazing and going to make a wonderful Mum with excellent boundaries

I've had two sections now the first was an emergency one and the second one was an elective one. I was scared what happen the first time would happen again so I chose a second section also scared of a natural birth. Silly really. The sections weren't that bad I was up an about just had to be careful really. Didn't take pain killers for long after.only stayed in one night the second time round it hurt the most getting out of bed.
Try not to worry either way you'll be fine and you'll have your gorgeous little one. Us Women are made of strong stuff

It was the right decision for my ddhaving been in a DV/cheating situation with her exp which gave her a lot of anxiety. The medical profession decided it was the right thing in her case.

She was up and around within four days. Understandably it is not the right decsion for everyone.

Wishing you well OP with your decisions.

How are you @Nayynayy xxxx

Good thanks @juneisthemonth xxx

Giving it another go with OH, made it clear if he ever does anything like that again that will be it. He's currently sorting the baby's room while I have a nap... 6 weeks to go 💖

Awh that's good news! It's was a shitty thing he did!!! Realllll Shitty, but I would have done the same as you. Men are just stupid, we all know that :-p
I'm so glad everything sorted for you and your partner! 😍 the next 6 weeks will fly by @Nayynayy xxxx

Keep him on an incredibly tight leash at the end of a very long stick!

Thankyou @juneisthemonth and yeah it really was shitty what he did.
After us talking I think he had pretty much regretted taking his stuff as soon as he'd got to his mums but he's stubborn and had hoped I'd call.
Ah I know 🙈 I want time to slow down, we have so much to do! Xx

@BigBaboonBum 😅 trust me he has been warned, anything like that again and he knows that'll be it 🙋 just tryna forget the crap start to the year and look forward now 🤗 still can't believe I'm gonna be a mum soon!

I hope it works out. 😱

Hi Ladies and all,

So...a smiliar thing has just happened to me. My husband and I have been together about a year, I am pregnant 33 weeks and we had an argument about him meeting another girl for coffee and lunch and lying to me about it and when I said I feel sad about that...because the COVID virus has stopped us from seeing each other, he got angry at me. We haven't spoken in 8 days.

@RoRoIvy

Hey, what a horrible thing to get angry at you for. Why on earth did he need to lie? Of course you would be upset about any kind of lie - let alone meeting another girl secretly, and like you say, when he should be social distancing to protect you & your unborn child.

I think sometimes when there are deeper problems in a relationship, they will find a way to reveal themselves to us. His timing is especially revealing.

He’s behaved badly, and now found a way to start blaming YOU for it?! That is horrible cruel and manipulative.

It might be time to have a good think about whether you keep him in your team for these next previous few months and years..

P.s to get a better response it might be a good idea to start a new thread as this one is v old now x