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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 20/05/2017 14:17

I hope everyone suffering from the Horrors of Hyperemesis will find this thread useful as a source of support and information.
There's no TMI on here - can't be by definition - and nobody should feel ashamed of moaning as much as they feel the need to.

MOH's wonderful website is full of useful information on this illness:
sites.google.com/site/pregnancysicknesssos
Another invaluable website is:
www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk

If you need help in obtaining medication, this phone number is
brilliant:
024 7638 2020

Lastly, the NICE guidelines on treatment are useful:
cks.nice.org.uk/nauseavomiting-in-pregnancy#!scenario

I would like to thank everyone who has given such invaluable support and advice on this and on previous threads.

Remember when you are at your worst, 'This Too Shall Pass'. It really will.
So many women on this thread have thought they couldn't get through this, but they did.

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pippanippa · 23/05/2017 18:50

Wow it's been busy here, sorry to all the new people joining, and flossy so sorry to hear of the ridiculous situation about ondanestron. It seems like lots of people are having this problem, there must be something which can be done about it, so frustrating.

Thanks for all the advice a few days ago, I was at a bit of a low ebb, but have booked my next Dr's appointment in a couple of weeks so will discuss again then whether to try the next notch up of medicine. In the meantime I have had my first amazingly good day here in quite a while, only sick this morning and had some energy so played with my toddler all day and it was wonderful. Just nice to have a break from that vicious cycle. I know it's only one good day, and tomorrow will probably be rubbish, but it was such a welcome breather! Hoping some of you had a good day too!

Melleebacca · 23/05/2017 19:19

Holly - what great news. I'm sure that will help your mentality.

Flossy - glad to hear about the scan. Hopefully you can get the doctor to give you more ondansetron. Can't believe you're back at work!

Pippa - enjoy the good days, and knowing that with one good day, another should follow in not too long.

Happy birthday to the little ones. It's mine on the weekend, and I think I figured out a very basic cake that shouldn't make me sicker. Just puréed oranges, eggs, almond meal and some sugar. Mostly tart and moist, so should be ok. Fingers crossed.

Just tired here so far today. Nausea is reduced because constipation is a bit reduced. The two seem to go hand in hand for me.

Waves to newbies, pull up a bucket.

LucindaE · 23/05/2017 19:51

Flossyfloss Happy news about scan.Sorry about doctor being awkward about meds. Great advice, as ever, from Lemondrop.
Lemondrop How alarming; I am so glad all was well.
HaichM I am glad you have been able to work much easier hours. It makes such a huge difference.
Hollyhop Oh good; baby is getting ready. Good news about sweep.
Meleebacca Happy Birthday for the week-end...
...And Happy Birthday to the LO's.

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LucindaE · 23/05/2017 19:52

PippaSnippa Ah, and I am glad you had a good day! Often a sign of more to come...

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DeadDoorpost · 23/05/2017 20:06

Lucinda and flossy this is a major crossover but I've not been able to get on here for a bit.
I've persevered with just the 2 tablets of 4mg a day and while I've had a few bad days they've not been as bad as scan day. And today has been almost normal so I think it was all the travelling playing havoc with me.

Also made it better yesterday finding out that I'm graduating with a 2:1 in July so Yeah! Some more good news.

As for other drugs Lucinda, I'll have to phone my gp soon anyway as I'm almost out ondansetron tablets but have plenty of prochlorperazine ones I could use if needed. But I don't know if mixing them would be good. I'll ask him when I phone him.
Salty crackers still seem to be a godsend at the moment and the number of ice lollies I've consumed the last few days (as well as glasses of ice while at my graduation dinner) is ridiculous. But still sometimes struggling with fluids. Fingers crossed it doesn't get s bad as scan day ever again. My friend still can't believe how sick I was. She's never known anyone to have it that bad before.

ChickpeaFarmer · 23/05/2017 20:32

Hello all, I just wanted to pop my head round the door and say hello. I was on this thread when I was pregnant with dd, who was born in May last year, and I've had a positive test today, so I'm expecting the sickness to start any time. With dd it started at around 8 weeks, but I'm already feeling nauseous which is why I tested today. I'll head to the doctors tomorrow to talk about medication etc. I'll try to catch up with the thread, but for the time being just want to wish you all well. (For Lucinda, and anyone else who was around last time, I was Madrigal back then.)

LucindaE · 23/05/2017 20:56

Chickpeafarmer once Madrigal. Of course, I remember you. Congratulations on your pregancy. I do hope you escape it this time, or don't get it badly. Anyway, you are now a veteran...You know all about kesostix, and the good old tips....

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NonStopDisco · 24/05/2017 01:30

Good evening all, and hello to new members.

holly glad to see something positive has come along. I read your blog last night, and have it saved so I can re-read it. So much resonates, so much enlightens how others are going through this.

flossy I tend to sleep from when I get home to about 9ish if I do a full day at work, and the DH brings an approved food. I've stayed up this evening, somehow I'm still here at daft o'clock. sorry to hear about issues with docs, hope it is resolved soon.

LucindaE "if it was a male illness... would be treated more sympathetically* amen to this, or even if it wasn't silly hysterical pregnant women. Colleague told me (when I had explained why I was suddenly off a lot, and that docs had said anything worse would be hospital for fluids), that he assumed I was pregnant but didn't want to ask "in case it was actually something serious" and then went on to explain that because I was pregnant "sickness is normal and not debilitating". I asked what action he would take if he'd was copiously sick for several weeks, on the brink of dehydration and lost quite a bit of weight, and whether he would consider it "serious". I am still waiting for an answer. Other colleague recommended he didn't attempt a response.

I keep jinxing it every time I have a good day, I think it's all over, and then a few hours later I'm slumped in front of the loo for the umpteenth time carrying my trusted tub around. Cannot stand the sight of digestives anymore. Cuppa soup is staying down, tinned soup is not. Weight-loss is slowing, I've lost about 9% of my initial weight in 6 weeks, docs don't seem worried.

Just had nausea today and no sickness, but did dash off at work a couple of times to stare and the inside of the loo. Colleague commented that I looked "pale", achievement as usually very very brown. May one day be brave enough to eat in public and wear non-waterproof mascara. Dreaming big...

Oh! Turns out I can drink slightly sweet tea as well, which I usually hate.

Oh god, I've written an essay!

Melleebacca · 24/05/2017 01:47

NonStop - I lost 10% in 6w and then plateaued for a couple of weeks, and now at 27w, I'm up 4kgs from my lowest, but still below pre-pregnancy weight. I'm borderline underweight usually. Midwife will send me for 2 growth scans (28w and 36w). Don't worry too much about weight loss, hyperemesis babies take everything they need. DD was 7lb9 so it's ok.

NonStopDisco · 24/05/2017 02:32

Thanks Melleebacca. It's reassuring to know the baby isn't harmed. All the pregnancy sickness stuff has just been mentioning a 5% weight loss, and no one has weighed me since my booking in appointment (the first day I threw everything up!). I've mentioned it, but it's not really acknowledged by docs. If that's because it's not really am issue, that's fine!

Hollyhop17 · 24/05/2017 07:27

Thanks Nonstop. I enjoy reading others experience of HG, weird as thst sounds, as it makes me feel less alone. There are so few people who get it and for me, no one on real life, so I wanted as many people as possible to know how it is affecting me.

Colleagues can be the worst, I 'luckily' havent been in much but the times I have, I've been compared to someone else pregnant in the team. 'Oh X hasnt had much time off' etc etc. Good for X, she doesnt have HG... Sorry people arent more understanding.

A consultant told me that, in general, HG babies are born at really healthy weights, despite what the mum has been through. I think its because the placenta works SO well (I guess thats why the hormones affect us so much?) that they always get what they need. Not much help at your lowest, but a good boost on a good day.

Well done for being back at work, I know how much it takes it out of you.

I'm back to self testing for bloody GD again. Only for 4 days and will be much stricter this time round, so depressed to be doing it again, but hoping normal levels will put this behind me once and for all. Was told yesterday if I dont have it I'm allowed to give birth in the MLU which at Kings looks bloody lovely!

Waves to all, hope its a good day for everyone.

pippanippa · 24/05/2017 07:34

Holly I agree, my daughter was born nice and big in spite of the HG, and very soon after giving birth I was one stone lighter than when I started pregnancy. I put it back on quite quickly once I realised I could eat again Wink! Like NonStop says I also was never weighed throughout pregnancy despite mentioning weightless several times whereas this time they are weighing me at every appointment, it's weird!

Hope the testing goes ok over the next few days Holly.

Hollyhop17 · 24/05/2017 07:38

Thanks Pippa, i've found it weird not to be weighed as well. They were concerned in the beginning as I lost half a stone in 3 weeks, but although I haven't gained much, I have gained some. Probably helps I was a bit overweight to begin with...

Melleebacca · 24/05/2017 08:34

Holly - with DDs pregnancy, I did a lot of googling and reading hyperemesis blogs. Even wrote my own for others to read if they wanted. Was so useful as a means of getting through. This time around, I'm too busy with DD and trying to find 10mins to rest every hour to even read anything.

Nonstop - I was referred to a dietician at 8w, but their not too concerned unless you don't gain much in the second and third trimesters. Will be interesting to see what the midwife says when I see her next week, I haven't gained any weight all month so far.

Pippa - seems different midwives have different approaches. I'm weighed at every appt, although they are less concerned this time around because they know I grew a good sized babe last time. Yet my friend who had hyperemesis in the next town over, wasn't weighed at all throughout her pregnancy. And she had HG the whole way though, partly because she didn't take any meds at all.

LucindaE · 24/05/2017 09:52

Hollyhop Pippasnippa NonStopDisco and Melleebaca That reasssurance from the consultant fits so well in with my non medical anecdotal experience on this thread. Most babies are born a fine weight.
It helps to remember that women were designed to bear babies even in times of famine (poor us). The baby taking all the nourishment is one of the reasons that you feel so terrible.
NonStopDisco That colleague - words fail me! The presumption - and from a male, who knows full well he will never suffer from a pregnancy related illness...How dare he? I'll come and peck him.
And Hollyhop You can do without invidious comparisons, seeing your workmate doesn't have a serious illness. In fact, I'd be tempted to mutter something on those lines.

Mother Hen really must go and calm down...

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flossyfloss · 24/05/2017 10:55

Had anyone ever woken up and feels ok and wondering what's going on? This has happened to me today and it's never happened before? I usually consistently feel the same constant nausea but this morning is different? I did wake up in the night at 4am and take a cyclizine tablet just because I usually take it at 9pm and had fallen asleepConfused could it have been the cyclizine?

LucindaE · 24/05/2017 11:09

flossyfloss It does seem likely it's the cyclizine - or one of those good days....

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Mustang27 · 24/05/2017 11:43

Ok I'm leaving can't take this anymore!! I'm definitely dumping this pregnancy!!

If onlySad

FlapAttack88 · 24/05/2017 11:46

Ah flossy yes the 4am cyclizine wake up tactic... its a good one! Though don't go too crazy.. it may start wearing off earlier! Is so nice to have a good start to the day. Hope it stays good for you!!

I keep having horrible foamy white sick :( mostly in mornings. Even if I drink a little water but water helps stop it. Does anyone know why this happens? I am still taking antibiotics but only 2 days left but I take last one at 12.am then not another til 8 after I have been sick so I can try and keep it down.

Is day 11 of them today and the taste and smell of the plasticy capsule thing is so horrid. . Everything smells and tastes like it.. Even I cough and am sick. Hate it so much and can't wait to be off them. Just even on my breath. So gross :( it's just in my in my head as I known is dissolves but I feel like by body is clogged up with that plastic coating and I just want it out my system!! I have pribably eaten more of tht the anything else to be fair haha. That's not true.. my diet at the moment is mostly tinned soup, babybels and grapes , plus capri suns and coke.

disco thst male colleague ... what a douche bag. Add him to Lucinda s hit list along with my SIL and the super supportive nan.

flossy hope gd stays away. And argh at comparisons. Its so frustrating. And when I try and explain to anyone how frustrating it is when this happens ... or when someone says "do just bad morning sixkness then" they just kind of look at me like "hmm I think you're being a bit pedantic and sensitive... probably the hormones and fact you are a hysterical pregnant woman who can't suck it up and get on with life as well as everyone else "

Hopefully they don't actually think that but sadly I honesty do believe this is how some people think based on what they say and how they act . Beyond caring though and it's helped trim down my Christmas card lost for this year 😂😂

Lemondrop99 · 24/05/2017 11:49

Flossy, mine comes and goes very unpredictably. Felt ok yesterday so went out for dinner.... threw up in the street on the way there. Felt ok this morning, feel sick as a pig now. I suppose it's better than constantly feeling like crap....

Lemondrop99 · 24/05/2017 11:51

You ok Mustang? I wish there was something we could take to knock us out for 9 months then we could just wake up at our due date! I would gladly skip this whole pregnancy if I could. I enjoy the scans, hearing the heartbeat, the little kicks but that's like 10%, the other 90% in miserable

FlapAttack88 · 24/05/2017 11:51

Mustang do you think we should try and set up some sort of crexhe facility where its possible for pregnant people to just hand Iver the pregnancy baton to someone else for a few hours and just go out and enjoy

Not feeling sick
Not being sick
Eating or drinking something other than ginger biscuits (don't 😂) and salty crackers
Strawpeedo ing bottles of prosecco

Oh dear that last suggestion wasn't clever 😷😷😷

Mustang27 · 24/05/2017 12:00

Oh flap those antibiotics sound truly awful but the crèche idea is wonderful. Hand the baton over to all the twats that think we are overreacting.

If I didnt have my wee boy I'd also take the sleep until labour part.

Hollyhop17 · 24/05/2017 12:25

Are you ok Mustang?

I find 'good days' can be annoying as people assume one good day means your fine now... However, we know different so please enjoy being symptom free Flossy, long may it last.

flossyfloss · 24/05/2017 13:14

It's not lasted! Sigh... think it must have been the cyclizine at 4am (although cyclizine doesn't usually work on its own and I only take it at night to get a good sleep?!)

No vomit so that's a good thing, since last Thursday I vomited on Monday and that's been it up to now, to be honest it's the constant nausea that I'd rather be without, could cope with vomiting if I felt good in between. Does anyone else feel as though their life is on hold? I feel like I can't think past being sick, I am hoping my hyperemesis clears up at 16 weeks like it has in previous pregnancies, fx. I really don't know how some of you do it to the end Sad