It's in the envelope

[JonSnowsWhore]

Just had 20 week scan...

I wanted to know what it was, OH didn't. So we came to this compromise...

Help me!!!

[JonSnowsWhore]

Patience I really do agree with you I think it would be really lovely. I wish to god I wasn't so impatient I really do!!

[ImperialBlether]

Think of it like a Christmas present under the tree. On Christmas Day, will you wish you'd opened the present and seen what you'd got?

[BigApple11]

Just open it already

[Keepingupwiththejonesys]

Open the damn envelope woman!!! I'm 38+3 with my third and don't know whether baby is a boy or girl, they only person who knows is the lady who did my 20 weeks scan and she gave no hint...just said she knew when dh asked if she did. We found out with our other 2, dh didn't want to but I did so we found out. I promised if we had a third we would have a surprise and I don't break promises. Don't get me wrong I'm so excited to find out on the day now its so close hut would I do it again, no freaking way!!!

[JonSnowsWhore]

Sorry to disappoint all those who are more patient than we are

[KitKat1985]

Congratulations! x

[JonSnowsWhore]

I don't feel surprised in the slightest, I would have put money on it being a boy haha!

[MiddleClassProblem]

Does OH know?

[Blondeshavemorefun]

You lasted just over 2hrs 😂

Does dh know

💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

[JonSnowsWhore]

He was the one who bloody opened it lmao!

[ImperialBlether]

Congratulations!

[MiddleClassProblem]

Lmao! Then you're blameless! Not your fault! He led you astray if anything

[JonSnowsWhore]

Literally just sat there a minute ago & whacked him on the arm & said I can't believe you bloody gave in

He said he had to or I would have driven him round the bend & we'd have ended up killing each other haha! Excuses

[raviolidreaming]

Congratulations! Enjoy the surprise today!

[Christmasbaby16]

Aw don't find out! Seriously is the best surprise you will ever receive when you see your newborn child and discover for yourself. Priceless moment

[Christmasbaby16]

Oooopps didn't read that you had found out now - congratulations on your boy

[JonSnowsWhore]

I'm sorry i am quite ashamed of myself that I couldn't do it seeing as this will be my last one. But my god the relief! I don't even know what for, because I genuinely wouldn't care what it was, but the relief of knowing! We haven't told anyone, don't want everyone to know how weak we are haha

[sj257]

I've found out all 3 times, I'm far too impatient and I don't like surprises 😂

[Avengerhart85]

Aw congratulations! I actually laughed out loud that your DH opened the envelope, I'm also in the 'too impatient to wait' camp

[JonSnowsWhore]

That's the thing though sj the only surprise is if you give birth to a puppy, otherwise it's either a boy or a girl haha!

I have a lot of admiration for people who aren't impatient & can go all the way to the end but I can't I'd end up clawing at my own face desperate to know haha

[SaltedCaramelEverything]

Love that you found out! I was the same as you - so impatient!!! We had an extra scan to find out early so you did better than me. Congratulations so exciting. Completely understand wanting to know I just needed too! Though like you just happy either way but now it's easier to think of names mostly.

[Blondeshavemorefun]

It's nice to know as can start planning and buying blue stuff now

[JonSnowsWhore]

I've been on it! Not bought yet but been on every website I can think of to see what I like haha

[xStefx]

aw congrats , you both lasted longer than I would have lol x

[haveacupoftea]

Haha brilliant

If it makes you feel any better I had to know - i hate surprises and wanted to bond with my little boy! It was an amazing moment when we found out. The birth is amazing enough as it is