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Positive advice needed! 2 potential fathers so confused :( :(
Jmarie2016 · 28/10/2016 09:05
Hi everyone this is my first post so apologies if it's in the wrong place..
To cut a long story short my LMP was 10th September. That weekend I had 'full sex' with my long term partner everyday, then again the following weekend of the 16th September everyday.
However the week following on the 23rd, I had sex with A another. He did not come inside of me. (Sorry-TMI!!)
I then went back to my partner the following week of the 30th. So that leaves me with one week possibility where the baby could be A another's.
My LMP calculates that the baby was likely to be conceived on the weekend I spent with A another. So I went for a scan and (naughtily) never told them my LMP thinking they'd base my conception on the size of the baby???
This puts me at 6w+3 which falls between two weekends I spent with my partner. How accurate is this? Because I was on my period for the first weekend can I conceive then? Does the early dating scan automatically add 2 weeks of pregnancy and I'm actually only 4W+3? Or does that only count if you calculate from LMP?
I am so ashamed and upset with myself for this issue and I really have no idea what to do or anyone to turn to :( if anyone has any advice I'd be so grateful :(
Thank you, J x
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Kaaypaap · 19/01/2022 13:36
So I need help trying to determine who the baby’s father is before she’s born without a paternity test right now to put my mind at ease. I’m pregnant with a due date of January 28th. My last period was April 23rd. So I was having sex everyday up until I got pregnant with my now boyfriend. He would never ehaculate inside of me though. Always used the pull out method. Again we were having sex every single day even during ovulation days unprotected. I had one slip up where I slept with someone else and he actually did ejaculate in me the one time we did it which was may 14th. My period app says I ovulated may 9th. Based on this who’s most likely to be the father of my child??
WeeFae · 19/01/2022 13:39
@Kaaypaap
Zombie thread. Only a DNA test will tell you.
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