Lissie - Ectopic Pregnancy

[lissielou]

Good Evening - I'm Phil, lissielou's husband, following the scan today - Lisa was rushed to hospital, diagnosed with a Ectopic Pregnancy, I have just spoke to the hospital and she is still asleep following the procedure, however as the scan was not conclusive I don't know the extent of the damage as the Dr proposed one of four procedures laparoscopy/laparotomy/salpingectomy or oophotectomy dependent on the attachment of the baby (which was progressing well)the procedures are worse as the list continues. Following a conversation with the nurse she was unable to tell me which procedure they have operated on Lisa.
The last thing she said before I was told to go, was to send this message to her friends on mumsnet.

Both her boys (Noah and me) are desperatly missing there mom and bestfriend

Thanks

Phil

Aw Phil, I hope lovely lissie makes a full recovery asap and is back with you both. Please tell her we're thinking of her

back with you both soon, that was meant to say.

poor poor Lissielou and both of you. How terribly sad for you all. Please send our love and look forward to her coming back x

Oh I am sorry, I had an etopic pregnancy last month, but I didn't need surgery. Send my love to Lissie.

Thanks for posting this Phil there are quite a few of us that have been worried about her
can you send her lots of hugs from me please and let her know I'm thinking of her {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}
{{{{HUGs}}}} for you and Noah too

So sorry to hear this lots of people here have been hoping so hard that things would go right for lissie - please give her our love

OMG Im so sorry for her - her early pregnancy had been fraught with some worrying times and I was SO pleased that it seemed to be working out ok.

I had an ectopic pregnancy and laparoscopy. Take good care of her when she comes home - she will be sore/emotional/hormonal/exhausted/shaky/wobbly/sad for at least a week or two.

Although by the sound of your message you wont need any prompting to look after her.

Im very sorry for your loss.

Oh no. Poor lissie.

Bless you for coming on here. Send her our love and we'll be waiting here thinking of her- and you and Noah of course.

xxx

oh phil

thanks for taking the time to let us know

we have all been thinking about lissie all day, and this is teh news that we were dreading, so i am sure you are devastated .. hope you have some family or friends around to support you

really so sorry that she is going through this and that it was not diagnosed sooner

really hope lissie is out of surgery soon and that she recovers well

what a fraught and difficult time for you all

we are here for you both

take care and love to lissie

lulu xx

Oh I am so sorry, please give Lissie and Noah a big hug. Thank goodness it was spotted at the scan, but so very sad that this has happened to you.

I'm so sorry to hear this. Please tell Lissie that we're thinking of her and we are here for her when she needs us.

Wish her well. I had a ectopic almost 2 years ago, had the full works with the laparotomy. She will take sometime to recover if this is what she had. I was in hospital for 4 days, it took a good 2 weeks before I felt comfortable walking and it was recommended that I didn't work for 6 weeks, she will not be able to drive for 6 weeks. Its a tough time, emotions range from feeling very sad about losing a wanted baby to feeling very relieved that you are still alive.

Funnily (sp?) enough I wasn't too bad when I was in hospital, it wasn't until I came home that everything hit me. One of my biggest problems was trying not to get to frustrated with myself over my recovery time. Tell her to take it easy and be kind to herself.

I am very sorry you are all going through this x

I'm so sorry to hear this - poor Lissie, and poor you.

oh phil, so sorry, please pass our love onto lissie. wishing her a speedy recovery.

So sorry for you and lissie, phil.

I have been following the story although haven't posted before.

I hope that she is home with you soon and that all is well, physically at least, as soon as possible.

Thoughts and best wishes

Neena

Sending loads of love and hugs lissie - so sorry

so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you all.

oh honey...thankyou so much for posting
You poor things
Big ((((((((hugs))))))))))))to my lovely lissie & for you & little Noah too
Please let me know if there is anything at all I can do
lullyboo at hotmail.co.uk

im so sorry

I'm sorry to hear this, I hope she's home with you soon, x

Please send Lissie our best wishes. Also please ask her to let me know if she wants to meet up next week as planned, I do not know with my ectopic I was wobbly for a couple of weeks had 3rd procedure - if she would like some company then please let me know

oh lissie & family, this must be just so awful for you all. Hope thinga re better for you all soon.

Very sorry to hear this. Thinking of you all.

Phil - oh poor poor Lissie and poor poor you! I am so sorry to hear this news - I was so hoping for her - she sounded so positive after everything that last few weeks have thrown at her.

Give her a big hug from us all - tell her we are thinking of her.

take care of yourself too - its hard on the husbands/partners, as they feel they can't show their feelings while worrying about their loved ones.

x

I'm so sorry for your loss, and really sad that Lissie is having to go through this.

You are all in my thoughts.