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So terrified. Emergency section at 25w

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Titchypanda · 11/10/2016 17:42

Today I've been admitted to hospital and told my baby will need to be delivered in next 24 hours due to poor growth and almost no waters. Baby is only measuring at 1lb 2oz with a less than 50% chance of survival. My husband and I are devastated and terrified. Has anyone been in a similar situation?

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SadSock · 11/10/2016 19:36

Good luck OP, some of the tiniest babies are the biggest fighters! Will be thinking of you

Garthmarenghi · 11/10/2016 20:47

Good luck OP x

onmybroomstick · 11/10/2016 20:54

Good luck op Flowers

Tattoosandteadresses · 11/10/2016 20:56

No experience as my dc was born later than that but still early by emcs at 2lb odd. Have you had a tour of the NICU? Our hospital did it in some situations, although there was no time for me to do that.

Hugs and massive luck to you and your lo op Flowers Really wish you both all the best.

BipBippadotta · 11/10/2016 20:58

All the luck in the world to you. Flowers

toopeoply · 11/10/2016 21:00

I have. My baby weighed about 1 lb1. My waters went and I went into labour naturally but it ended as a csection under ga. The whole thing was very scary but the staff were amazing. She spent 88 days in the nicu. Huge ups and downs, , we thought we'd lose her twice but she's now home and a healthy 12lbs!

Signoritawhocansway · 11/10/2016 21:06

Oh titchypanda I feel for you. My DS was born by emcs with less than 12 hours notice at 27 weeks. We spent 10 weeks in NICU.

It's difficult to be positive - the estimated weight is very tiny, the gestational is very young and the 'very little waters' the most concerning thing to add into the mix. It will be a tough road, but I'll pray that you and your baby have the strength to get through the next few hours/days/weeks.

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MillieMoodle · 11/10/2016 21:31

Wishing you and your little one all the very best OP Flowers xx

MouseLove · 11/10/2016 21:33

Sending lots of good vibes and luck. Keep strong and positive. FlowersFlowersFlowers

RobberBride · 11/10/2016 21:38

35-ish years ago, my DH was born about 30 weeks and weighed less than 2lb. He was in SCBU for a very long time, but no long term health problems. They can do so much more now than they could then.

Flowers for you and your DH.

pinkpanther6 · 11/10/2016 21:50

Our neighbours little girl was born at 23 weeks, can't remember exact weights and can't give exact details or time frames but I know the odds on her surviving were very slim. Next week she turns a year old and is a gorgeous little girl, stay strong, stay positive, it's going to be tough but you will get through it. Big hugs xx

Milzilla · 11/10/2016 22:07

Thinking of you and your lovely baby OP. I really hope you're both okay xxx

thatsn0tmyname · 11/10/2016 22:11

Wishing you the luck and love in the world.

clumsyduck · 11/10/2016 22:21

No experience of this but just wanted to wish you luck and send hugs for you and baby Flowers

Oysterbabe · 11/10/2016 22:23

Luck to you all. This must be a huge shock. Flowers

Chinnygirl · 11/10/2016 22:28

I'm sorry you have to go through all this. I realky hope your baby will be ok. Flowers

blondieblondie · 11/10/2016 22:29

Sending you all love and luck. You're very much in my thoughts X

AppleJac · 11/10/2016 22:34

Best of luck

Veggiesupremeextracheese · 11/10/2016 22:35

Good luck and sending you prayers Flowers

namechangedtoday15 · 11/10/2016 22:35

Op there is no sugar coating the situation - you are all going to have a tough journey ahead.

My twins were born at 27 weeks and it was hear breaking watching them struggle. But you have to take each day as it comes, be strong and stay positive. It is very difficult to explain the emotional roller coaster that comes with NICU but be assured that the staff will be some of the nicest, most professional and compassionate medical staff that you'll come across and your baby will be in safe hands.

I agree that a call (either by you or your partner) to BLISS may be helpful and if you feel it would help (I didn't, I wasn't ready for it, I would have found it too overwhelming) a tour of NICU.

My twins came home after 61 days. They're now 11 and have just started at the super selective grammar schools.

Good luck to you all xx

ALongTimeComing · 11/10/2016 22:36

OP can I recommend asking someone to bring you a notepad and pen so that you and DH can keep a diary? There willl be a lot happening and you may want to look back. Best of luck.

namechangedtoday15 · 11/10/2016 22:37

Yes yes to a notebook.

VilootShesCute · 11/10/2016 22:38

Sending all the luck and love in the world ❤

99percentchocolate · 11/10/2016 22:38

Sending you all love xxx