lucinda - ttc for 4yrs with dh,was going to do nhs ivf but sadly dh died, a year later i met now df, i ahd the chat with him saying fine if he didnt want kids as has 3 in their 20's, but needed to know yes or no so could get head round it,ttc for a year and saved (as lost nhs ivf go as df has kids) then spent 3yrs doing ivf and 5th cycle worked
lh - didnt know you had step dc as well, what ages
sneezy, welcome, nausea can be just as bad as sickness so dont think you are a fruad, food def helps, chicken cuppa soup was my godsend and life saver
peace, oh dear, i cant even stand the smell of coffee (and red wine)
sadly past 3 days ive been really sick, there i was g;ating about a roast,fry up etc this week, which were bloody yummy btw, and then thursday started being sick - bang on 20w
apparently a hormone surge at 20w and im half way, whoop !!! but been sick thu, fri and yesterday was awful, lost dinner at restaurants(with banging on doors) fri
but saturday badm sick before went out with friends, sick at resturant and even worse sick walking back to car, couldnt find my trusty coop bags( always have in coat,bag or car) but must have run out, but do have doogy poo nags in my car, so yes i heaved big time in the car park into a poo bag - such a classy bird is me 
today i feel ok again, had a roast and havnt been sick yet .......
and 20w sacn tomorrow, pink or blue :)