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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

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LISSIE NEEDS HELP!!!!!!

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 10:27

as most of you know just had 4th mc, did a test today to make sure and it was a bfp vv clear wtf?????

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Emzickle · 28/01/2007 10:29

Sorry to hear about all your bad luck honey. How long ago was your last MC? Perhaps you still have the HCG hormone in your body. I guess you must do to get a BFP.

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 10:30

on weds but got bfn at docs

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WigWamBam · 28/01/2007 10:31

The pregnancy hormones can hang about in your body for a couple of weeks, Lissie.

Sorry to hear about your mcs.

trace2 · 28/01/2007 10:31

how far pg was you??

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 10:32

4w+4 dont want to get hopes up....

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trace2 · 28/01/2007 10:35

sorry dont know whats happened so far, and i understand what your saying,about not getting hopes up i went through some thing simler last july i was pg did about 8 tests theni statred to bleed, and i got a - day after

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 10:43

started bleeding on weds. bleeding has now stopped but got bfp this morning.

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trace2 · 28/01/2007 10:45

how long did you bleed for and how much?? i really think you need to go back to gp, but they wont scan you untill about 6 weeks

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 10:57

right got scan booked for tues. so scared now. been bleeding on and off since weds

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trace2 · 28/01/2007 11:01

well they may give you an internal scan!, i understand how scared you are i lost mine in july, but now pg again, i really hope it is good news for, you was you told you had m/c?

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 11:02

yes test at docs came up bfn.

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trace2 · 28/01/2007 11:05

dont really know what to say as i dont want you to get your hope up, but bought tests are more senative than gp, i was told this by a friend who works at hospital in labs! i really do hope for you its the waiting what gets to you((hugs))

PurpleLostPrincess · 28/01/2007 11:22

You poor thing! I m/c'd back in October and had an ERPC etc.
About a month later, EPAU nurse called me and asked me to do a test to check that the hormones were out of my system so I guess they expected them to be there...? It wasn't a pleasant experience considering I was trying to get it all out of my head!

Hope it all works out for you xxx

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 11:40

dont know is there a chance that i could be pg?

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ItsMeMellowma · 28/01/2007 11:46

LL I don't usually come and comment on the pregnancy threads as I hate to get hopes up etc.. but have been following your story..

As I say I do not want to get your hopes up but a friend of mine had the same happen when we were young. It turned out she was carrying twins and had lost one baby but it had gone un-noticed that there was another...

Please try not to get too hopeful because your head must be bursting with all this...hope it is good news for you...if anyone deserves some, you do!!

Catbabymummy · 28/01/2007 11:48

Don't know what to say Lissie... so sorry you are having a hard time.

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 11:51

well mellowma, justed asked my mum if there were twins in our family and apparently her mum had twins that were stillborn. and mums auntie has twin sons. my head feels so messed up just want to know now. im actually shaking and i feel bad coz i had a couple of beers last night thinking it was safe but what if it wasnt??

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ItsMeMellowma · 28/01/2007 11:56

A couple of beers wouldn't matter...

Try not to get yourself so stressed

I know it must be horrible...you must be feeling like you have little helicopters going around in your brain!!!

So you have a scan on Tuesday? you need to try to do something to take your mind off things, although I know it is almost impossible....

Really feel for you,we tried for 4 years to conceive ds1 and had missed misc etc...it takes its toll on you mentally as well as physically.. Lets hope for some good news..xxxx

Plibble · 28/01/2007 12:05

Gosh Lissie - it's a real rollercoaster for you at the moment. The same thing that Mellowmama describes happened to my mother when she was pregnant. She was told she had miscarried, but I am now in my 30s! Please try to take it easy until Tuesday and be careful about getting your hopes up (I have heard that pregnancy hormones can hang around for a bit after m.c.). What will be will be, of course, but do try to relax and be kind to yourself. I have my fingers and toes crossed for you!

lulumama · 28/01/2007 12:17

lissie...the hormones can hang around , as has been said , i think it is a case of wait and see for the scan, and fingers crossed..x

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 12:55

is it normal for the result to be darker than the previous ones

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belgo · 28/01/2007 13:01

Lissie Lou - I saw your miscarriage thread - and as much as we would all love you to still be pregnant, I really don't want you to have false hope only to be devastated again...as someone else said, the hormones could still be present in your bloodstream for a little while after miscarriage.

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 13:09

i suppose, its just so hard. id only just started to come to terms with the mc, and then this....

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belgo · 28/01/2007 13:16

Recurrent miscarriage is very hard to deal with - is there anyone you can talk to about how you feel? Are you having tests done to find out why you keep on miscarrying?

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lissielou · 28/01/2007 13:19

yes, seeing specialist on thurs, just dont know what to think. do i assume im still pg? do i assume ive mced?

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