Staying posifrickentive- Thread 10 for ladies pg after mc

[LynseyH5]

I've made the new thread, hope I'm not stepping on anyone's toes... just wanted to make sure we had one.

Sitting for too long in one position is actually pretty painful I agree, everything sort of freezes. Definitely get up and move (go to the loo!) every 20 mins or so helps I find.

Purple I'm so sorry you've lost your mum just now, I remember your MIL wasn't well but didn't realise your own mum wasn't in a good way, losing a mum is so hard, but right now is rubbish timing

Jpeg good to see you here, I was briefly on the TTC thread with you too I think.

Milestone for us today, DH arranged for us to go and visit the nursery at the end of our road after work as apparently it's necessary to book places way in advance. I really enjoyed it, and DH said it made it even more real for him than the scan did. Think we're both gradually transitioning into believing in this pregnancy going the distance and getting excited about it. It's a wonderful headspace to be in.

Sorry it's my mil that passed away. I called her mum hence the confusion

lucky that sounds so great to visit the nursery! How far along are you?

It's so nice to see so many of you from the other TTC thread... I'm still not believing I'm pg yet! OH says until we get to 12 weeks he can't believe it either. I'm trying to forget the MC and be happy

Ahhh mrs your symptoms sound like v good signs!! When is your scan? Been thinking of you. Xx

Totally normal, Mrs. I kept crying yesterday for no reason at all. Not big sobs, just every now and then the tears rolled down my cheeks and I don't know why!

Don't say sorry Mrs it's really okay to feel this way. I really hope next week comes quicker for you.

Hope you're doing okay Purple.

My nausea goes away if I eat but then heartburn kicks in. I'm asleep before 11 every night & DP commented today on my breasts. I'm just in the before scan limbo again. But I'm a quarter of the way through pregnancy today so that is good progress.

Trying to sort the house out while I have energy & motivation. Living room is taking a beating today. Don't know if it's nesting but I did so much cleaning with DS, work loved me for that. So did my friends haha.

Hope everyone is doing well today.

Also whatser I just sobbed over an Obama meeting different kids article. No idea where that came from!

Dies your SIL know you are pregnant yet?

Thinking of you purple. You have my warmest sympathies. Xx

I cried at the Katy Perry song Rise when it came on the radio this morning

tinkly that pain is so sore!

jpeg that's a lovely way to think and it really got me through the first 12 weeks taking it day at a time.

I only have the odd freak out now and again. Last nights was that I needed a cervical stitch, not a clue where that thought came from!

So sorry about your Mum Purple.

Hang in there Mrs. I have everything crossed for you.

These hormones are crazy things. I've just had a bit of a meltdown. Mil and sil keep texting me baby names. I can't take it. We had already agreed not to discuss names with anyone this time as mil was really judgmental last time. It's too much though. I'm so fricking scared and the fact that 'the baby' has suddenly become our little girl makes it real and even more scary. I can't do names yet. I then sobbed because I feel guilty because they mean well and are excited. Im lucky to have them. I'm angry and annoyed at them and also myself and I'm scared and I feel really guilty. Sorry for the moan. Sorry purple if it is particularly insensitive to you at this time - your loss is part of the reason I feel so guilty. I haven't got anyone to talk to know rl. Dh is brilliant but he's annoyed at his mum so if he sees she's upset me he will say something and I don't want that. I might just say we've got a name so no more suggestions. We've not, but at least it might stop them.

Ahbrenna!! I've been thinking about you! How are you? Lovely to hear from you xx

I stick my head round the door here occasionally to find out how you ladies are doing. I am pretty rough right now. CD 17, ovulated CD 15 haven't DTD for over a week as DH has been too tired. This month my temps have been really stable and it was looking really good. Totally hacked off. The usual shit really.

Glad things are looking good for everyone here though.

Mac, I think you're a few weeks behind me in the freakout stages. I also went through the 'wondering what will happen if it turns out no-one knew I needed a cervical stitch' phase. Yy to the crying for no good reason at odd moments too. I wonder what the next thing will be...

Whatser, I feel your pain re. the 'helpful' suggestions. My own mother apparently frequently laments to my sister that I don't talk to her about the baby. She's quite put out that (unlike said sister) I have shown no interest in going shopping for buggies etc etc. I'm sure she (and probably plenty of others) think I've been pretty disinterested in the whole pregnancy. Well, so be it. If it means they leave me alone... Tell them whatever you need to.

Fingers still crossed for time to pass quickly for Mrs.

Hi all, ok if I join? I recognise a few folks on here from the TTC after miscarriage thread (whatser Kate purple jpeg) though have been lurking with intent far more than posting (had mc in March, was active on the thread for a little bit but then went quiet, though I kept up with the thread and avidly crossed my fingers for all the lovely ladies there as theialso had the insanely long cycles post mc. Will be 17dpo tomorrow, got BFP on 13dpo (CD37, this was a 'short' cycle!) so it's all very very early days. purple so sorry for your loss, hope you are otherwise well, and jpeg looks like we're at a roughly similar point, scary/exciting early days! So lovely to see all going well with you kate and whatser, I remember you BFPs. Hello to everyone I haven't met yet waves!

Oh and mrs, hello again to you to, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you as well, I know you've been through the mill!